its been 6 months scince i got married to yogs...we've benn having fights on and off...and v usually end up

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hurting eachother...but in d end things turn on me...and im to blame for everything...recently....i had a miscarraige...i really wanted d baby..but the docs said tht it wasnt growing and they advised me to get it terminated...i was left all mentally n physically waek..my parents and my husband supporetd my recovery....i had a fight over d phone with his sis....cos she was blaming my folks for no reason....and tht was when spotting in my preg took place leading to d termination...i havent been talkin to her since...y'day my hubby planned out an eve at d movies...though i was dead tired with d preparation of dinner etc for v had a 25 ppl get together..i still got raedy and v left...we were nearlt there when my bubby called his sis and told her to b there..cps she was joining us for a movie too....now y didnt yog prepared me for this b4?? i couldnt have said no...cos i love him....we hada very furious fight in d car...and cancelled everything....i still havent overcome the fight..pls help

i want things to be back to normall only if my hubby support me a little....its like all i ahve been too is all washed off...only because i wasnt talking to his sis.....well...his sis doesnt talk to me too..i take care too ask her all that i can.....now how can i be d onlt one to do d talking if i dont get a positive response from her....?? i feel lonely here....staying here with my hubby and his parents and sis....wat shoul;d i do
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Answer 1

You have a lot of growing up to do. and a lot of learning also in life lessons and spelling. Please dont try to get pregnant right away until you decide what it is you want out of this marriage.

Answer 2

I think you need to talk about this with your husband. I think you have many valid points. You might even consider disconnecting the phone so he can't enlist his family members to gang up on you. I agree he should have prepared you for his sister being there and let you choose the time and place. Valid or not your feelings towards her are there and it's between the two of you to work them out. You won't get over this I promise until you guys work through it maybe even get counseling or a mediator there to help. Sorry marriage is hard but it's even harder if you don't communicate. Good Luck

Answer 3

Hell, I couldn't even read the question! Learn to spell!