I am with someone who makes me really happy in most ways, there is only one BIG problem, SEX!!!! I am the one who wants it more, I know its not the only thing that matters, and I am not wanting it too be... Just at times, i feel like who I am with dont want to touch me, it makes me feel like there is something wrong with me... I dont want too leave who i am with, i love this person with all my heart, so if you are going to tell me too leave who i am with plz dont even bother replying too this... I am just looking for someone who may beable too tell me, how i could get who i am with too maybe want me more... or tell me someways too keep sex off my mind at times.. i have even tryed masterbation IT dont work it just makes me what who i am with even more!!!!!!!!!!! HELP ME PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-23 09:49:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well me and her are married, I am 23 and she is 38..
2007-11-24 01:54:19 · update #1
Need more information on the person you are with. What is their age?
It just makes me think that they are either too young and is not interested in sex because that person is not ready. If that is the case, then you'd better wait till that person is ready or you will loose that person all together.
If your lover is over 20 and is not interested, then maybe you just might have a problem with him/her. They might already be seeing someone else or has psychological issues.
What ever the case, you need to talk with that person and tell him/her how you feel.
Good luck.
2007-11-23 09:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be frightened or turned off by your drive. Some men are like that.
Your best bet is to talk with him openly and honestly about your needs.
Good luck.
2007-11-23 17:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they feel its wrong if you arent married, this is marriage and divorce section not shack up.I dont know if you are married or not, but if you are talk to them, but face reality you cannot change them.
2007-11-23 18:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is to discuss your desires openly with your significant other. get things out in the open, try more seduction (sexy lingerie, candles, massages, etc), watch porn together if that suits you.... try new things to get them interested. never know what really turns someone on.
my husband really enjoys me to be "in charge".
give it a try... and good luck!!!
2007-11-23 17:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u don't have kids tell him that u really want some kids mabey that'll make u feel better?
2007-11-23 17:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋