There was a domestic arrgument going on on my building. Tenants started calling to complain about the noise... After a few minutes it was just getting worst, so I decided to call the police. The guy was taking into custody but then I fell bad because the kids were crying, which they were also crying when the dispute was going on.....I am feeling guilty instead of feeling right about it. Did I do wrong? I live in Chicago, the law here is regardless if the spouse signs complaints or not spouse get arrested..he wont be out until maybe monday because If im right the whole prosses takes about 3 days!!! I feel so bad.....
2007-11-14 18:15:19 · 6 answers · asked by LiFe is WONDERFUL 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You shouldn't feel bad you did the right thing. First off, the children don't need to see nor hear the arguing. Second off, you might have save a persons life. In this day and time you can never be to for sure. You did the right thing!
2007-11-14 18:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by b n real 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, you didn't do wrong. What if he'd beaten up or killed someone because you didn't do something? How would you feel then? You have to err on the side of protecting people, and for all you knew, they were about to kill one another.
2007-11-15 02:23:32 · answer #2 · answered by septegram 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he was beating her and their were kids no it wasn't wrong but if they were just arguing you should of just kept on going about your business....
2007-11-15 02:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by Conteplative 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't feel bad sometimes a woman needs to be saved even if she doesn't want to be.
2007-11-15 02:32:56 · answer #4 · answered by deldav360 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well would you have felt better if he killed his wife and kids? Stop feeling bad, you weren't battering your wife, he was.
2007-11-15 02:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Good intentions don't guarantee good results.
2007-11-15 02:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋