Marriage & Divorce - 23 November 2007

I am with someone who makes me really happy in most ways, there is only one BIG problem, SEX!!!! I am the one who wants it more, I know its not the only thing that matters, and I am not wanting it too be... Just at times, i feel like who I am with dont want to touch me, it makes me feel like there is something wrong with me... I dont want too leave who i am with, i love this person with all my heart, so if you are going to tell me too leave who i am with plz dont even bother replying too this... I am just looking for someone who may beable too tell me, how i could get who i am with too maybe want me more... or tell me someways too keep sex off my mind at times.. i have even tryed masterbation IT dont work it just makes me what who i am with even more!!!!!!!!!!! HELP ME PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-23 09:49:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

He says its just a piece of paper i say its the most important thing you can do in life and to best way to bring up children in.What is the point of being boyfriend and girlfriend forever i dont want that i want to get married!

2007-11-23 09:46:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I sometimes see children in stores roller skating in their tennis shoes. Its sooo cute!! They have these shoes that have wheels in them to and they can walk or skate. I love roller skating and asked my husband if he would make me some shoes like that but he said no and I didn't want to accept that so I kept asking him and then he got mad at me and wouldn't buy me the earrings today that we were planning on getting due to the sales. I want to know what I can do to change his mind!!

2007-11-23 09:40:34 · 11 answers · asked by Little Angel 1

2007-11-23 09:28:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

to give our relationship one last try. i told her all of our probs. i explained to her that if things won't change that i am prepared to leave tommorow. she is always broke. i understand she has 2 KIDS (7 & 4) but as a parent she should still try to save money. what if emergencies happens?? she has said she would try. i have asked her to set some rules for the kids. i have tried to stress to her that the kids do need rules & she needs to be more involved w/ her kids. she has been letting her mother raise the kids & that's bad because in the future they won't listen to her they will call grandma. i have been told i can't discipline her kids at all. my gf says it wil take time & the reason she has her grandma help is because when she first had kids she wasn't ready for them & was never happy she had them. i tried. i'm at wits end. i don't make much money. i want to get a 2nd job so that things will get better. she was pissed when i told her. now she wants me to spend money on her!!

2007-11-23 09:24:55 · 5 answers · asked by petey 1

2007-11-23 09:20:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since my husband and I have known each other, we have gone from attending our church service on Sunday, followed by Bible study...to him attending meetings He's on several committees) every week, 2 services each Sunday along with Bible Study and now possibly doing 11 weeks of classes followed by 3 more weeks of class to ready us for more members in the congregation. I enjoy my Sunday morning service and Bible Study. However, the additional service on Sunday evenings and in a little over a month, weekly classes...I think I am going to be overwhelmed to say the least. I have a full time job, have three grown children that i enjoy being with, plus an aging mother than will require more care. I also mentor a little girl in a neighboring county that I make time to be with. I'm afraid my husband is not going to be happy when he learns that I am seriously considering NOT taking the 11 weeks of classes. Should I feel guilty for not moving forth in the church with him?

2007-11-23 09:20:43 · 6 answers · asked by lsah1852 3

I know my friend's parents who were married 40 years plus, and then died within years of each other.

Their son and daughter eventually got married, and both got divorced.

Why is it that this generation can't hold a marriage. And I find it funny why this son and daughter got divorced, because they usually say if a parent's marriage lasted so will their future generations? Can anyone prove me wrong or right?

2007-11-23 09:01:29 · 9 answers · asked by DREENA 2

I know it's not the only thing that matters, but I REALLY enjoy it...i just want too know everyone out look on it??

2007-11-23 08:57:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been with the same woman for 7 years now and all of a sudden i have lusting after other women. I have never cheated on her and never would its just like i want to see them naked. I have never hinted at this to anyone its just how i feel inside. Its driving me insane please help. I need this to stop

2007-11-23 08:56:09 · 5 answers · asked by jasen s 2

My ex hadn't seen our son since Sept. He lives 4 hrs away. Mon. night I got a text from him saying that he was at his parents & I could bring our son over on Tues. So I took him over there at 5:45 Tues evening. I packed our son enough clothes to stay til Sun. Our divorce agreement states that he gets him Tues. at 6 til Sun. at 6. Yesterday he sends me a text about 6 asking where I want to meet to pick up our son. I told him this was his week & I would pick him up Sun. He says he has to leave & he guesses he will just let our son stay w/his parents since I don't "want him". The thing of it is...I always want our son..& I always have him...I am the one that takes care of him all the time. It seemed to me like he didn't want him & neither did his parents. I feel like they should spend time w/him b/c he misses his dad & loves seeing him. Am I wrong for doing that b/c now I'm thinking about just going&getting him. I just thought that they should share some responsibilities.

2007-11-23 08:55:46 · 8 answers · asked by love my life 2

I'm in love with a beautiful woman as well as she is with me. We like everything the same as each other esp christmas our fav season. her husband hates it, claims its a suicidal season. He does not help her with anything, laundry, dishes, cleaning, cooking, bathing the kids, dressing them, he wont even go outside and play with his 4 yr old son... excuse " I work all week I want to relax on the W/E. He expects her to drop what she is doing whenever, wherever, and whoever is there, and give him sex whenever he feels like it which basically 24/7. If she refuses he gets in a mad about it.. ex. he has called her a whore b/c she refused, he has hit her, choked her for refusing. this is no lie I have had to throw him off her b/c of his anger problem his whole fam has ADHD and bi-polar disorder. He has a VERY VERY short temper.. He has litterly beaten his son for having too much fun as he says.. there is so much i could say just not enough room there is more you need to hear.. will you listen?

2007-11-23 08:47:25 · 14 answers · asked by Andrew 2

2007-11-23 08:39:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom and dad are of the old school. Their culture (which I believe is behind 1000's of years behind but which I respect) dictates that if you bring home a girl/guy that it means you are serious with the person or bringing them home to be introduced to mom or dad as a precursor to marriage. So, hence we 4 kids in our late 30's are never allowed to bring anyone home unless for potential marriage.
Note: We kids respect our parents culture, however we are born here in America and go with the flow.
Example: My brother's girlfriend (who he will not marry) invited my family over to her home for Thanksgiving Dinner, but mom and dad refused to go because they are not serious, or considering marriage. My mother even told the girl kindly that it is her culture and explained it to her without offense.

So, what is your thoughts?

2007-11-23 08:37:54 · 7 answers · asked by DREENA 2

we were together for almost three years and he wont talk to me at all what can i do to get him to talk to me

2007-11-23 08:30:38 · 16 answers · asked by babe88 1

A man is suing his wife for divorce on the grounds of infidelity. Their first child and second child, whom they both claim, are blood groups O and AB respectively. The third child, whom the man disclaims, is blood type B. Can this information be used to support the man’s case? Why?

2007-11-23 08:28:20 · 8 answers · asked by Melissa 2

I'm thinking of a woman in the mid 20s early 30s range.

Once you are married, how many times a week do you see yourself wanting to have sex?

Do women ever want sex 4-5 times a week? Do brides want it much less than their husbands? Or would you want to have sex as often as possible with him? What's your ideal range?

2007-11-23 08:26:10 · 15 answers · asked by IrishFan2011 3

I think if you wouldn't do it in front of your spouse, it's cheating. Any other rules of thumb??

2007-11-23 08:20:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my boyfriend for 21 months, living together for about 14 of those months. Every time the subject of marriage comes up he blows it off just as quickly, saying "I'm in no hurry.. not for me.. etc"

I know right now it is not a good time, he is going through a hard time financially. And I am in no hurry either, but it seems like he's saying it's never going to happen. I am good enough to spend all my hard earned money paying the rent, buying the groceries, etc. But not to ever make a commitment to? I feel almost as if once things improve for him, he'll be gone.. to find someone better. I feel like I am being used! I just want to know if it's ever a possibility, or if this relationship is simply going nowhere.

I am not willing to make a compromise on this, and I won't force him to do it if it's something he doesn't want for his future. If I compromise, I will simply be filled with resentment and that won't make the situation any better.

2007-11-23 08:15:18 · 27 answers · asked by bluecavygirl 1

I was married to my husband on 6/2/07 but just today I found a bill in a stack of papers for him (from 10/19) that included a charge for a movie that I looked up and it is a porno (had an obviously porn name too but I wanted to make sure) the charge was for purchase on 7/19.

Now I am not against porn, but I am against secrets...had he told me maybe I wouldn't have cared. But we had not even been married for a full month!!!!! Would you be upset too????

2007-11-23 08:03:25 · 12 answers · asked by C.C 2

If you take a lady out and you treat her real special, like a woman's deserves to be treated and you make her feel like she's the most important woman in the world, does it trigger something in her brain that she is too good for you, or do they really like the treatment.

2007-11-23 07:48:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-23 07:45:09 · 11 answers · asked by Salvador A 1

i have 2 beautifull babies and there're father is great but he and i dont get a long at all with me not having a place to live due to domestic filince between him and myself i feel i have no choice but to go to my oldest daughter home and let him keep the girls since hes got a very very well paying job and a beautifull home i feel i have nothing to offer my babies for now but to leave them with him breaks my hart what do i do?

2007-11-23 07:39:06 · 7 answers · asked by island girl 1

If a girl beg and cried infront of a guy ask him for another chance and back to her..most of the guys will say yes? or just pissed off?

This girl got a very bad attitube ,always nag him becos of a small issue.this girl actually got a 2 years old kid.she asked this guy to marry her..this guy never think of this before because he's just 24years old.he actually avoid her for 1 week ..he is so sick of her bad character.they work together at the same place.his family actually dislike this girl ..this happened 1 week ago between this guy is a gemini=)

2007-11-23 07:33:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I cheated on my wife. We were married 2 years. we only knew each other 2 years and 6 months. we had a "shotgun wedding" she treated me like sh**, never was intimate with me, never went out with me, basically it was like living with my sister. i cheated on her and i am with this amazing woman whom i have falling head over heels for. i know i did the wrong thing by cheating but we ended it and are filing for divorce. and yes shes mad about the cheating, but we are getting along for the sake of our daughter. she obviously hates the girl i am with now and is making her life miserable by calling and harassing her and calling her family and harassing them. is there anything i can do to help my ex through this? i still care for her feelings and especially since she is my daughters mom....

2007-11-23 07:22:26 · 46 answers · asked by jenn_gen719 2

i have married for 10 years i have tolerated my husbands cross dressing allowing him to dress in my presence one night every fortnight but for the last year he has been dressing every opportunity,i have come home on several occasions to find him dressed and obviously aroused,last weekend i came home 2 hours early caught him fully dressed he was oblivious that i was standing in our bedroom doorway as he was wearing headphones to my disgust lying on our bed legs in the air he had a large vibrating penis inside himself,is this behavior normal amongst cross dressers?,is he gay?..should make him pack his frocks and show him the door? ....Janice

2007-11-23 07:21:16 · 42 answers · asked by janicemchaffie 1

K i've been married for 4months to my wife but lately she's so wrapped up in her career that we hardly spend time together. or when she's home she's too tired to do anything. Is her work related issues more of a priority than her family. I have 2 kids? What should I do?

2007-11-23 07:21:03 · 8 answers · asked by Dcloser 1

I'm married for 10 years and i can say my life is wonderful, however..there are times i dreamed about my ex bf.. i tried to erase him in my mind..in my life...i felt guilty with my husband.. i love my husband and i don't want to hurt him...

2007-11-23 07:14:51 · 15 answers · asked by anonymous 1

And most of the food? Also he is always complaining about the bills, lights, etc. If we run out of milk or butter he will make a big deal about it. Also when we go out and he pays for dinner if its over $70 he will, be like.... $70 gone like that! I would think if you were trying to be romantic and dine out you would not say things like that. We have been together now for three years, he has always been like this and it really bugs me. I have a son so I feel like I have to pay half. But I always thought my future husband would be different. And I am usually unhappy and go to bed sleepy and just depressed.

2007-11-23 07:05:02 · 39 answers · asked by ~*~Amie~*~ 1

to ask their ex about his/her expenses? Or maybe it is just my ex being nosy. We get along pretty well now considering he left me for another women. But we have a son and that is what you have to do. But, whenever we talk he seems to focus on money. I am taking a vacation - how much was the airfare? I bought a new car - how much did it cost? I did some renovations in my house - how much did you spend? Today I finally told him - none of your business (in a joking manner). But, he also tells me about his expenses, how he is changing jobs, how much his girlfriend spent on her car, etc. Anyone else's ex crazy like this or is it just mine? Any reasons on why he needs to know this stuff or why he thinks I need to know about his life?

2007-11-23 07:00:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous