2007-12-09 15:01:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am 24 and have been with my husband for 9 years, (married 3). He's obviously the only guy I have ever been with sexually. I didnt marry him for his member. I didnt marry him for his money. Mind? thats tough. If he was completely stupid I might have not been attracted to him. So thats probably part of it.
The main reason I married him was the connection we had. We are still in love, and fresh, and go on dates even after 9 years.
We relate to each other and connect. We know what the other is thinking and need the other for all sorts of reasons.
I married him for the love I have for him. And the need for him in my life, and the completion he gives me.
2007-12-09 15:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by Brittany Jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married him because I truly loved him and he was the father of my children. And I wanted very much for us to be a real family. We were acting in accord as a family but wasn't married. He really didn't have any money, even though the sex was pretty good, but that is not the main thing that is important to me. And to be honest I am smarter than him. So I guess what is all boils down to is that I loved him.
2007-12-09 15:15:28 · answer #2 · answered by stepintostep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality.
2007-12-09 15:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by DilSe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind
2007-12-09 15:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by karisob 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
all three, the first we don't need to talk about, the second, I married him because he is driven and passionate, works hard for what he wants and can take care of me if we decide to have children, and if we couldn't talk about life or the news or feelings then the rest doesn't matter, but he has a great head on his shoulders too.......although there are times I can identify with the first person who posted to this thread!!! Thats marriage tho!!
2007-12-09 15:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you nursing him for years doesn't mean you have the right to take half of his trust fund. That trust is his. Have you tell him if you think about divorce? Both of you need to go to counselling together if can't talk anymore
2016-04-08 04:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything but money, that came 3 yrs later, and 2 years after that we divorced.
2007-12-09 15:14:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i married my husband for the future that i could see when looking into his eyes.
his member is alright.
he was in debt up to his eyeballs.
his mind is intriguing to no end.
2007-12-09 15:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by celticbuddha 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not for any of what you listed. I married him for his heart and for me. Because he makes me happy. And for the first time in my life, I don't have to be alone.
There's more to a marriage than sex, money or conversation. For one to base a relationship on those as motivators tell everyone of how shallow a person is.
2007-12-09 15:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by Carol T 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
His heart, his personality, his mind, n his member!
2007-12-09 15:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by That Special Someone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋