Ok heres the deal. Me and my guy have been having problems. Recently i just found out he is still married to his wife who i thought was his ex. He sends there son a $100 a week. But dont give me nothing unless i ask for it and it goes toward gas, bills, and our son mainly. We live with my parents cuz he promised to get us a place but didnt' we been here a yr. He dont like me going off with friends. I dont even have any friends cuz he was always jealous. Im just know waking up and smelling the coffee. Cuz the other night i told him i had a friend saying he was coming down and wanted to see the baby. Well he got mad and thought i was going to cheat and told me not to go off.(i barely leave the house) And if i leave the baby at the house that he will come and take it and ill never see him again. I thought that was very wrong! And the guy never came buy (me and him grew up together and me and his mom are friends) But the point is he treaten to take my son from me. Its not the first time
2007-11-23 15:11:48 · 4 answers · asked by JennyP 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He has done this. Im scared out of my mind that one day i will wake up and he will have taken my son. He is illegal(yes i know so dont get on my case for it). So im scared he will take it to mexico. Cuz the plan was for us to move there in aug but now im not sure cuz he is still married and lied abou that. I dont work he does. But if i was to kick him out i dont know where he would go. I want to file for full custody because i dont want him taking my son from me. He barely even changes a diaper anyways. I do love him but i have relized that me and my son are better off. I do want him to see his father though i dont just want to take him away. So could i get his visitations supervised? I dont know what to do. He dont want to pay child support cuz he dont want to be stuck here for 18yrs. If i dont file on him they will take away my sons medicade and i caint afford that. Advice please.
2007-11-23 15:17:42 · update #1
Get the family law attorney, get a restraining order against him, notify the local police department of his threats to take the child so they are informed & prepared, even though they can't do anything yet.
The attorney can get the judge to set-up supervised visitation rights for him. It seems getting full custody would not be a problem since you are single & he is married.
2007-11-23 15:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by cookpat.geo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. I'd hire an attorney. No judge will let him have full custody if he's been living with you while still being married unless you're found to be an unfit mother. You'll need to file paperwork with your attorney to have his paycheck garnished through the court if he will not help raise the child financially on his own.
Edited to say I just read your new addition that he's an illegal. If you're that afraid, I'd definitely get him out of the house asap and report him. You can't have your cake and eat it too. You have to make a decision. Either let him stay and deal with it or get him out of your life.
2007-11-23 15:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by siava101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're joking right....
First can I say he sounds like a real keeper...second boot his **** out of your parents house. Go get a lawyer if you are afraid he is going to take your child. Third get yourself a job so you don't need some man taking care of you.
2007-11-23 15:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by i_b_winkn_at_u 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a really good family law attorney.
Good luck.
2007-11-23 15:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋