Marriage & Divorce - 9 December 2007

depending on their sexuality! Marriage is one of the joys of life that should not be denied to anyone just because of their sexual orientation.Denying the right to marry is like denying the right to vote, or the right to free speech or even the right to the pursuit of happiness.

2007-12-09 16:14:01 · 25 answers · asked by !rose!{loves life} 2

2007-12-09 16:13:13 · 13 answers · asked by Kris 1

well we are a military family so my husband is gone alot. we have been married 2 years and we have a daughter together. well he is currently away to nevada and he met some girl in a club and gave her our home number instead of his cell number. they both say nothing happened and he says she is his friends girl and they were all goin to go hang out but something in his story and her story just dont sound right. he is coming back home this weekend and the closer it gets to the day the more nervous i get. can someone give me some advice on this situation. i love my husband but i dont know how i should act around him when he gets home

2007-12-09 16:04:40 · 13 answers · asked by totally sad 1

2007-12-09 15:48:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just wondering why you think men cheat on their wives even after years of marriage and when they claim to be happily married and love their wives and family? Do you think they end up having feelings for other woman?

2007-12-09 15:42:30 · 66 answers · asked by Erin 2

hi im 29 years old and been married for 9 years, i love my wife to death but have been recently not as sexually active as i want to be 2 years ago i had a vasectomy and since they it had dwindelled my sex drive,3 days ago my wife out of the blue asked me if i be interested having a threesome with another women in hopes of restarting our sexlife, even tho this is everymans dream im having mixed emothions about it, she even mentioned going to a swingers party, i dont know what to do

2007-12-09 15:42:19 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just split with my wife, she is a mental patient and suicidal, I couldn't take it anymore so i decided to end the relationship after trying to make it work for three years. We had a daughter in 05 but when my wife tried to hurt her in 06 we had to give full custody of her to my wifes parents. now that we are split I can care for my daughter and raise her myself, i even have a baby sitter for when I'm at work. The problem is that my wifes parents will not give her back. What can I do. I love my daughter and want to raise her myself, but it seems like nothing is going my way.

2007-12-09 15:37:28 · 12 answers · asked by andrew b 2

OK, so I was talking with my cousin on the phone the other night and I heard her soon-to-be-husband saying something in the background behind her and then she said to me "oh, 'sam' (her soon to be hubby) wants you to know that his mother just LOVES you". I didn't know what to say since I've only met this woman 3 or 4 times in my life. I said "um haha, tell him I love his mom too(she really is a very sweet old lady)" and she did. Today she informs me that she is annoyed because his mom doesn't like her very much and she apparently "loves" me and she's kinda been taking it out on me since then. I don't know what to say. Did I say something wrong? Why is she acting like this? She declined my dinner invitation and has been very short with me.

2007-12-09 15:36:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently went to jail for intent to distribute, now my girl's father hates me, and i want to ask her to marry me. But before I do I need to ask her father's prmission, do you have any suggestions?

2007-12-09 15:36:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i went off the pill, and i never want to go back on again! it feels so different without the hormones. but i hate condoms.. what should i do? (married, have never had kids) (and don't plan to in the near future) (3yrs)

2007-12-09 15:26:12 · 9 answers · asked by asp 1

i am married, very happily, but i am attracted to another man!!! what do i do??? (to clarify, i am a female)

2007-12-09 15:21:05 · 40 answers · asked by asp 1

My wife spends a lot of time with a group of friends, one of which is a male. The group hangs out late at least 1 night a week, and she often stays up until 2, 3 and even 4 AM talking to the male friend after the group has left. One night she told me he IMed her at work, saying he is REALLY "in love" with her. I got pissed, but we talked about it and other issues in our marriage, and WE are now OK, however, I have not spoken with the man since the incident, and it is known that he is not welcome in my house. My wife is still friendly with him, and goes to the group hangouts that he attends. She told him what he said was not cool, but I feel she allowed it to happen to a certain extent. Now he says the statement was part of a religious cleansing process for Yom Kippor? (a Jewish holiday), where you confess things to make you feel better. I don't buy it, and am feeling more angry that he's trying to deflect blame from his actions. He is also married. What do you think?

2007-12-09 15:16:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-09 15:01:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have heard that if you change back to your maiden name in the middle of a divorce, it is free. otherwise it is $150 or so. does anyone have any more information about this?

2007-12-09 14:57:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-09 14:49:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I will try to keep it short. I work graveyard shifts at work. I came home on Saturday morning from work and my husband( I have been with him for 8 years) was cryng in pain. He kept saying his stomache hurt. He thought he was gonna die from the pain. I thought maybe it was the flu. So I dropped him off at the ER and went back home to try and sleep. Well I guess it was not the flu. He is now in the hospital in ICU, and had to have surgery from internal bleeding and ripping. Finally a doctor took me aside and said he had used a sex toy and was so aggressive with it that it ripped him inside his body. I think his colon. I'm soo angry because my husband did not tell ME this, and that he could die because of the bleeding. Then again I'm soo sad b-cuz I love him and nobody deserves the pain he is going through. He has surgery today and is still in BAD condition, they had to do a blood transfusion. What should I do? I want to love him and leave him at the same time!!! This is killing me! HELP!

2007-12-09 14:47:38 · 18 answers · asked by *♥* Igotorbs*♥* 4

I am not married, but hope to be one day soon. So I have a question to those who are married whether happy or sad. Can two people really be in a happy marriage for the rest of there lives? I've seen a lot of divorces or marriages that are just married becuz of the kids, don't believe in divorce, etc. I do believe that marriage is hardwork just like anything else in life. Well for me when I do get married I want it to be for all the right reasons. I'm the type that dont' believe in going to sleep mad, we have to talk about our problems. It just seems as if in every marriage something goes wrong.

2007-12-09 14:10:15 · 27 answers · asked by tc22 3

my bf broke up with me
i love him TO DEATH
i can't live without him in my life
but i can't live with him
he cheats
he lies...and all that stuff a good bf WOULDN'T
the question "will you marry me" psh means NOTHING when it comes to him...and "i love you" means NOTHING
i was about to break up with him becuase i hate getting hurt
i love him and i'm trying to move on..i havn't cried yet. :\
but a part of me is him..and i can't just leave him behind..
he'll come crawling back and i WANT him to but i won't take him...
idk i know what you all will say but..idk

2007-12-09 14:08:20 · 38 answers · asked by angel cage 1

Or is it only the mature ones that are monogamous?

2007-12-09 14:02:14 · 23 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4

in our village in india, i see angelina on tv. she look very nice. me is very rich, need to marry her. where me find her?

2007-12-09 13:58:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

but grown children have no obligation to help their parents if they are in need, economic need for example, and ask for help ?. Parents should expect nothing from their grown children should the parents, or the parent be sick, penniless, etc?
what are your thoughts?

2007-12-09 13:51:23 · 16 answers · asked by Idon'tlivehere 4

i confess to this guy that i like him, then i waited for him to say something for a while but he didn't so i just left the class.since i was dropping....then i saw him after 2 weeks. i was walking along school, then i felt like someone staring at me..then i glance athe corner of my eye then i saw him..then glance a few times..again he was in my face.....but i just pretended nothing happen and just left..i dont know why i did that?..but did he wanted to to talk to me or im just thinking too much?
.i'll probably wont see him again since its almost final..i think i should just move on?.....i know this doesnt belong here but ir eally need some advice..

2007-12-09 13:51:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

once you do all the paper work how long does it take for your divorce to be final no kids no property no ties

2007-12-09 13:46:17 · 17 answers · asked by ellamentopea 1

My ex-boyfriend who i left because he cheated on me wont leave me alone.He said that he is not allowing me to walk away,because he invested alot in me.I get the feeling he thinks i am his property.should i take out a restraining order against him or pepper spray him?

2007-12-09 13:44:20 · 32 answers · asked by Evita 1

I REALLY do. I have been married for 3 years, but have not been happy for the last 2. I really want to make this work, but it seems like a dead end, and everytime I try it blows up in my face. Husband says he wants to make it work, but he doesn't really try. Maybe I shouldn't say that....he may try for about 1 week, and it will be great for that week...the he will just go back. And believe me, Im not a saint myself, I have a temper, Im spoiled, but I have NEVER EVER lied to him, which is something that I get a lot. Could someone please tell me some steps that may help in saving my marriage and maybe turning us BOTH into something that the other will love, and what we can not change, learn how to live with it. I know marriage is hard and NOT in any way easy....but, it can't always be like this. Any help is appreciated...thanks...=)

2007-12-09 13:10:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-09 13:07:07 · 34 answers · asked by Could 3

I am thinking about proposing to my girl on Feb 29, do you think that this is a good idea or not?

2007-12-09 12:56:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Even if they look good, and even if they don't have kids. Indian men in particular seem to want to marry the twenty something who's unattached to anything if they can. But a single woman will go for a forty something year old guy if his pocketbook's thick enough. I know men are visual; but they might stare at a beutiful woman, and want her, but as soon as he finds out she's over thirty, he looses all interest. Y is this? He doesn't even want to find out about her or anything, whereas if she lied and said she was twenty, he'd be pursuing her as he wanted b4.

2007-12-09 12:48:20 · 29 answers · asked by Uncertain Soul 6

he got her pregnant but not sure if its his cause she had a partner as well and she dosent want to be found what can i do he dosent know were she lives she change her number i dont think he know her real name how do we look for her

2007-12-09 12:45:32 · 56 answers · asked by Nora+ 1

I don't have any assets. My parents do. I went to india for marriage. ANd in arranged marriage, the family's assets are discussed. My parents told my husband's family that I haVe no assets because I don't work. IT was discussed that I have disabilities and this is y I don't work. It was said that they do have assets and I will be getting a share of it upon their death. My husband was well aware of this and ok with it. Everything was fine and the marriage took place.

Five months later though(now), he wants a large sum of money, and is punishing me for not providing it. Divorce is dancing around in my head at this time since he knew what was at stake when we wed. I thought he married me, not my father's bank account....maybe I'm wrong. Idk. Anyway, I want to know, if I get divorced next month(hypothetically), who will get what? I have nothing...so he gets nothing right? My parents support me(I live with them), do I get anything from him? He has a job in India; but he lives at home too.

2007-12-09 12:41:21 · 8 answers · asked by Uncertain Soul 6