we'll get marry after 2-3yrs, after our marrige i want healthy kids So i jst wanna knw tht m i doing ok ?
or
shud i go with condom?
or
shud i stop doing sex?
because i dnt wnt any type of complications after our marriage.. as i love my gf so much and i want a good future....please help me seriously...thnk u
2007-11-20 05:59:00 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
we'll get married after 2-3yrs, after our marrige i want healthy kids So i jst wanna knw tht m i doing ok ?
or
shud i go with condom?
or
shud i stop doing sex?
because i dnt wnt any type of complications after our marriage.. as i love my gf so much and i want a good future....please help me seriously...thnk u
2007-11-20 06:16:46 · update #1
I would answer your questions but I CAN'T READ IT!
If you're not old enough to type proper English, then you're not old enough to be having sex or thinking about marriage.
2007-11-20 06:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by lantern1701 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
What you are doing is not going to work, for ever.
You just got lucky so far. So count your blessings and visit a family planning or planned parent hood clinic, with your girl friend.
knowledge is the king lady luck is the queen. So make informed decisions.
If you do not then you and your GF will be faced with an unplanned pregnancy.
So be good. Use a more reliable methods of avoiding a pregnancy, heart burn and hassle of raising an unxpected child, adoption or an abortion, that may prove very bad or even fatal to your girl friend.
2007-11-20 06:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I'm confused. What does you doing the pull out method have to do with the health of your FUTURE children?!! Are you worried about hurting your gf or something? Your penis, a condom, and pulling out will not hurt the inside of your gf. If you know this LITTLE about health and anatomy, perhaps you shouldn't be having sex in the first place!!! And let me tell you: the pull out method does NOT ensure she will not get pregnant. A man ejaculates small amounts of sperm even BEFORE he climaxes. Just because you pull out at the moment of climax doesn't mean she isn't still getting sperm inside of her. The pull out method is the LEAST SAFE of any method!!! If you want to ensure she will not get pregnant and that you won't pass any disease to her then you NEED to use a condom each and every time.
2007-11-20 07:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at this rate of activity there will be one or more children by the time you marry in 2-3 years. I guess 1 -2 kids BEFORE you marry.
it is difficutlt to stop once you have started .
you BOTH need some education regarding your bodies and family planning from DR.
condom is very good idea . she also should have some backup method. shot every 3 months , birth control pill , at minimum know her cycle when she has greatest risk to avoid those days.
if you are for sure no kids .. then you only 100 percent answr is to stop .. but very hard for both people to stop 100 percent . m ore temptation .
it is better to deal with first time anxiety of seeing Dr . maybe together , than to take chance if you are not ready with children.
why worry for both of you . dr will keep your business private.
2007-11-20 06:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by Mildred S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off the pull out method is ineffective. that's what landed me a 18yr old father now 10 years ago. and it is proven that the pre-nut is the most potent of the ejaculation process. I would not recommend the abstinence method either. sex is a natural thing and you should both enjoy that experience.
I would go with the condom or ask your partner to inquire about birth control. Both are very effective and will still let you enjoy each other.
2007-11-20 06:07:20 · answer #5 · answered by lgpens25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "pull out method" does not work. Some semen comes out before you ejaculate in order to provide lubricant.
I would discourage you from having sex before marriage. Of course I am very religious, and you may not share my religous views.
If you continue to have sex, and want to avoid getting pregnant, you will need to use some form of birth control. Condoms have a bit lower success rate, primarily because people don't put them on correctly, or they use ones that have gotten old or been exposed to heat, etc.
2007-11-20 06:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by Damocles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I understand your question. Using the pull out method, condoms, or birth control pills doesn't have anything to do with having healthy kids. If she eats healthy, doesn't smoke or drink during her pregnancy, she will gave healthy kids.
If you don't want her to get pregnant before you get married, then you should use condoms. Perhaps talk to her about getting on a birth control pill. You should do everything you can to ensure you don't have children before you are ready.
Sounds to me like you're doing fine.
2007-11-20 06:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by Yup Yup Yuppers 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you keep doing that you will end up asking a question in the pregnancy section. Use a condom if you aren't ready for kids...doesn't that make sense? You are playing a sexual Russian roulette
2007-11-20 06:15:11 · answer #8 · answered by goodgirlabout2gobad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see a doctor to get professional advice, but generally people who use the pull out method are called parents.
2007-11-20 07:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by jennysmith0214 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you do know that even if you pulled out she can become pregnant right? something about the lubrication you produce. I heard that from one of my friends who became pregnant like that. So if your planning to have kids until a couple of years. I recommend you use condom, they are not 100 % sure but its worth it.
2007-11-20 06:05:06 · answer #10 · answered by mE1hOtMa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Use a condom, pull out method still leaves for a margin of error if you're trying to avoid pregnancy. good luck with the marriage.
2007-11-20 06:03:23 · answer #11 · answered by meemaw1968 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋