Weddings - November 2007

My son is getting married Dec 1 to a wonderful Girl. His father and I have been divorced 7 years and I have been remarried for 5. My dilema is am I suppose to attend the rehersal??? I know it is required of the grooms parents to pay for the rehersal dinner and I am positive his father is doing this, and his father is also going to be his best man , but is it proper or improper for me and my husband to attend?? My son and daughter in law to be are very ,very close to me and my husband and I dont want to do the wrong thing by showing up or not showing up. More than anything I want to be there but because I am not the one paying for anything I dont know what would be the right thing to do. Any advice would be most greatful...

2007-11-24 15:47:51 · 19 answers · asked by johnezlady 2

Just curious, anyone out there have the experienced of married with mail order bride and after she got her citizenship, she dump the husband.

2007-11-24 15:35:05 · 3 answers · asked by Lee L 2

i'm marrying a lebanese guy, and we're going to have our reception at a lebanese restaurant with lebanese food and a belly dancer! :)

anyway, my family is australian-american and they've never tried lebanese food. they're also pretty closed-minded about new foods.

what should i say to them to get them to try the new food? or is just putting it in front of them and expecting them to eat it good enough?

2007-11-24 12:32:27 · 11 answers · asked by Loon-A-TiK 4

me and by bf had a really ugly breakup, he went to my country and came back with another girlfriend while still leaving with me. And i got really upset and to get my revange i slept to one of his best friends a few times. Then i got back together with my ex after we realized that we love eachother and now we are enged.
Me and his friend agreed that we should keep this to us and never let anyone knoe, and i trust him, he is a good guy but i still feel gulty. Shold i tell my bf??? If yes how can i tell him without hurting him!!

PS: if you are plannig to judge me dont bother answer

2007-11-24 12:13:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are they happy living in the UK with you or do you think they have married you for the Visa/Money etc?

2007-11-24 11:45:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm getting married febuary of 09...when should i actually start planning it? i want more then a couple months to do it cause i want to have something kinda big.

2007-11-24 07:24:53 · 15 answers · asked by Nikki B 1

Good or bad stone? Any opinions welcome.

Thanks for your input :)

2007-11-24 06:04:39 · 12 answers · asked by kiki 6

'Are you sure you know what you are doing?'

By getting married.

We are getting married in June next year, my fiance called his cousin and she asked him to take her off loudspeaker and she asked him the above question.

She has never met me, I am courteous and say to my fiance 'tell your cousin I said hi'

I would not expect a woman who got married only 2 years ago to say this!

But I personally think she is not happy because her hubby works long hours as a manager at Macdonalds (!) while she is a stay at home mom and does not work, she has 2 kids, 3 and 9.

I however, earn my own money and very independent.
I have told my fiance that I do not want her at the wedding if she feels like this!


Why are women so spiteful?

2007-11-24 02:47:28 · 45 answers · asked by Rebz 5

2007-11-24 01:49:14 · 18 answers · asked by Yahoo Answers 1

I am designing my own order of service for the big day!

Thanks

2007-11-24 01:17:27 · 12 answers · asked by Rebz 5

Well, I'm not engaged, and don't plan to be for....atleast 3 years lol....but I am having an argument with a friend about what a groom can decide for the wedding...

I was telling my friend(a girl) that I wanted all white flowers, and of a few specific kinds. She told me that I don't have a say because it's not about me...

Why is it a big deal if I just ask that one thing?

2007-11-23 17:10:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'll try to summarize everything. We had to give my fiance's brother a ride to their parents vacation home 3 hours away. His brother told his dad that we were going to be late leaving, because I needed to see my mom... his dad went ballistic. He then told his dad that we'd have to leave their house early so that we could get back to see my mom--he still said no way.

My fiance said that if I went w/him, then we'd for sure come back. At 6pm my fiance told his dad "our dogs are home alone, this is her first t-giving w/out her dad.. and plus her friends dad died". (my dad died recently, my friends dad died yday)

His dad yelled and said "I have more sense than any of you, I'm a doctor and know what I'm talking about. Who cares if she doesn't see her mom-don't put her above us. Her friends dad is dead and it's over with.. and your dogs won't starve over night". This went on for 10 minutes.

How would you feel about this?

2007-11-23 16:51:41 · 23 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2

how long did you have to wait after buying the license?

2007-11-23 16:13:39 · 6 answers · asked by S i r i 1

does anyone think i should change my wedding dress this is it
http://www.brides.com/fashion/dresses/gallery/wedding_dresses/vendor/designer/larahelenebridalatelier/detail/142515/?offset=2&page=1

i love it but i also like these ones
http://www.brides.com/fashion/dresses/gallery/wedding_dresses/vendor/designer/larahelenebridalatelier/detail/121050/?offset=24&page=3

http://www.brides.com/fashion/dresses/gallery/wedding_dresses/runway/designer/adelewechsler/detail/132164/?offset=22&page=3

please note im having a small wedding and i dont want a big dress!

2007-11-23 10:22:53 · 45 answers · asked by Confused 3

Also, please consider the fact my father is in a nursing home recovering from a stroke and has limited mobility.

2007-11-23 08:56:19 · 5 answers · asked by Cookie777 6

2007-11-23 06:42:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've fallen in love with a restaurant that won't allow us to have a DJ or a dance. We're not overly hung up on the dance but we don't want people to just have a dinner. It's not a large group, just over 50 people, any entertainment ideas that do not involve music?

2007-11-23 06:01:38 · 21 answers · asked by susannacassie 2

My fiance and I will be getting married in the Dominican Republic next year. He wants to get married in the city where he's from and I would like to get married in the capital where I'm from. What should I do.

2007-11-23 01:32:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

before ur marriage?

2007-11-23 01:12:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

No one did for me-which is fine-but I´m just curious if someone did something for you to make it more special.

2007-11-23 00:44:14 · 21 answers · asked by Learning is fun! 4

i'm 27th.. most of my friends were married since their 24 yrs old..i'm shame with them..it makes me less confident..huhuu

2007-11-23 00:07:40 · 35 answers · asked by farah s 1

All my friends send me those photo cards with their children´s pictured on them, and I thought this year I would send them photo cards of my wedding-which includes the attendants.

How does this sound?

2007-11-22 23:57:39 · 11 answers · asked by Learning is fun! 4

I'm just not feeling the white. My wedding will be in May.

2007-11-22 23:27:52 · 16 answers · asked by Marissa: Worker of Iniquity 3

I met the girl of my dreams in August 2007 and have been dating since September 1st. I'm 21 and she's 20. Everything is going well, we communicate well, we love eachother, we like the same things and pretty much everything is perfect. I've met her parents and her mom and grandparents love me to death. I've met her dad and have had conversations with him and my girlfriend tells me he does like me. We've talked about the future and we both definitely see eachother getting married etc etc. I've planned a trip for both of us to go on a vacation close to New Years to Montana ( where I orignally grew up at and i recently moved to California in Feb of 2007) I want her to meet my family and see how she likes them and vice versa. By that time we will be dating for 5 months, and I have the whole proposal worked out and I'm going to propose to her in Montana with either writing "Will you marry Me" in the snow, with branches or carve it in a tree and all that jazz. Is it too soon or no? Thx

2007-11-22 19:24:03 · 13 answers · asked by ryananderson86 1

I probably will be..but havent been asked yet so then again
I may not be asked ( Its in April)

Its in another country and they know Im coming,
I am uncomfortable asking or suggesting in an email.
Id be hurt a bit if not asked !

any ideas?????????????????

2007-11-22 18:25:38 · 5 answers · asked by fred6636 2

i'm trying to get licensed in order to marry my friends, they live in montana does ne one knwo the process of doing so or if i have to do through a certain training... websites can be helpful... please!!!!

2007-11-22 18:20:09 · 8 answers · asked by coldilocks 3

Ive been with her for 8 months and seven days now. We are quite serious about each other (im serious about her I assure you, and she claims she is about me). We always knew that her parents would do this eventually, but we didnt expect it to happen so soon. We are only 17. She claimed that she would go against her parents when the time came, but at the present she can't, as she wishes to go to university but is not financially stable! She claims if she denies their wishes she will be disowned.

What can I do. I dont want to lose her. I know she doesn't support arranged marriage, and she does not really want to accept this, but at the present she is almost acting like she doesnt care anymore. I cant let this happen, for both of our sakes!

If anyone has any queries about my question just ask. Please, i beg you, i need help.

P.s. if it would help, my girlfriend is southern Indian, a Hindu Brahman Iyengar, her parents are quite religious, and her whole family are strict vegetarians

2007-11-22 17:26:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am engaged to be married in august of 2008. and my fiance planned most of the wedding already. but now its down to the small details and she asks me to help. when i help she doesnt like my answers, EVER. so i get discouraged. and i am no longer in the mood to help. and to be totally honest, i just have a hard time paying attention anyways.so she gets mad. i just need to know, do all women act this way when planning a wedding? and what are guys expected to do?

2007-11-22 15:59:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Having a hard time writing my wedding vows. I'm a 23 year old female getting married next month. I tell my fiance how i feel about him all the time. I'm kida on the shy side so i don't know what to write, for me to say in front of other people.... any ideas? Please help!

2007-11-22 15:11:04 · 6 answers · asked by Unique1 2

if not what wedding did you have

2007-11-22 10:36:10 · 3 answers · asked by Perfectionist 6