I love him too, but you know, we are not teenagers(we are both >30)... I dont know if he really love me or he is just find me attractive and after awhile Im not special any more. I cant just be optomistic and cant believe all this is because of love.
he is so nice to me and I didnt see anything wrong, just I think he is soooooooo attracted to my body and love to describe it very nice.
I dont want to have a bad end wiyh him...please help
thanks in advance
2007-10-06 08:52:46 · 11 answers · asked by *Grace* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Only time will tell. If he is simply infatuated, it will end likely within a year. At the beginning of a relationship, it is normal to be very excited about eachother physically, but a deeper friendship should begin to develop within a year. At that time, you can re-evaluate. In the meantime, enjoy it. Life is short.
2007-10-06 08:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He may just be trying to get you into bed.He is constantly commenting on your body tells me as a man that he is trying to bed you. Your outer appearance is what attracted him to you in the beginning and you also know that is what attracted him. So why constantly keep saying things about the way you move and your body is so attracting. You would know without words if a man is interested or attracted to you. He would want to be in your company regardless , his attraction would be known by the way he moves or acts toward you without saying one word. Beware.
2007-10-06 09:10:37 · answer #2 · answered by Thunder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust is a great motivator. Do not confuse it with love. If he is describing your body to you it is lust that is motivating him. Example: "Would that I could caress your lovely continence, My hand following the curve of your firm breasts along your slender waist to the fullness of your hips. My fingers Gliding along your alabaster skin, dancing and cajoling elicit moans of pleasure from your cherry lips." This is lust.
Now describing your voice, your mannerism, etc... could be motivated by love. Example: "The dulcet song of your voice plays the strings of my heart, a master musician fine tuning his instrument. In the limpid pools of your eyes, I find myself adrift comforted in their dark depths that no man may fathom. The way the sunlight casts your smile in a reflection of its glory. These are the things I treasure about you." These are words born of love.
2007-10-06 12:29:16 · answer #3 · answered by ravenscardarkhope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes when a guy loves a women so much that making love to her can only express how much he truly cares for u, to him ur probably the most beautiful thing in the world inside and out, but u feel that way just wait for sex and see how long he stay around then u will know where his heart...goodluck
2007-10-06 08:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by pain&pleasure 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at 30 you ought to know things go as they should. ride out the tide and have a good time. if or when it ends then that is what was meant to happen. then another will come along and you will love them more.
2007-10-06 08:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just let yourself go and do what feels right. You are both adults. I did the same thing. Once I let myself go with it, it was wonderful and now we are married!
2007-10-06 08:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by CAP3395 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you have a guy who finds you attractive...what's the problem, exactly?
2007-10-06 09:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a woman and to me you sound like your in love with yourself.Get over it!!!!
2007-10-06 09:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by lady bug 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they are all attached to your hey nanny nanny
he wants that
2007-10-06 08:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecure much?
2007-10-06 09:03:53 · answer #10 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋