My MOH (and bridesmaids) are throwing me a shower. It is going to be a surprise (I know I'm having it, don't know when or where). I am wondering if I can tell them an idea for a favour. My friend (and I've seen it here) didn't have favours but had a little note saying "A donation has been made in your name to XYZ charity." I thought (and think :Þ) it's a great idea. I was wondering: if you were a MOH or bridesmaid, would you be offended if the bride told you she thought this was a good idea for her shower? Should I not do that? I think it might be kinda rude, but I think it's a better use for money that would otherwise be spent on something that will most likely collect dust (if it's not just thrown away). On the other hand, it's not my money to decide what to do with....
Also, my fiance is helping to plan the shower, which he will be attending (his family's tradition, not my idea!). Should I mention it to him and have him tell my sister (MOH)?
Thanks for any help!
2007-02-14
05:09:01
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