I know this married man who says he loves his wife, he is trying to get his friend with a girl but he said these words words to someone "why do you think I'm trying to get my friend with her and not myself it's only because I don't like the things she's into" does he love his wife as he saying that
2007-11-14 17:33:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
probly, maybe not for the right reasons, mayb hes bored in certain aspects of the relationship, but nose were his bread is buttered. but at least he never went with this woman, and also another mayb he mite just said that t show of or get a laugh but not meaning it.
2007-11-14 17:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems a little odd 2 me. A lot of ppl these days are like that in marriage though. Either way, it's their business, and she knows what kind of man she married, good or bad. Don't meddle in it. If he is eventually going to cheat, there is nothing that you can do about it, and she will see it, one way or another. You can't help that.
Much Love.
Love,
Ash
2007-11-15 01:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley Y 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful how you take this. If this wasn't said to you or the wife then you don't know the context. He may have been saving face.
2007-11-15 01:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by Elizabeth M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably not, sounds as if she was more compatible with him he would start an affair with her.
the guy sounds like a lying cheating moron. its very likely he has already cheated on her, or will do in the near future.
why cant people just be honest, when its over, its over. dont lie and cheat until caught out. that causes more heartache
2007-11-15 01:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by *mental*MooCow* 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont think harm was met by those words, although he could have spoken a bit more gently and used kinder wording so it couldnt have been mistaken.
2007-11-15 01:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by COULDbCRAZY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he might very well do, maybe his mates dont know he is married, and he is trying to be one of the lads, or maybe he doesnt love her as much as he thinks he does deep down
2007-11-15 01:40:25 · answer #6 · answered by deni 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people look as marriage as such a prude thing these days he's probably just trying to keep with the pack. sure it's alittle hurtful but i bet he doesn't mean anything by it. just trying to not look like a limp noodle.
2007-11-15 02:05:14 · answer #7 · answered by .. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could just be "guy talk"..like, my husband is VERY faithful, but around guys he will be like "If I could get my hands on *insert a celebrity name here* I would leave my wife in a heartbeat.
Its not true, just "guy talk".
2007-11-15 01:57:02 · answer #8 · answered by twilight_dezire 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probably does in his twisted ways, like serial cheaters do!
2007-11-15 11:40:39 · answer #9 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's trying to use reverse psychology. Chill your motors.
2007-11-15 01:39:18 · answer #10 · answered by Queenie` 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋