I have completely lost it. I'm getting married in September and I was so excited, so happy. Today changed all that. My fiance asked me if I would mind not spending so much money on our wedding (I'm only planning on spending $3000) if he found us a house as opposed to renting an apartment for a year. That seemed like the wiser choice until we got on our feet, but with this we'll have to worry about a down payment. This was my first money worry.
Then I went home to talk to my mom about it. She pulled me in front of her and goes, "Do you think you can handle paying all your bills and not getting help from me when you're married and not have a nervous breakdown." Then she smiled. It made me so mad. She basically just discouraged the crap out of me. All the hope and all the happiness I had towards this has been thrown out the window. I'm left sad, worried, stressed to the max. I should be happy. Now I'm trying to plan a wedding under $2000. I don't know what to do.
2007-02-28
11:46:40
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