2007-02-14 04:41:49 · 48 answers · asked by nishaskpatial 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
How is your daughters love life any of your business?
2007-02-14 04:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by thestarhooligan 1 · 5⤊ 2⤋
I am a daughter too, and maybe your daughter's age. Maybe your daughter doesn't want to get married, and there is nothing wrong with it. Maybe she will when she finds the right person. It will happen in time. You should talk to her and find out why she doesn't want to get married. Try to be more of a friend than a mother. She might open up to you, and let you in on her life. I have seen my friends whose parents were worried because they were not getting married, and now that they are married, parents are worried that their daughters are not happy enough.
Let your daughter go with her gut feeling about what she wants to do.
I am married, but me and my husband don't want kids, and my parents are worried about that now. All I am trying to say is that parents always worry for their daughters, but you have to trust your daughter enough that she will make right decisions in her life. She is maybe looking at her life from a totally different angle than you are as her parent. I am pretty young, but have been through a lot in my life, and I believe that whatever happens in life happens for a reason, and a good one too. So stop worrying and be positive about the whole thing.
2007-02-14 09:55:25 · answer #2 · answered by A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she want to get married? Why are you unhappy? IS she a bad daughter? Does she cause you any problems? Why do you want her to marry? Is it only because you are old and want to see some grandchildren before you die? Don't be so selfish! Let her life her own life. She will get married when and if she wants to! She's your daughter and you should be happy just because she is who she is!
2007-02-14 05:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not your place to decide when & if your daughter fall's in love and get's married.Your daughter has to do what is right for her and it is her choice as to when & if she want's to get married.Sound's like you are trying to live through your daughter I suggest you leave her to her own happiness and you grow up and find yours..You should not be unhappy just because she is'nt married yet as you say and how old is she anyway...
2007-02-14 04:51:06 · answer #4 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow don't feel that way! So she's not married yet, don't pressure her into something she's not ready for. It will happen in time like everything else. Remember this is your daughter's life, not yours. She will do things at her own pace. Rushing into something will definitely end in doom. In the meantime, be happy for her health and prosperity. When you take less focus off of the marriage situation everything else will fall into place.
2007-02-14 04:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by gokusgirl_2000 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it nothing if your daughter doesn't get married. Are you feeling burden to have your daughter with your now? Let her decide what she wants in her life, because there is no point to force her to married to a guys who don't have back ground.
2007-02-14 10:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by yogasun2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Few important aspects to consider...
What are her feelings towards marraige?
How old is she?
Why getting married is so much of concern?
It's a bit difficult to answer your quedtion without understanding these facts. It would be like just shooting with the assumptions about the target.
Anyways, I'd still suggest you to forget about getting her married and make sure she's happy with her life.
:-)
2007-02-14 06:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a psychologist first..... Why should u be UNhappy if your daughter is not married. This is a very big and common problem in Indian moms that they have a habit to interfere in their kid's personal life. PLEASE let her do what she wants to!!!! YOU IDIOT.... why cant u let your child do what she wants to. Stop ruling her or tomorrow you will be un happy because she left you because of your idiotic nature.
2007-02-17 20:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The average age for American women to get married is around 30. People like to build their careers, and experience life before marriage. Don't push her, she will get married when she wants to. I waited until I was 28. I was glad I did. I was able to finish college, get a good job and buy a home. It's not about what you want, it is her life, it should be about her.
2007-02-14 04:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by rachel_ksr 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is unhappy about it too! Maybe she is happy with her life! You should love her the way she is! Come on, a man doesn't define her!!!!!! You need to get priorities straight! Thank God my mother never said that to me. Just one more thing, that we can't make mom happy. Geez!
You probably are just making her feel worse everyday, cuz she isn't married!! & That's not fair to her, at all. How would you like it?
She needs support, not your unrealisitic dreams.
2007-02-14 04:47:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
well maybe your daughter doesn't want to get married or isn't ready she doesn't have to be married to be happy she doesn't need a man all she needs are her friends and family to be there for her she will get married when shes ready so dont worry you cant rush things so much she has to find someone who she thinks is the one okay so as long as shes happy you should be too.
2007-02-14 04:46:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋