a new country /culture where u have little friends and family.
2007-10-06 04:55:00 · 14 answers · asked by Hi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There shouldn't be a choice here. Moving to a new country where you know no one and have no family is a difficult thing to do but it's very doable. However, I suggest that you first do a trial run. Let your love know you want to come and visit for an indefinite period to see how life would be and how well you can adapt. Let your family know that you love this person and you want to be with them but you feel uneasy making the big move so you want to give it a try with the option to return if things are not going well. This way you can go to your love, enjoy your time with him without the pressures of feeling like you've made the big move and having the option to return if it's not going well.
2007-10-06 05:12:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would only move if you are sure that this is a relationship that is going to last. If it is, I would move for the person I was in love with. What you want to make sure not to do, is move away from your family and friends and then the relationship doesn't work out. Then you would be in a foreign country with no one!!
2007-10-06 05:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is wonderful but would you really leave the country? Leave behind all your customs and traditions? I don't know what country you are talking about but it could be a real culture shock. Why won't your sweetheart come to you?
2007-10-06 05:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon. How lots do you like your present day usa? How lots do you have in common (culturally) with the persons of that usa? Will this is straightforward so you might fit in, or will you regularly omit living house? those are all issues to think of roughly. determine you have spent various time with your actual love so which you already know that it incredibly is actual, and bypass to formerly you devote to pass... of course traveling is diverse than residing there however this is going to furnish help to appreciate what you're stepping into. this is incredibly annoying to bypass away all your loved ones, acquaintances and lifestyle. you are able to't do it in basic terms for one guy or woman in case you hate the hot usa... determine you're well suited with it. Be open minded.
2016-10-21 05:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose my true love because your family will get married move away them selves and have a family of their own so dont live for your family love them but live for yourself. I made that choice years ago and dont regret one minute of it i still talk and visit with my family but i live with the love of my life going on 18 years
2007-10-06 05:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by redishong 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that if things do not work out you have a way back to friends and family. Keep in good daily contact so they know you are ok.
2007-10-06 05:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by ronnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I moved to a new country for true love about 10 years ago and we are still married and very happy together.
Trust me, if it's true love it will be well worth it. You will miss everybody very much but you will always be happy next to him and that will compensate. It did for me.
Good luck to you!
2007-10-06 05:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
True Love...always!
2007-10-06 05:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by Big Red 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You follow your heart and go the where your true love is - you will make new connections but it will take a while.
2007-10-06 05:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by curiouscanadian 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
a new country and have your friends/family visit often - it's a great excuse forthem to get on a plane and travel and see a new place! and you can come back and visit often too.
good luck!
2007-10-06 05:04:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋