Marriage & Divorce - 6 October 2007

Also, did you always have common interests, or did you both get into new things together as your relationship progressed?

I'd also love if you posted how many years you've been a happy couple. :)))

Please don't answer this unless your relationship is over five years old. Thanks in advance! =D

2007-10-06 11:47:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does it mean when someone says they are seperated from their wife verses actually being divorced. If you are seperated are you free to do as you please without cheating?

2007-10-06 11:41:48 · 18 answers · asked by burtonfan 1

i miss my friend he was in depression and comitted suicide
is there a verse or poem or something that is comforting,
thank you

2007-10-06 11:13:23 · 6 answers · asked by Amanda H 5

I had put pepsi in the fridge before I left for work today and he took them all and didn't put any back in fridge to be cold for when I got off work- when I calmly asks him why- he says: oops- forgot, didn't have time. but I make sure there are chips and things he likes when I go to the grocery store, he doesn't think of me when he eats all the chips or drinks the last pop. he won't do the dishes, when there is only a few- when there is alot he says: when you doing dishes? same with laundry. and I work 40hr week- just the same as him and seems he doesn't think about me at all. and then when I ask him if he thinks of me- he says yes, and he cares and loves me. but when he does these things and doesn't help with household things it makes me feel he don't think of my feelings. how to get him to put more pop in fridge when he takes last one? help with dishes when there are little to do? put 1 load of clothes in washer just to help start? he tells me he is too busy to do any of that!!!!

2007-10-06 10:33:40 · 17 answers · asked by cats3inhouse 5

hurting eachother...but in d end things turn on me...and im to blame for everything...recently....i had a miscarriage...i really wanted d baby..but the docs said tht it wasnt growing and they advised me to get it terminated...i was left all mentally n physically weak..my parents and my husband supported my recovery....i had a fight over d phone with his sis....cos she was blaming my folks for no reason....and tht was when spotting in my preg took place leading to d termination...i havent been talkin to her since...y'day my hubby planned out an eve at d movies...though i was dead tired with d preparation of dinner etc for v had a 25 ppl get together..i still got ready and v left...we were nearly there when my bubby called his sis and told her to b there..cos she was joining us for a movie too....now y didnt yog prepared me for this b4?? i couldnt have said no...cos i love him....we hada very furious fight in d car...and cancelled everything....i still havent overcome the fight..pls help

2007-10-06 10:27:19 · 6 answers · asked by himani u 1

My friend has finished his 31-year of age and he is preparing to get married but he does not want to get married to a very young girl (around 18-20). What is the best or average difference of age (in years) between a new male and a female for getting married and for having a satisfied sexual, intellectual, and emotional relationship that will endure for a long time?

2007-10-06 10:16:00 · 19 answers · asked by AshOsaki 1

2007-10-06 10:12:11 · 33 answers · asked by Jules UK 3

hurting eachother...but in d end things turn on me...and im to blame for everything...recently....i had a miscarraige...i really wanted d baby..but the docs said tht it wasnt growing and they advised me to get it terminated...i was left all mentally n physically waek..my parents and my husband supporetd my recovery....i had a fight over d phone with his sis....cos she was blaming my folks for no reason....and tht was when spotting in my preg took place leading to d termination...i havent been talkin to her since...y'day my hubby planned out an eve at d movies...though i was dead tired with d preparation of dinner etc for v had a 25 ppl get together..i still got raedy and v left...we were nearlt there when my bubby called his sis and told her to b there..cps she was joining us for a movie too....now y didnt yog prepared me for this b4?? i couldnt have said no...cos i love him....we hada very furious fight in d car...and cancelled everything....i still havent overcome the fight..pls help

2007-10-06 10:09:52 · 3 answers · asked by himani u 1

we have been married 1 year, he confessed (after I forced him) that he has been cheating with his ex girlfriend. He wants to make a go of things and says he will never do this again. what do I do?

2007-10-06 10:06:24 · 57 answers · asked by sharon K 1

No one takes marriage seriously anymore. Marriage has just become a experience or a show and tell type of thing. Where's the love? real love? Real family? Where did it go and why?

2007-10-06 09:36:32 · 19 answers · asked by T 1

2007-10-06 09:22:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is my husband and father of my kids but he had other woman when I was out and it almost ruined our family.

2007-10-06 09:02:45 · 22 answers · asked by Azer M 1

I love him too, but you know, we are not teenagers(we are both >30)... I dont know if he really love me or he is just find me attractive and after awhile Im not special any more. I cant just be optomistic and cant believe all this is because of love.
he is so nice to me and I didnt see anything wrong, just I think he is soooooooo attracted to my body and love to describe it very nice.
I dont want to have a bad end wiyh him...please help
thanks in advance

2007-10-06 08:52:46 · 11 answers · asked by *Grace* 3

hi my husband and have being married for 2 yrs and we have 9month old baby. I work full time during the week and I go to school online, so I like to go on Sat for a few hrs to get body message, get my nails done, get my hair done and colored just to have a change. However, my husband says that i'm cheating on him with someone there is no way i will be spend a few hours doning all that. I let him go to the gym go wherver he wants i never call him to ask him where he is i turst so i have no worries. But me if i'm gone for a couple hrs he goes crazy says mean things and we get into a big fight i have no idea with to do I love him I hope we could solve our issue. I told him may be we need to go counsling about his trust issue which is from now where, he said ok and than changed his mind tha last min. I never gave a reason not to trust me

2007-10-06 08:20:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 2 months now and it has been hell. I dont get along with my husband at all. We dont have fun together and it seems to me that he is more concerned about himself than anyone else. He always wants to go out and drink and even when I do go with and try to have fun we end up fighting. He is mean when he drinks and last night it escalated to him telling me he was going to punch me if I didnt give him the keys so he could drive away drunk. He also threatened to kill my birds. He never touches me and when I ask him to talk to me he says he has better things to do. I ask him how his day was and he says fine. I ask him if he is going to ask me about my day and he says if I have something to say say it and stop wasting his time. I have talked to him alot about trying to fix things and he never has solutions. His only solution so far has been to make a calender with daily things on it like hug her, cuddle her, kiss her, tell her she is pretty. Not working

2007-10-06 08:09:50 · 21 answers · asked by nickii3049578 2

2007-10-06 07:59:37 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

please only if there is answer me..

i don't need opinions of the people who haven't been into this situation..the prists doersn't allow me to divorce..except a priest who is friend ..with me..(just friends with his whole family)since we were students.. at the university .

i really don't want to hear the opinions of those who havent been called''idiot, cow, stupid or....brainwashed by church..etc.

it is enough that a psychiatrist told me one thing..that made my life a nightmare..i think a teacher of literature would give me a better advice..

2007-10-06 07:52:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I separated and she got an apartment in August. She had cheated and lied and maxed out our home equity account. However, we had been getting along fine and were trying to make the relationship work until a couple of weeks ago. We got into an argument and she tried to kill me. She went to jail and faces a felony charge. I also got a restraining order on my attorney's advice. She filed for divorce a few days later. I don't believe she wants the divorce, but is doing it to get even for going to jail. We had discussed divorce and were both against it. Now we are facing a court battle that will be ugly and expensive. I know she has done terrible things but I believe she is mentally ill. Her bizarre behavior is not typical. I know most people will say get over it and move on. But we are a good couple that has unresolved issues. 99% of the time we get along really well. I still love her and miss her, but because of the restraining order can't call her. What should I do?

2007-10-06 07:47:53 · 16 answers · asked by sunshinesky89 1

a) My husband/wife cheating on me.

b) My husband/wife stealing money from me.

c) My husband/wife physically, verbally and emotionally abusing me.

2007-10-06 06:55:05 · 23 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

Been back at home for 6 weeks now, and we've been trying to work things out. We both had our faults, but my spouse seems to forget everything he "realized" in the summer, and feels now that he did nothing wrong. Then, we have not been intimate for the entire time either, and he was pressuring me, having tantrums for the first 3 weeks, and then I'd feel guilty. Then, after the 3am yelling matches stopped, it evened out to maybe once every 4 or so days. The Dr. told us not to have heated conversaitons, and to each have a personal space to go to when we feel frustrated or need to relax. Now that we did, my space seems to be fair game to knock on the door every 10 mins. If I don't cuddle when he wants he views it as rejection, if I want to take a walk then all of a sudden I'm ignoring him, if we're on the couch, he stares at me and when I ask him if there's something to say, he says no. Then, if he starts discussing why I don't want to cuddle, I see the fight coming, so I keep taking ....

2007-10-06 06:46:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance's ex mother-in-law just showed up to my yard sale. She was really nasty and disrespectful to me, then to him, and she left. He's afraid she will come back with the ex-wife. If that happens, what should I do? He wants to just pack up and leave town...I don't want to be run off my own porch...

2007-10-06 06:42:17 · 10 answers · asked by leletanner 2

I am engaged to a man who gets a little abusive when he is drinking, he slaps me pushes me and then always runs off in the truck. Last night he took all of our guns, talked a bunch of nonsense threatened to call the cops and report my car stolen I love him but i dont know what to do

2007-10-06 06:31:12 · 22 answers · asked by deeeee 4

2007-10-06 06:30:07 · 5 answers · asked by Bob 1

by true heart

2007-10-06 06:01:48 · 9 answers · asked by Bob 1

My husband and I went away to Hawaii, and we worked there for 3 months. Most family was aware of our stay in Hawaii during the wedding. We are now sending out the Thank You cards (even though it is late). My mother thinks this is cold hearted and that I should have contacted everyone personally to keep in touch with them.

2007-10-06 06:00:25 · 17 answers · asked by suninmyeyes 2

Honsestly, never really been a good husband: Have cheated on my wife several times, and I'm really starting to realize (through therapy) how destructive it is. Really trying to repent and make up for my past transgressions, and wondering if anyone out there could give me some methods of dealing so I can be SURE that I won't fall back into my old ways.

I really do love my wife - am in love with her still - and we have issues with many things, but I realize now that really working on them is the way to deal with the stress...not just to look for solace and fulfillment in someone else. Any help would really be appreciated for how I can keep straight and not fall into this trap again would be appreciated. Thanks!

2007-10-06 05:18:57 · 18 answers · asked by beinggood 2

I recently married and my husband and we were not using protection as we discussed we would let God decide. I was elated at that decision because we are both older, wiser and know what to do now. This was discussed prior to our marriage. I immediately got pregnant within one month of marriage but then had a miscarriage 2 weeks ago. On the way home from the hospital my husband was supportive but a few hours after it happened he told me that we need to plan the next one since we were just married. I was agreeable with that...I was so upset anyhow I was just happy he was supportive. Then later that evening we went for a ride together and he told me that a baby had never been in his plans and he doesn't want to have one. I was numb by this point. I mean, it had happened less than 24 hours when he told me this. I was confused and hurt and now my heart is broken. I am still recovering from my loss but he refuses to be intimate with me without protection. Help please someone...

2007-10-06 05:18:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

a new country /culture where u have little friends and family.

2007-10-06 04:55:00 · 14 answers · asked by Hi 1

im married for 10 yrs.but,i met my long lost crush in high school who is also married now. We go on dating & turned into a deeper relationship for 5 months now. We attempted to separate last 3 months ago but we failed.We even asked God's help for us because we cannot help ourselves anymore but to love each other. Lately,he wanted us to live together and leave his wife because as what he said to me that all the qualities he wanted for a wife are in me. The problem is I also love him. I dont want to hurt him? What should i do?

2007-10-06 04:51:04 · 14 answers · asked by elgr 1

Ok I was with this man for 7 long years, we have 3 children. Our relationship has been over emotionaly for a while he was a abuser and a drug user.We moved out of state in March My children & I were there 6 weeks he made no atempt to get us a house or find a job, this was the last straw for him to get his act together.Well when I came home I was 5 months pregnant.Two and half weeks after I was home he called and said he was a man and he had needs and need to have sex so he didn't want to be together.Well any way a month or so went by and his brother and I started getting close he was helping me wtih my kids and just being there for me.(I have known his brother longer than I have known him)!Well now we are seeing each other about 5 months.I am getting close to him and same with him we just don't know what to do about my ex.He dosn't even live in the same town as us.Any insite?He gave me up and still wants to run my life.I have never been in a situation like this with brothers.

2007-10-06 04:47:22 · 7 answers · asked by DUTCH 2