my wife freaked out when i said sex is imprtant, she even said to find some slutt to F**k. i love her and don`t quite understand whats the deal.oh and we were arguing about how we have sex about 2 to 3 times a month
2007-11-23 15:17:46 · 9 answers · asked by David P 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wev`e been married for almost 4 years and she started not getting in the mood about the time got married
2007-11-23 15:30:37 · update #1
she said. oh..okay...sex is important....if it means so much then why don`t you find someone else to f**k.
2007-11-23 15:40:52 · update #2
Sex is important in a relationship, but in different ways to different people.
When she told you to go find osmoene else to screw, she probably wanted to hear you say, "No, honey. You're the only one I want to be with!" So if that's what she needs to hear, let her have it. Ask her what it would take to get more sex into your relationship. Maybe it's something simple that you can easily do, but you just don't know what it is yet.
2007-11-23 19:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking about the situation instead of arguing. don't start your conversation saying how important sex is to you. instead tell her how much you are in love and how desirable and irresistible she still is to you also let her know you do value other aspects of your relationship just as much. find out why she is not in the mood. it may be stress, work load or time and if you're not already doing so, help her around the house so that she has more free time to enjoy with you. get home from work before she does cook dinner give her a message and have something sexy for her to wear. how can she resist you. good luck
2007-11-23 15:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by Cruella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And the question is?
How long have you been married to her? Has she always been this way about sex? Does she always say things like that when you talk about it?
Sounds like you two need to have a good long talk about things.
Yes, sex is important in a marriage but so are a lot of other things(happiness, loyalty, communication, trust, fullfillment, etc) and if you don't have them..sex is not going to make the relationship better.
2007-11-23 15:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly C 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is what you need to do- go tomorrow and but her the book-
"The proper care and Feeding of Husbands" By Dr. Laura Schlessinger. If she reads it with the intent of being a more loving wife, your marriage will change. She will learn how men are different that women when it comes to sex, and (you'll love this, a wife should never turn her man down)
Good Luck.
2007-11-23 16:41:18 · answer #4 · answered by Eye Candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been married?? if its not the age thing, maybe you should try adding a few new moves to your repertoir!! doing the laundry every now and then really helps to get a woman in the mood!!!and YES SEX IS EXTREMELY IMPORTANT!!!
2007-11-23 15:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by suehellen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not about Sex. Women are not in the mood when their expectations are not meant. There is something else going on to make her not want to sleep with you.
2007-11-23 15:43:08 · answer #6 · answered by April First 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omy gosh.. lol.. ive been married for going onto 4 years... and geeeezzz my sex life sucks... i'm in the same situation.. except my husband doesnt say to go out there and have sex.. he just ignores me... lol
2007-11-23 16:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by O.C MiLFy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you quote exactly what was said? Something tells me you are being less than accurate.
2007-11-23 15:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not good.
either learn to live with it or end the marriage.
2007-11-23 15:43:09 · answer #9 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋