First if uve read my other question this kinda goes along with it.
No shes not a virgin, my fiancee, weve had sex twice and now shes afraid of it cuz it hurts. is there any way i can help to stop it from hurting her?
2007-02-14 03:49:20 · 7 answers · asked by Bret R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
first off try missionary of course to make it simple and easier for her. lubrication is a very very important part especially for girls who haven't had sex a lot. most people don't believe so but i'm a passion consultant and trust me, it does wonders. make sure she's ready.... if a girl isn't mentally ready, she won't be relaxed, causing it to hurt more
2007-02-14 04:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by akp_02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy lubricate. KY 2 in 1 Warming Massage Oil is the best (you can get it at the grocery store). She needs to lube you up and herself right before sex... that should help. You need to go very slow, and don't go very deep if it hurts her. It will take some getting used too.
If it still hurts, she should talk to her doctor.
2007-02-14 14:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by *Just Married* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read the repsonses to her question, if you hav eonly had sex twice it just takes some getting use to. Or if its really a concern go to the doctor. In general I think its a matter of postion... try her on top so she can control the depth and speed and that may help her enjoy it with in her own comfort level till her body adjusts.
2007-02-14 12:00:41 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lubrication helps, it takes a time to get used to it, of course it is uncomfortable for a while, but really, be gentle, lots of foreplay and oral, and loads of lube.
2007-02-14 12:22:04 · answer #4 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt the first few times. I had a horrible time with it but it gets better. Just be gentle and love her and help her understand. My fiance was awesome he was so patient with me.
2007-02-14 12:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lubricate lubricate lubricate and be gentle. also tell her to go to the dr as there could be a medical reason for the pain.
2007-02-14 13:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by Dawnita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggested to her to get lubricate. it works better and makes it a lot easier to have sex. it hurts for me too and my bf and i had to do this in order to enjoy ourselves.
2007-02-14 12:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋