Marriage & Divorce - 14 November 2007

People keep saying---it's not real to him yet until he feels it kick or sees an ultrasound. It's been five months--why do I have to go through half of my pregnancy waiting for it to "kick in" for him? He won't read any pregnancy books or talk to me about it-he'd rather play video games or watch sports. How can I get him to care about my pregnancy and our baby?

2007-11-14 20:02:11 · 19 answers · asked by Rose S 2

Last sunday I went to a coffee shop with my fiancee. I had a nu camera and wanted to transfer some fotos to her notebook.
We sat at the coffee shop, loading the software and then transfering the fotos, for about 35mins. All of the 35mins, nobdy came to our table with a menu or asked if we wanted something. At the end of 35mins, I got wild at the poor service rendered at the coffee shop and packed our things to leave.
On the way out, I found a waiter and told him, "We were here for 35mins now and you did not care to ask if we needed anything. I like your service. Thank you and I will ensure that I suggest people not tocome here for coffee since yu don't sell any".
These are the exact words, since I had reharsed it while packing my bags and also since my fiancee was with me, I did not want to sound rude.
But alas! This was "very" rude too, for my fiancee. She has stopped talking to me till I change my ways. Wud yu not loose yur temper at such callous treatment at a coffee shop?
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2007-11-14 19:50:35 · 19 answers · asked by 13 5

I have been having a sexual relationship with a married man for the past year. It was my understanding he was suppose to been seperated from his wife, however I have recently found out that not only am I pregnant with his child he has been trying to get his wife pregnant.
His wife accussed him of having an affair with me which he strongly denied and i stupid of me i still love the guy so I have not told his wife the truth should I just get on with my life and let them sort it out between themselves or should I tell her I am pregnant with her husband child?
And what should I do when our child is born?

2007-11-14 19:47:26 · 23 answers · asked by april 3

I was married november 1998 in reno then moved to california and in 2001 I filed for a divorce he was served and all neither one of us went to the six month court date are we divorced what was the court date for??? Please help also if I am how do I get my divorce papers?

2007-11-14 19:25:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

just for married people. If your wife, your mother and your kid are sinking in the sea and they are in the same situation , whom do you save and why?

2007-11-14 19:14:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, before I attempt to ask, please try to keep and open mind. Criticism is expected. However, for all of you "holier than thou" answerers out there, no one is perfect. Ok....

I met a woman. This woman has been married for seven years. She has been with the guy a total of thirteen. They have three kids together. He has cheated on her in the past. It is more than obvious that they have not overcome that obstacle. There are still some major insecurities in the marriage. She has stated, to both him and me, that she has only stayed with him this long because of the kids. I told her that was the wrong reason to stay and, sometimes, worse on the kids. She has also said that she is completely dependent on him and is uncertain about surviving without him. She is unsure of my commitment to her which is totally understandable. She says that i have shown her there is life out there other than what she has known. She also says that anything she decides will not be influenced by..

2007-11-14 19:11:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was wondering, we're going to have all kinds of time together , kid free.. and who should be making the first move when we first get back to the house? we havent ever lived together.. married and he say a deployment.. i think its going to be ackward at first when we first meet up.. but who should make the first move ? any tips on living with someone when your used to living alone ?

2007-11-14 19:00:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married to my wife for 1 year, and we have been together for a total of three years. She has a 5 year old son who she had before we met but the problem that I am having is that my step sons father has been totally out of the picture until we recently got married. To make a long story short I have pretty much been the father figure to my step son. His dad lives in a different state now and will randomly call time to time to check on my stepson. He keeps making a lot of broken promises, but my wife accepts that because he will send a toy, or a couple of shirts every now, and then. My wiife always makes excuses for him because she wants him to know his father but i'm like there is no such thing as a part time father in my eyes! I am fed up with him, and this causes huge fights between my wife, and I. Am I being selfish, or do I have a valid reason of concern. The thing that angers me the most is that my wife justifies his actions just because he is the bio father. I need help!

2007-11-14 18:50:16 · 21 answers · asked by Boogie27 1

Is it not unhealthy practice?

2007-11-14 18:47:20 · 25 answers · asked by Chris P 1

Women are not actually attracted to men. There is a vague idea of what a man is physically, and some are better than others aesthetically speaking, but the purely physical appearance of a man is almost inconsequential unless he is horribly ugly or outrageously attractive.

Women are attracted to status, money, how much a man smiles and laughs, how many friends and resources a man has, how full a man's life is--how many "cool," "exciting" and prestigious things he is doing or connected to.

They are interested in how other people view him--how many people want to be around him, how other people interact with him and whether their interactions convey that he is special and amazing. They want him to be extremely outgoing and aggressive, they want him to demonstrate his status over other people by dominating them in various non-violent ways.

A woman's attraction to a man is a function of her jealousy at the thought of another woman having that man. She doesn't care who he actuall

2007-11-14 18:44:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sorry, but I don't think Yahoo will be handing you a free car for posting here.

2007-11-14 18:33:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you hire a new girl friday, and your housekeeper has not come in, why is your husband making the bed and he says she might come into your bedroom. Office is separate from house and girl is looking for new rich husband??? I don't think it right? Tell me what you think

2007-11-14 18:30:39 · 10 answers · asked by Cindy 2

My husband has never been good with his words, but when he can manage to say something whole hearted and sweet it melts my heart, but I have to hear everything you can imagine in between the nonsence before i hear something pleasing. Can guys really be so ignorant ? If they wanted to see their wife happy wouldnt they do what it took to make her happy? When we were dating i asked him if he'd rather have me or a car, and he told me it depended on the car !! that was when we were dating, we're married now.

2007-11-14 18:20:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

There was a domestic arrgument going on on my building. Tenants started calling to complain about the noise... After a few minutes it was just getting worst, so I decided to call the police. The guy was taking into custody but then I fell bad because the kids were crying, which they were also crying when the dispute was going on.....I am feeling guilty instead of feeling right about it. Did I do wrong? I live in Chicago, the law here is regardless if the spouse signs complaints or not spouse get arrested..he wont be out until maybe monday because If im right the whole prosses takes about 3 days!!! I feel so bad.....

2007-11-14 18:15:19 · 6 answers · asked by LiFe is WONDERFUL 3

Is it because they just can't keep their legs closed in an endless search for their next "money honey" or "baby's daddy"? Terrible epidemic in America. Much more disease floating around with singlemoms than with all the street hookers combined!

2007-11-14 18:10:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

A many wise men have said this, and I think it's even come up in some recent hip hop songs.

2007-11-14 18:03:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for nearly fifteen years, and have two kids. The last few years our intimacy, physical and emotional, has taken a nosedive. For a while there were family issues which has caused us to focus on other demands, but as that situation has eased up, I am finding that we are continuing to drift apart. We hardly ever touch, rarely have sex, or exchange verbal affection. I know he would like sex more often, but one thing that bothers me is that he has a daily Internet porn habit and that partly turns me off.

But even more than this, is the fact that for a long time he has felt more like a brother to me than a romantic partner. I care for him deeply but the idea of being romantic with him feels weird. On the other hand, we rarely argue, and the relationship is low-conflict. We get along comfortably, are reasonably pleasant to each other, and that is pretty much it.

I want more but feel stuck... how to proceed?

2007-11-14 17:57:50 · 12 answers · asked by Nimbus 2

I need to send my wife an apology gift to say that I am sorry I only have 45 bucks and want the most bang I am deployed just if you can help please give me some ideas that would make an impact I already am sending floweres so somethin else

2007-11-14 17:39:40 · 8 answers · asked by Spc Holt 1

Does it say in the Bible to not have sex when you are on your period (for a man not to have sex with a woman when she is on ther period)? I have heard this before...?

2007-11-14 17:38:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this married man who says he loves his wife, he is trying to get his friend with a girl but he said these words words to someone "why do you think I'm trying to get my friend with her and not myself it's only because I don't like the things she's into" does he love his wife as he saying that

2007-11-14 17:33:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-14 17:26:44 · 10 answers · asked by robert L 1

okay if you are married and u tell ur husband u like "bob" and bob likes you and u and bob go out and u tell ur husband dat u dont even like him and only is staying with him cause of the kids and u and bob go out once everyother week is dat still cheating?

2007-11-14 17:25:25 · 29 answers · asked by lilshawty753 2

i have been w/someone for 5 years now. he has some financial issues/concerns w/a business but is still very solvent-he has 1 child who is adored by him and he recently stated that when he dies, it will all go to the daughter. do you think he will ever marry again?

2007-11-14 17:24:26 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3

2007-11-14 17:23:18 · 22 answers · asked by D 4

Just saw this on another Q & A site, I didn't answer it, but for real....My X hangs up on me all the time FOR NO REASON....and is ALWAYS on the phone when my Babes want to try to talk to him, he is SO RUDE to them, (they are 8 and 10) Even in restaruants, he had that danged phone!!
We NEVER EVER had "US" time and this is their biggest complaint to me , that daddy NEVER "listens". he just talks talks talks talks talks even in the store. :( thats so sad!!
Then when i tell him "like we discussed" he SWEARS i didnt tell him that!" What to do?? He will never change! How to bring this up in court? The court is always on HIS side, politics, money, and his family owns half the county...All i really want to do is give my babes a fighting chance with their daddy. They just want his ATTENTION!!! advice , anyone???

2007-11-14 17:18:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

husband? My daughter is probably making more than her friend. Neither one has a car. Between me and my husband we get them to and from work.

2007-11-14 17:12:57 · 4 answers · asked by me 2

how do i get a divorce?

2007-11-14 16:56:45 · 6 answers · asked by happyface 1

If a divorce is in the works, can the alias that is used at the workplace be changed? On all the papers there, I'm listed with my married last name. I want that changed to my maiden. Will this affect anything regarding taxes and whatnot? I claimed 0 on my taxes and am marked as "single." We filed jointly last year for taxes, but we were given the option to file separately.

I was thinking it wouldn't be a big deal since my social security number would show each name, and since I didn't mark 1 for taxes. Help?

2007-11-14 16:52:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I filed for a divorce in June of 2007 does my house have to be sold in order for my divorce to be finalized??????????

2007-11-14 16:46:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a girlfriend and her daughter is pregnant out of wedlock. She dated the same man for about a year,split with him briefly, and slept with a random guy once (unprotected sex). Now, 5 weeks later, she's back with the boyfriend and pregnant. Boyfriend doesn't know about the one nighter which happened around the estimated contriception date the doctor gave her. Should I advise the boyfriend that he may want to get a paternity test prior to allowing his name to be put on the birth certificate (he'll be paying child support for 18 years if his name is on the document, regardless of DNA tests later). Or, would you just let that happen and figure it's none of your business? The Boyfriend and my girlfriends daughter aren't together again: My friend (pregnant woman's daughter) thinks she'll get child support out of the ex boyfriend where the one night stand won't pay anything. Very selfish thinking. What would you do?

2007-11-14 16:41:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous