Marriage & Divorce - 23 November 2007

Why ? Don't tell me men are pigs but most are not. I think
biologically it is much easier for women not to have extramarital sex then men.

*I am not justifying extramaritial sex for men I am just looking at Data*

Ref:Kinsey

Approximately 20-25% of men and 10-15% of women engage in extramarital sex at least once during their marriage and infidelity has been found to be the single most cited cause of divorce in over 150 cultures.

2007-11-23 13:03:32 · 12 answers · asked by ensoman 5

My girlfriend and i bought my council house in a joint morgage and now she has had her family throw me out. she wants to take my name off the deeds and keep the house for herself. i was a house husband for 5 years and she just locked me out and wont give me any of my stuff..

2007-11-23 12:42:08 · 15 answers · asked by jaye 1

I'm not legally seprated from my husband. He just told me that he's moving back to Ga. in a one bedroom apartment and he wants to get our 15 month daughter for a couple of months. He works at night and I'm worried that he might run. What can I do? Can he actually take her? I'm not working but I've got a place to live and food for us to eat. He helps buy her stuff though.

2007-11-23 12:40:07 · 9 answers · asked by Danielle T 1

There is just the tiniest scratch on our bumper, and nothing happened to her car. Her cousin isn't worried about it...

2007-11-23 12:38:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got married with this man who loves his family, especially his mother very much since she brought him/his sibling up almost by herself.

We've been married for a year; I came to the U.S. three years ago where is none of my family living. I came from a broken family, and I've been barely talking to my father over 5 years. I've always wanted to be in a marriage where I could feel secure and connected to my spouse, and spend time together a lot.

My husband is very independent person, and do things independently too. For him, being with one person all the time is not natural. He would go to see his family/friends as much as possible for weekends.

Since he is 32 y.o, he has so many important things and responsibility in his life and he cannot put me first or the biggest concern, or make me his most important person in his life.

He is my most important person in my life though I love my friends and family. Is wishing to be the most important person in a spouse's life is insane?

2007-11-23 12:18:08 · 11 answers · asked by rbk 2

2007-11-23 12:11:16 · 16 answers · asked by Kriz S 1

been feeling hopeless, he goes off on me every other day, how do I get myself out of this depression. I have to stay married because I can't take care of myself and I love him and he loves me, its just that he suffered awful abuse when he was a child, subsequent adult behaviour, etc. Its either stay married to him or go into adult foster care and I have already given up half of my social security to marry him. We have just bought a trailer together. I have got to make my marriage work, how do I bounce back ?

2007-11-23 12:10:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so I have twin girls 2years old
when i gave birth the babies father wasnt there so they got my last name since there he provides all the money part he does not live with us he live in a different state 2 hours from here everything was going ok but i told him that we can be friends nothing else because im done with him now he said to me that he want the babies to carry his last name which I dont have problem with they have the rite to carry his last name. but now his telling me that he will take my doughters away from me ? I have no mental problems i dont do drugs there is no men in my house i took care of my kids from day 1 bymyself n is not easy with twins they got all their medical records up to date they are very acive and im the mother of course i want my babies to stay with me his lawyer called me to ask for the ssn because the have to pass a DNA test before he changes the last name n he is telling me that he will take them away from me can he really do this ??

2007-11-23 12:09:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

It`s happend again in my mariage, I love the other man.He is youner than me, hundsome and he isnot mariage yet. And he love me so much. Almost every night we have a contact. But WJust talk and tell what we feel.

2007-11-23 12:00:26 · 12 answers · asked by riva n 1

I find it a little intimidating and as though I'm not "experienced" enough. I'm at 8. What if she is proud of all them and still thinks about them and it turns her on?

2007-11-23 12:00:15 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

a lott. and he dosent even talk to me anymore. we broke up about a month ago and he said he wanted to be friends, but he just ignores me on myspace and aim and thinks i hate him? wtf. and then on his myspace he puts up pictures of him and his little slu* that he claims to be "just friends" with, but i'm thinking she was the reason for our breakup. because theres no other reason i could think of. (she hates me).
but anyways, we dont have any classes together (my ex and i)
so we don't talk...at all. but i miss him a lot. what do i do? just forget about him?

2007-11-23 11:49:50 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ 2

I love to shop and spend money, but I am also fiesty. I'm 26, and I want a man (not a boy) who is older than I am but is also my type. Why can't I find someone who can handle or "put up" with me.

2007-11-23 11:46:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

take a litlle time to read below

we are going trough a distance relationship and overall, it has been great...but now with all the school work i have to do i find myself little time to dedicate to her....and she needs constant attention from me now....she says she loves me very much and that she doesn't want to loose me, i already told her to relax and that she doesn't have to think about that because its not going to happen, but it doesn't changes anything.........however she tried to change a few days ago....giving me a break so to speak...only to discover 2 days after she can't handle and needs attention from me....

she didn't needed this much attention one year ago, why do girls feeld this way?

2007-11-23 11:38:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

my x husband refuses to let my child come to visit me well hse is 12 and i think she might want to come and live with me. can i do this for free???i mean get custody of her.

2007-11-23 11:37:46 · 6 answers · asked by JENN-JENN 2

I have been dating my boyfriend for over 8 months now. he is jewish and i dont have a religion. i grew up in a baptist family though. his mom really does love me she says so, but will not allow me to be part of the family becasue iam not jewish...should i accept that and move on....or can we make it? i want to marry him and i know he loves me very much...but how can i explain to him that iam okay with us raising our children jewish and that i do want to marry him???

2007-11-23 11:34:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My father, my best friend, died last January. It still seems like yesterday that it happened. I feel such an emptiness inside and miss him more than I can explain. Never to hear his jokes, see him carve the turkey on the holidays, and the empty seat at the table is just too hard. Have any of you found a way to help in the healing process over the holidays?I used to love the holiday season, now I dread it and the rest of the family doesn't seem to be having a hard time with it.

2007-11-23 11:10:25 · 23 answers · asked by heartwhisperer2000 5

You cannot deny the truth that many religions allow it and I do not know any religion that allows a woman to have more husbands to their liking. Centuries pass by, but injustice and ridiculous laws and ways of life remain in tact.
Any remedy?

2007-11-23 11:09:37 · 12 answers · asked by Nimit 2

So please tell me easier to do it on your own without a lawyer, filing out your own paper work or get a second job it's worth the money?

2007-11-23 10:53:07 · 9 answers · asked by strgmom 1

Actually I asked her to leave after I caught her cheating on me. I still love her and have been reading self-help books to try to make myself more attractive to her. Sometimes she's super warm towards me and we even have sex. Other times she cannot stand me because she finds that I talk to other women occasionally. She still tells me how attracted she is to me but won't come back. My four little girls tell me that she tells them that Mommy and Daddy will never live together again. I tell the little ones to pray for our family to heal. At what point do I let go and quit trying?

2007-11-23 10:48:41 · 12 answers · asked by Mike 2

I had to get a temporary restraining order against my husband, for Domestic Violence...Verbal abuse. My court hearing is coming up in 2 weeks. I have a 9 month old son whom is also on the protected order from his father. Does anyone know what I can expect, I have no money, I tried speaking to a lawyer and they charged me $100 dollars for a bunch of lawyer talk that didn't help much just to explain my case, then for them to help me for one court visit it would be $5,000. I know I have to do it on my own how can I prepare myself to ensure to keep my husband away from my son and I and to ensure I get granted custody???? Help anyone???

2007-11-23 10:45:01 · 6 answers · asked by strgmom 1

WAT KIND OF THINGS SHOULD I DO IN THE BEDROOM WITH MY HUSBAND???>>>........A QUESTION FROM AN ADVICE COLUMN

2007-11-23 10:22:28 · 8 answers · asked by Donika J 1

LOok im the type of gurl that s not the gold digger, looking for money and material things from guys, but i alwayz end up with losers who have no sort of future.
Is it time for me to start being more selective and put myself up on a pedistal saying "your not good enough for me? n look down on guys

My current ex manz is broke, an ex felon did 8 years in and out the Penitentary, gets fired from his job all the time, lives at home in the living room of his mothers house in the housing projects in the g , two kids by two differnet babys mothers, drug deals on the corner some time, no car, i met him 6 months ago , he still hasnt moved up in life or anything.

My ex mans of 3 years lives at home with his moms, drives a old car, has sort of a job, has a babys mom and a son, he s the same place i met him in his life 3 years ago he hasnt moved up the lader and he's not hard working go getter typ

2007-11-23 10:17:41 · 9 answers · asked by ErOtIC DeSiReS 2

2007-11-23 10:16:03 · 37 answers · asked by back2future 5

I'm going through the process of being diagnosed with breast cancer, and I'm worried about what could happen with my son. My husband, his step-father, is really the only dad that he has ever known. He sees his father approximately once a month for a weekend visit, and his father pays $200 a month child support. Is there any way that legally, if I die, my husband can retain full custody, but still allow my son to visit his real dad? What if my son's dad fights this, will he be able to win?

2007-11-23 10:13:02 · 9 answers · asked by Amanda M 5

2007-11-23 10:11:58 · 9 answers · asked by back2future 5

Everytime my in laws call and I answer the phone they immediately ask for my husband and does not bother to find out how am I doing but when they speak to my husband they extend their regards to me. I dont understand.?

2007-11-23 10:09:29 · 9 answers · asked by aslem 1

I have been married for three years. My marriage has been one issue after another. My husband has lied about money, birthdate, phone calls, work issues, child custody issues, parental issues and many other things. My husband also starting talking with another women only after six months of marriage. He then didn't know what he wanted. He left for several days. My trust was broken and I talked him into marriage counseling. He went for awhile by himself. I attended a few times. I wasn't aware of any issues concerning our marriage. Now, the lying continues such as watching pornos and lying that he didn't do it. He has an issue pertaining to being able to tell the truth honestly. My personality is tell me and we'll work through it. I love my husband, but my self esteem is lower than it has ever been. I always wonder whether he will astray. On the other hand he is a good husband with kids and he wants everyone to see he has a good wife. Suggestions?

2007-11-23 10:02:40 · 8 answers · asked by tiger25526 1

Would you enjoy that?

2007-11-23 10:01:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband and i have been married for 13 almost 14 years we have 5 children 4 of which we have adopted. he has recently went back to truck driving and then came in a few weeks later to let me know that he doesn't love me anymore. we have always had such a loving relationship so this came as a total suprise. he has always been very affectionate with me and now he is so distant. this has been going on for about 4 months now. when he gave me some of the reasons why i excepted it told him i can do this so in one year we will get a divorce.this beening his decision like every thing else that weekend he was all over me and very much into my needs and me (oh by the way his time at home is still spendt at home with us) now we are back to him being distant and shut down can anyone tell my what the heck is going on i should tell ya that i do work i do go to college and i have always taken care of the house and kids he works that is it not that i'm not grateful for that & is the love of my life

2007-11-23 09:51:30 · 15 answers · asked by jbbaby 1

2007-11-23 09:49:35 · 12 answers · asked by precious 1