My husband cheated. I just wonder about how his friends might feel about me now. I've never been close to any of them. Would they be nervous around me now? Would they look down on me a bit? It makes be feel awkward to be around them because I suspect that they knew. At least some of them, anyway. I could ask my hubby, but I don't know if he would really know the answer to that. Weird question, I know, but I hope to get some honest answers. We are trying to rebuild the relationship for now.
2007-11-23 13:31:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My friend stayed with her hubby after he cheated and had another child. Everyone knows ofcourse, but we don't judge her. It's her relationship and as long as she's happy and they've gotten through their problems, its no ones business. don't worry about what your husbands friends think. If you've decided to stay with him, that's your business and the only thing you should be worrying about it repairing your marriage. Good Luck! You're not the first woman to deal with this, and unfortunately you won't be the last.
2007-11-23 13:43:05 · answer #1 · answered by Lil Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter? Unless, you feel some type of shame for staying!! The truth is as women, we really love our husbands (most of us) and we feel extremely betrayed when they cheat. But we can never get the words out at the right time, a lot of time we don't tap into that hurt until we supposedly forgive them, then we feel like an as-s! Becasue 1) we don't really want to bring it up all the time, 2) because we know they need to know how we really feel, but we don't want to revert to 1. So I say, do some soul searching and ask yourself are you okay with this! Why did you really stay? And if you say you are than why is it bothering you and showing up in other ways?
2007-11-23 21:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.G-unit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always wondered the same thing, cause my husband cheated too and I do feel weak for taking him back. And although I love him- which is why i took him back, I do not trust him! NOT AT ALL and I already know how hazardous that is in a marriage. He's texting he loves me as we speak and as usual I am wondering. I do know this...next time there will be no forgiving cause no matter how much I hurt I know eventually it will go away. If I keep him I'm dragging the pain around with me -HIM!!
2007-11-23 22:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by june-bug54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to feel uncomfortable for awhile. Yes, they will feel uncomfortable around you because they know what's going on. Good luck with the rebuilding. Hope you will be able to trust. Interesting that you haven't talked to hubby about this.
2007-11-23 23:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some may know and just want to keep out of it and mind their own business. they know ur trying to work it out then they may feel thats good. there is no reason to look down on you when hes the one who cheated, not you. i wish you luck .
2007-11-23 21:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by renae2007_1986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His friends would probably hit on you. Seriously! They would.
Good luck.
2007-11-23 21:35:17 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋