Marriage & Divorce - 1 October 2007

I have to give my daughter away, any help please.
Her and the son-in-law to be have a 12 month old baby and been living together for over 2 years, what do i have to do in church and at the reception

2007-10-01 04:29:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-01 04:23:06 · 15 answers · asked by kirstyere 1

I am 30, she's 28, no kids. Married just over a year. Having fights more and more often. In previous fights she has said that she married me because she didn't think she could get anyone else, and inside I felt the same way, but didn't tell her. She has threatened to leave me several times, although I didn't think that she'd go 100% thru with it. Now I find myself on empty with her emotionally, and I think divorce will ultimately be the answer, but I don't want to make a mistake. I never thought that *I* would get a divorce. I think she thinks things are going ok for us now, but i'm a wreck inside. We just bought a house that if apart, we can't afford on one salary. What should I do? Talk to a laywer? Councelor? With or without her? Talk to her? I know the second I tell her that i'm not "in love" with her anymore, she's going to literally go berzerk. Any help would be appreciated..

2007-10-01 04:20:40 · 13 answers · asked by two_22515 1

well u c if been at it for about 7mnths. & His Daughter caught us well u know.....& she Threated to tell my husband who i have been with for 6 years. what should i do?

2007-10-01 04:16:36 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-01 04:14:35 · 34 answers · asked by ozzi 4

they have been separated for years ... he once gave her some fake papers that was not notarized a few years ago but shw told him they were fake and get it legally done. they even file separated in taxes with dependents.

2007-10-01 04:12:01 · 11 answers · asked by mickey 2

If you suddenly grew to be 20000 feet tall one day who would you choose to stomp on and expalin how youd step on them with your giant foot?

2007-10-01 04:11:28 · 15 answers · asked by garyx22002 1

My husband's ex has his 13 year old twins all week and every other weekend leaving us with them only 4 days a month (and during some holidays). My husband misses them terribly and has lived with this situation for about 5 years. The kids also get weepy on the phone and when they have to leave us when they visit. We want to have them more often, maybe every weekend or a couple days during the week but we don't want to involve a lawyer because they cost so darn much. We live close enough to them (within 6-7 miles) that schools, friends, cheerleading and football wouldn't have to change. There would be a deduction in her child support which is why I don't think she's willing to go for it. The kids are all she has, no boyfriend or husband so she'll be really lonely without them, which I sympathize for. Since the kids want more time with us, we want to address it. Any great suggestions on how to talk to her about it within this turning into war?

2007-10-01 04:06:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf and I have been together for almost 2.5 years. Personally I feel that it is important to dicsuss about what do we expect for the future. Eg: How many kids , who do the cleaning, shall we hire maids and so on so forth. To me a common understanding and agreement of what to expect is important as I do not want to realise that we are not suitable for each other till too late.. He however always get irritated when these issues are brought up and says that way I am handling things show that I am treating him as an idiot. To him these things need not be discussed and are based on mutual understanding and such discussion only shows distrust. It is just so difficult to talk to him . I dun understand why he sees it that way and I am not sure how to reslove it.

2007-10-01 04:02:50 · 18 answers · asked by happie_julie 2

this is a serious question. Is the sex boring or do people spice it up

2007-10-01 03:49:41 · 14 answers · asked by halfman_hafamazn 1

I have been made an offer for standard visitation for my 4 children. this has been a 6 year fight with my ex and I'd like to know exactly what it means. my attorney says its a legal term and there is a nation standard they go by.

My children have been thru so much and my relationship with them is greatly diminished due to many times in court and the ex being in trouble 4 times over neglect and abuse issues. ranging from plain neglect ,psycal abuse (son mostly) felony neglect without harm etc. this issue is becoming more and more convoluted in the court system and the effect is showing in my kids son 9 now on prozac! I must get some relief for them!
my Ex has turned the kids against me even as far as now the kids tell me im not thier father.

2007-10-01 03:46:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a wife of 34 yrs. and we have not even touched each other in over 4 years!!!!!! She has absolutely no use, no want and I don't think she has even a thought in her head about it! I on the other hand am still alive and looking. Unfortunately, not alot of couples or singles want anything to do with a married guy 54 yr old.

Therapy would be out, because evidently she see's no problem.

2007-10-01 03:38:57 · 29 answers · asked by S S 1

but i think he may think that i only what him back because of the children what do you think I should do

2007-10-01 03:34:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister and I are trying to find out if we have any legal rights to my fathers property? He died 2002 and left the property to our step mum! She has married grown up children like ourselves. There is no will, as far as we know! We would like to know if legally as his children we have any rights, if and when she dies! Any help would be really appreciated. Regards

2007-10-01 03:34:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

been his for the past 8 years. She has told this 8 year old child that my husband is the father w/out doing a paternity test. 6 years ago there was a PT scheduled, but she was a no show, and now 6 years later she wants one. The reason my husband left her is b/c she was a 'walking whore'.
The DNA test was done last Thursday...do youthink my hubby is the father? I am stressing and don't wanna wait for the results, but have to.
She claims she is not out for 'child support' money. She said she has been targeting my hubby only for the past 8 years b/c he is the only one not a druggie, alcoholic, and a stable life.When she found out he was married, she was dissapointed.
What do you think in your own opinion the possibilty of him being the father? From what I said?? We have 2 kids, and he has 2 from his ex wife...and they ALL look like him. This 'other woman' sent him pictures of the child, and she looks nothing like him, but that doesn't mean anything. Yes the DNA was done.I want ur help!

2007-10-01 03:33:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

if marriage was a contract, that runs for seven years and can be renewed or be called off at the end of the first seven years.

2007-10-01 03:32:03 · 9 answers · asked by chipsy3plus 2

2007-10-01 03:30:25 · 10 answers · asked by quilla 1

My husband works 4 days & off 4 days. I asked for 1 Saturday when he is off for he & my son to help me do the fall clean-up. I wanted help cleaning the house from top to bottom (washing walls, cleaning carpets, etc) plus doing some touch-up painting. I wanted to get this done in October before the holiday & hunting season got here. I never ask for help in the house but since I am also working plus he is the one who smokes (therefore the walls get a little yellow because of it) I didn't think it would be a big deal to take one day a year to help me. How wrong I was! My hubby never helps out - even though I know he has health problems, it seems those problems do not interfer when it comes to hunting or fishing. Plus when he "helps" it is usually working on a 4-wheeler. Am I wrong to ask for help 1 day a year? I cut the grass, take out the trash, trim the trees, do all laundry & housework, cook all the meals, pack his lunch for work each day, etc. Is it asking too much to help me 1 day?

2007-10-01 03:25:25 · 10 answers · asked by Love being a Mom 2

why would a man that was a good friend for years suddenly start treating me like im no one, nothing to him at all, worse than a stranger.we work together and now he will salute everyone else first bar me, little subtle things, ignoring me in favour of others etc.its like the message is..you are not important to me.this hurts cause we were mates and yes once there were feelings there but we sorted all that out and things were fine. Whats going on ?

2007-10-01 03:24:41 · 16 answers · asked by susieboo 4

My husband cheated on me 1998. Het met the woman in the internet through chatting. I found out that he was cheating on me 2002 when my son was 3 y/o. I forgave him trusting him that he will stop chatting through the internet. Until I found out 2006 that he was in contact still with the woman ("as friends" as he puts it) through IMs. I tried to forgive him again but this time, with the ultimatum: Never to catch him chatting again or never to chat again. Yesterday, I found out he was chatting with women again. He was saying they are just friends talking and he did not really have friends to talk to. I was hurt. He does not consider this "cheating" but for me it is. Even my son catches him chatting. I'm confused. The thought of divorce and what comes with it scares me. I'm thinking about my son. I don't know if I can still forgive him. We are not talking, and he does not want a divorce, he wants to work things out. But for me, it's still hard to trust him though I still love him. HELP!

2007-10-01 03:24:05 · 26 answers · asked by Lisa D 1

For those in a physical or mental abusive relationships.Why do you stay?

2007-10-01 03:21:31 · 18 answers · asked by lollypop 4

I found out my husband has two myspace profiles. The one he is open about says he's married. The second one, I just found, is set on private and his status states he's here for dating, serious relationships, networking, etc. He's done some shady things in the past and this is making me very insecure. Do you think he is up to no good? How should I confront him about this?

2007-10-01 03:14:38 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a teenager is 16, and the father is paying child support, does he have any visitation rights? the boy was living with dad and sister, but the sister became the "mommy" and very bossy. he's since gone to live with mom, who he loves, and doesn't return any of dad's phone calls. sister is gone. dad has tried everything to make amends. does dad have any rights? he just wants to see his son. misses him. doesn't want a court battle. just wondering.... what suggestions do you have?

2007-10-01 02:50:48 · 13 answers · asked by (!)listen 5

What's the correct way of doing it.. in official documents..

For example:
Sunita Rao (girl)
Rajiv Shah (boy)

Does the girl become Sunita Rajiv Shah?

I am confused, that's what my husband wants, while in my family, it would only be Sunita Shah.

I'll appreciate your opinion. Thanks.

2007-10-01 02:47:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

A friend has supposedly fathered a child, tried to use protection but the condom split and the girl said she would use emergency pill but didn't. Now pregnant and claimingthey should be together, he's the dad etc. Thing is this girl was with another man for three weeks the week before the 'accident' happened. My friend has said he wants a test when the child is born, the girl has now become physically and verbally abusive to my friend. They are not together and hopefully never will be!!!!

2007-10-01 02:44:02 · 10 answers · asked by JOANNE C 3

2007-10-01 02:34:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife recently left on a saturday at 1pm and did not return hm until sunday at 4pm. she then admitted she and another girl went with 2 guys out of town and went out and then rented a double hotel room 4 the night. she and a guy on one side and the others on the opposite. she swears she didn't sleep with the guy however also admits she has some mixed up feelings 4 him bc she finds him interesting. then the other night I checked her text messages and found him writing her, telling her this "I'm going to bed now, all alone : (" What gives? I know I am wearing my blinders on this bc I know she had 2 have slept with him 4 him to say something like this. Ladies.... tell me what u think about this?

2007-10-01 02:32:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband has benn cheating on me with my sister for 5 yrs and its my turn to get even sholud i have sex with his brother or not

2007-10-01 02:11:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told my wife last night, its okay, if you feel like fantasizing, other "Hot" men. Everytime, I do this, for some strange reason, she gets in the mood, even though her sex drive is completely dead as a door nail.

2007-10-01 02:07:26 · 8 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2

if I put pluged my guy's nose, so I can sleep at night. He snores a LOT! I need sleep...

2007-10-01 01:43:26 · 15 answers · asked by CC 6