My fiance and I are not getting married until July 2009. We made the mistake of choosing our wedding party way to far in advance. Since we asked them, we have broken off friendships with all three of the groomsmen and then we made amends with them all. But even though we are all friends again, we are still unsure about whether to have them in the wedding party or not. Furthermore, my Maid of Honor is getting married this summer. When I asked her to be my MOH, she replied with, "Yeah, if you will be mine!" That was before they had set a date. Now that their wedding planning has gone into action, she officially asked me to be a bridesmaid. What's more, her maid of honor is my fiance's ex-girlfriend - and my ex-boyfriend's new girlfriend (small world). My ex is a groomsman in her wedding too. My fiance and I would rather not be around either of our exes, and my fiance is not even in the wedding party. I am very hurt by my friend's choice of her wedding party. How should I deal with this?
2007-11-26
16:53:30
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