Marriage & Divorce - 23 November 2007

I want to do something BIG! I though to taking her to Hawaii, Paris, or Jamaca. But I don't really know what she would like. Where should I take her? Here are some of her characteristics.

She teacher high school US History and Government.
She loves warmer places.
We have already been to Canada, Japan, China, Tiawan, Africa, and Alaska.

2007-11-23 15:18:23 · 14 answers · asked by Coach K 4

my wife freaked out when i said sex is imprtant, she even said to find some slutt to F**k. i love her and don`t quite understand whats the deal.oh and we were arguing about how we have sex about 2 to 3 times a month

2007-11-23 15:17:46 · 9 answers · asked by David P 3

I'm married 31 years old and having an emmotional affair with the man at work. Can someone tell me why this have happened and how to fight this? I have a loving husband and I love him too. He will do anything for me I feel like I don't deserve him. He even told me that I can go with the other man if it is going to make me happy. I feel so stupid and I act like a stupid at work .You can read on my face that I like this man. Cannot control my self, just getting angry at home with my husband and at work with the man I like. I don't want to like him and don't want this to happen to me. My husband is only man I have ever had and I want this to be like that.

2007-11-23 15:16:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok heres the deal. Me and my guy have been having problems. Recently i just found out he is still married to his wife who i thought was his ex. He sends there son a $100 a week. But dont give me nothing unless i ask for it and it goes toward gas, bills, and our son mainly. We live with my parents cuz he promised to get us a place but didnt' we been here a yr. He dont like me going off with friends. I dont even have any friends cuz he was always jealous. Im just know waking up and smelling the coffee. Cuz the other night i told him i had a friend saying he was coming down and wanted to see the baby. Well he got mad and thought i was going to cheat and told me not to go off.(i barely leave the house) And if i leave the baby at the house that he will come and take it and ill never see him again. I thought that was very wrong! And the guy never came buy (me and him grew up together and me and his mom are friends) But the point is he treaten to take my son from me. Its not the first time

2007-11-23 15:11:48 · 4 answers · asked by JennyP 2

For my own personal interest, I'd like both men and women to share their marriage expiriances.

How old were you when you got married?
Did you regret getting married at that time?
Did both parents support your decision ?
Was married life different from what you think it would be like?
Did it work out?

Thankyou=]

2007-11-23 15:11:39 · 25 answers · asked by ~Chelsea~ 4

2007-11-23 14:53:25 · 9 answers · asked by grrr!! 2

I think my husband spends way too much time with his friends and I am ready to leave him over this. Every weekend ist golf, cards, or something.

I am just about ready to leave him over this. We have not talked the past two days, I told him to go talk to his friends since he loved them so much. And our sex life is non existent over this. Why give him any, if he isnt willing to spend time with me? He is getting ready to deploy in less than a month and I dont think it's much to ask, to stay with me.

What should I do? I feel useless and not needed in this marriage. I honestly think that if he were married to his friends he'd be happier as would I.

2007-11-23 14:50:41 · 14 answers · asked by lalala 4

I dont wanna spend more than 100 bucks because money is tight.....what can I get him?? ANY ideas would be great!!

2007-11-23 14:50:24 · 10 answers · asked by peterson51785 3

Ok, from the 1st time i met my inlaws, including his sister, i liked them , and they liked me... well a year has passed since and we recently got married... he is military so while he's deployed i am stuck here having to visit them and keep in contact with them, WHICH was GREAT.. i didn't mind it.. UNTIL recently.. his mom and sister made up some junk about a conversation we had.. pretty much turned my words around and made me seem like i was this crazy stuck up person... i know i didnt say anything wrong and he knows i didnt... but when they finally calmed down, they said they only did that because they were jealous because he was married now, blah blah blah.... so now i dont call or visit anymore... i wont because i dont think they are right for what they did, but he wants me to blow it off and just forget about it... Should i just suck it up or stand my ground?

2007-11-23 14:41:24 · 13 answers · asked by soldiersgurl 2

Here's the situation: 2 people going through a divorce and they have one child. Though it's not final yet, both parties and lawyers have come to an agreement until the court date, as far as visitation, child support, etc.

He pays $440 a month for child support, and provides medical insurance for the child (and since they are still technically married, his medical insurance still covers her, as well.) They have agreed that, regarding the child, any medical expenses NOT covered by insurance would be split 50/50.

So my question is...when she takes the child to the doctor and has a copay, is the father obligated to pay half that copay? Or, would that fall under expenses she should pay with child support?

2007-11-23 14:38:08 · 11 answers · asked by SmartyPants 4

We rented a home about 6 months ago, and he decieded he was tired of the family life and wants to move on. So he is leaving us penniless and with no available income. He is only thinking about himself and not about where the kids and I will be going. He is trying to rent the house to some other people, out from underneath me so he can get his name off the lease. Since both of our names are on the lease, doesnt he have to have my permission or dont I have to say I want out of the lease also. Can he just get someone else in here and have the management company hand me an eviction notice when hes through. Thank you for taking the time to read my question. I am trying to rent out a room the master at the moment so that the kids and I have a place to stay but its taking a while.

2007-11-23 14:37:45 · 4 answers · asked by aalshafi 1

Growing up I always ended up babysitting for families while their parents were out at New Years Eve parties. Since I've had my daughters, I have no gone away for New Years Eve. My oldest is 8 years old and my youngest is 9 months. Thinking about it now- I feel guilty for wanting to go out for New Years Eve- my oldest gets to stay up every year and watch the ball drop etc and she loves it. Am I wrong for feeling guilty and thinking we should stay home with our kids? Or am I just being 'crazy' and we should use New Years as an excuse to get out? What do you do for new years? Do you stay home with your children and have a party with them or do you get a sitter and go out?

2007-11-23 14:35:21 · 9 answers · asked by Amy Clark 5

I am tired of traveling into the city to see a Domme. Can anyone suggest a way to find someone in my area to dominate me?

2007-11-23 14:31:37 · 5 answers · asked by slaveboy_43 2

My partner and i broke up a few days ago.
I have plenty of friends to help me and guide me through the seperation process and to show me how to get her back but my ex has know one to talk to!
I have asked one of her old friends who i trust and get along well with to offer suport to my ex and help her work out her feelings for me.
Was this an ok move?

2007-11-23 14:29:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

With another married man at work? I want to quit my job, but I'm staying there because I need the health care and money and I can't afford to find another job right now. But I keep missing and longing for someone else who is not my husband. This other man at work, I think he no longer cares for me, but I still do.

What should I do? I don't want to hide it from my husband, but if I tell him the truth, I don't know what will happen.

2007-11-23 14:27:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

You try to help people, Still they cheat? Why?

2007-11-23 14:26:44 · 3 answers · asked by Khartree S 2

Why is it that men with good jobs and money get the women? Its attractive to have a lot of money and a good job because it shows they can handle themselves?

2007-11-23 14:25:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems like we have lost our sexual drive for one another. We have been together for 3 years and I understand that some off the sensation will be forgotten..but right now it's hard to even find it. Have you been through a similar situation and if so what cured it, if anything.

2007-11-23 14:21:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for 2 1/2 years. My husband was a virgin. He just got back from Iraq and we're supposed to be trying to get pregnant. But lately he only wants to talk about bringing other people into the bedroom.

I hate the idea. Its grosses me out and makes me feel as though I'm not good enough. We've never had any problems til now. I don't know what to do.

The Bible is pretty specific on how God feels about sex outside of marriage and I don't want to violate God's Word but at the same time I want my husband happy.

If I can't satisfy him and I don't want other people with us should I tell him to go get it out of his system and I'll be here when he gets back???????????

If he does that then he may leave me or never stop the trysts but if I don't he might leave me or just recent me for the rest of our marriage.

He can't even preform anymore without talking about other people.

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-23 14:03:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or should I say, never wants to. We have been married for a little over a year, and he never initiates sex, and when I do, he is too "busy" or "tired" or not in the mood. I have tried everything from pretty nighties, candlelight, everything you can think of to turn him on to me! I have gained some weight since we got married (hardly any) but I ask him and he says that does not effect him at all. It all makes me very sad. This is the one thing only I can share with him, and I feel like we have lost our connection. I feel completely and totally rejected because he is no longer touchy feely or affectionate at all.

What are your suggestions?

2007-11-23 14:02:46 · 17 answers · asked by Pinklady 2

2007-11-23 13:57:52 · 4 answers · asked by let H 1

the agency demanding to know the whereabouts of his wife, whom he had ordered not to leave the house. The wife was cowering in Karyn's office after being referred by her physician for suspicious bruises.

2007-11-23 13:50:45 · 13 answers · asked by bearer8 2

A woman I know challenged me to pick out and wear a woman's thong. Ive never done this before, but I dont think its that big of a deal and I'm willing to do it. Ive narrowed it down to these three and I'm trying to decide which would be the best.

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From a woman's standpoint, which do you think would be the best for me to go with?

2007-11-23 13:46:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

. She said to me "aww. your so cute"
.She isnt afraid to touch me she sometimes touches or rubs agiasnt my arm
. Makes frequent eye contact "the eye contact were you feel like she is waiting for something"
. Sometimes says whats up but she generaly ignores me
. Seems nervous around me I was helping her with something once and she berly spoke a word
. She has tried to partner up with me before in science

It may seem obvious but she ignores me and doesnt really make an effort to get to know me. We have know each other for about a year but where not at the friends level.
I would talk to her but i just get so nervous i cant talk to her. oh ya were 18 shes 3 months older but i dont think she knows that



I really do care about her. when i look her in the eyes they just have this glow that really makes me think she feels the same way


she is not shy at all. like she talks around me just not to me

2007-11-23 13:39:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

In the midst of our divorce, my wife lied and told me that she was taking our son to California for the holiday and come to find out, she sent our son with her mom and she turned around and flew to New York. Is this good ammunition?

2007-11-23 13:39:14 · 4 answers · asked by SexyChocolate 2

To me it seems nowadays that people marry for every other reason except love. Agree or disagree?

2007-11-23 13:38:07 · 13 answers · asked by mz_neemarie 4

My husband and I have been married for 7 years and are pretty happy. Lately we have had a lot of bills- medical, fixing up the house,and a little credit card debt. We have been fighting about it a lot. I handle the finances and he doesn't- I really would like him to take over so he can see the numbers in front of him every time he sits down to send checks. I actually pay for a lot of our bills too and I just want him to realize what I have to deal with-especially when he wants to buy something stupid and expensive like xbox 360,and I tell him we can't afford it. Not that I don't want him to buy things for himself, he just doesn't get it that sometimes you have to budget.
So does anyone have any advice out there with what works for you?

2007-11-23 13:36:23 · 11 answers · asked by red99 3

My husband cheated. I just wonder about how his friends might feel about me now. I've never been close to any of them. Would they be nervous around me now? Would they look down on me a bit? It makes be feel awkward to be around them because I suspect that they knew. At least some of them, anyway. I could ask my hubby, but I don't know if he would really know the answer to that. Weird question, I know, but I hope to get some honest answers. We are trying to rebuild the relationship for now.

2007-11-23 13:31:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friends and i have this great debate going on. Some say its not cheating others say it is. Thoughts?

2007-11-23 13:21:21 · 19 answers · asked by LP's Mommy, RN 6

I guess I should preface this with saying that although it doesn't seem like it, my fiance is a really great guy who sometimes has momentary lapses in judgement.

Anyway, my fiance called me the other day. He was at work and I was at home. We were talking about a bunch of random things, including the new apartment that we're hoping to get soon. He told me that he doesn't want me to smoke in the new apartment. I am a smoker, and have been since we met. It has never been an issue before; he even smokes occasionally. So I was understandable taken aback by this. We got into an argument, and I hung up the phone and started cleaning to get my frustration out (that's what I do when I'm upset).

When he got home, he saw how clean the apartment was, smiled and hugged and kissed me. He said (laughingly) the he knew if he got me upset, I would clean and the apt. needed to be cleaned, and that he doesn't care about smoking the new apt.

2007-11-23 13:15:51 · 13 answers · asked by Been here before 3