Marriage & Divorce - 1 October 2007

My friend is pregnant by a man other than her husband. They have since split up. He lives in NC and she has moved back here to MO. He is in the military. She has been told that she cannot get a divorce until after the baby is born since she resides in the state of MO and they got married here. Anybody ever heard of such a thing?

2007-10-01 11:46:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

To ask should they cheat on there wife

2007-10-01 11:44:51 · 18 answers · asked by marzypan 4

I am interested in hearing from couples ( married or simply coupled committed to each other without being formally, legally married ) who have been with each other for @ 10 years or longer, and are still happy, healthy and feel they made the right choice in being and staying together with each other as friends, lovers and spiritual / life companions.
* Both partners feel they are personally & spiritually ( this may or may not include religious beliefs, agnostic, spiritual, or other beliefs for people ) fulfilled and growing to be their best and highest selves while in a committed relationship with each other. And to be making a positive contribution to society as a whole.* Are also best friends with each other.* Believe in and relate with complete honesty and openness in their relationship and communication with themselves and each other.* Both partners choose, and feel honestly aligned for their future together, to be sexually, romantically monogamous with each other, while

2007-10-01 11:37:29 · 7 answers · asked by life 1

I have been with him for over two years...and we have had ups and downs just like anyone else...I love him and I hope he loves me..(he shows it sometimes and I do beleive he does)...lately..well since we have been together he has been lying about little things but I feel as though if he lies about little things...then this will get him in the habit of lying about big things that are serious. he has lied about two major things that has jepordized our relationship...I love him and really want to make this work...I have talked to him about this and sometimes it seems as though we come to an understanding but then it all changes again...I pray abput this relationship and I want it to work..I feel insecure when I am with him cause it seems as though other woman are his main target.I would really like this relationship to be based on loving me as his girlfriend..but he always checking out other girls and doing other things that hurts me.I dont think a man should look cause he is a man

2007-10-01 11:27:31 · 15 answers · asked by old 4

Hello,

My husband and I have been married for about 5 months. In that time, he was discharged from the air force. It took him about 2 months to find a new job. In this time, I had to have surgery, and had the only income coming in. Now he has this job, but he doesn't seem to understand work ethic. He constantly calls in late or just doesn't go in at all. I'm amazed he hasn't been fired yet. I don't understand why it is so difficult. He will claim he doesnt feel good, but to be honest, I just am not buying that anymore. On days when he doesnt "feel good" I come home and he seems FINE.

Before he moved in, my apartment was pretty neat and tidy, a brand new apartment. Since him moving in, the carpet is stained beyond recognition, there are constantly beer bottles everywhere that I can't keep up with, and he has stained furniture and made a mess in general. Everytime I try and bring it up, (the mess and the work) he turns it around and accuses me of calling him a loser...help!

2007-10-01 11:24:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know I'm guilty - she says 'I told you this yesterday' but I honestly can't remember. I'm not ignoring her. Why does this happen? And no, I wasn't watching TV or on the computer! :)

2007-10-01 11:23:23 · 11 answers · asked by techtipper 2

Have any of you done a threesome either with your current man or with an ex? If so, would you do it again?

2007-10-01 11:23:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend deleted pictures of me and my exhusband off my computer without my knowledge. He didn't mention anything to me about them offending him. He still had pictures of his ex on his computer before he transferred them to discs.

I found out when I was looking for a picture of my boyfriend. I found out he deleted that one too. Would you be mad? Why would he do this instead of talking to me about it?

2007-10-01 11:17:04 · 13 answers · asked by torn 3

I believe I am ready to move on with my life with my kids. My husband is playing games with me telling me he wants me back, but he isnt tring to work on anything. He left Friday with his friend to Michigan and never called to say good bye to our daughter and I am not sure he is comeing back. Should I fight to get him to come back to me and the kids or just let my life go on?

2007-10-01 11:15:32 · 10 answers · asked by crystalr45683 1

so many question about spouses cheating and they know about it but want to show proof. i have been cheated on and of course he denied it to the end and i had proof but never showed it to him because he know what he did. i never heard of any case other than cheating where people say i know it but need to proof it to him/her. i guess they are in denial still. either way, why lower yourself and run around showing him/her about what they did wrong?

2007-10-01 11:10:32 · 11 answers · asked by not this way 5

Friend got married and found out her husband was getting serious with his cousin which was in jail, and she was writing him back with the idea of hooking up, she read the letters.. and they are not blood kin, all happened before the marriage. After 7 months of marriage my friend finds a picture of this cousin in a sexual act.. unknown if it is her husband or some other guy.. the fact is it was a four-some, why would he keep that picture of this after the marriage. So they had a fight.. he burned the photo. Now the cousin is out of jail. My friend and her husband lives with his parents right now.. so she thinks this cousin will come to visit. My friend would love to kick the crap outta her, but that would bring the police and she would have an assault charge on her. I told her to make it clear to her husband that she would not be welcomed.. but the husband cannot see why.. he uses the excuse its still family. I think its BS. I ran out of things to tell my friend.

2007-10-01 10:54:58 · 4 answers · asked by leapfrog44 5

And honestly, I dont want to for one im 17 two his 20 and three we both have very different ideas of how we want life to be like. So would it be heartless to break up with him if he does ask me to?

2007-10-01 10:45:31 · 6 answers · asked by Whisper 1

we've been together seven years in total. He is a good father but not a great husband. he patronises me, he doesn't show any interest in what I do and he rarely ( almost never ) does things that he knows would make me happy. and i am not talking about big things here. Simple stuff, like taking a vacation together ( we've never been on holiday). I feel I am not appreciated and counted upon and I don't deserve that. I really want to be in a relationship that would have more ups than downs ( not that i am in search for a romantic relationship- far from that).

2007-10-01 10:37:00 · 5 answers · asked by eleyteria k 2

She said she was really hungry and was sorry. She thought it was the jar of peanuts that she brought in a while ago but then realized they were mine.

Should my wife be concerned?

2007-10-01 10:11:20 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-01 09:57:18 · 6 answers · asked by G G 1

hallo,
abit ashamed to ask... but want to know..
i fell in love with my dads first cousin. we are of same age. she is my dad's mother's sister's daughter. we are in deep love but fear havin deformed kids.we are hindus.should be break up?thanks alot for replying. we are 9 years into the relationship n both are 26. wat to do. thanks.

2007-10-01 09:49:52 · 10 answers · asked by rajiv w 1

2007-10-01 09:42:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-01 09:33:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-01 09:33:26 · 14 answers · asked by Page 4

Im really trying to keep the peace in the family and be a good stepmom, but my husband says, im selfish. He just doesnt see or hear the comments his son says to me. It is like my stepson wants us to fight.
My stepson also always asks for extra expensive video game systems from my husband right in front of me even after we together have already told him no, wait for your birthday or a holiday or maybe we will get you that, but it has to stay here because we also have a child that likes video games.
I have no control over what happens with my stepson even in my household and it is making me harbor angry feelings towards him.
His mother has raised him in a materialistic and shallow way. His bad habits wear off on my child when he comes here and it really bothers me. My child is not an angel by any means, but I do have rules and boundries for my child, but they have to be reinforced once he is gone.
How do i deal with this or is it just time to leave.......

2007-10-01 09:14:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am so sick of seeing people here claiming that they are being "abused" because someone says something mean to them! Unless it is a threat of some kind, there is NO SUCH THING AS VERBAL ABUSE! Why don't you weak minded fools learn to stand up for yourselves and say something back instead of crying verbal abuse?

2007-10-01 09:10:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

is there better time to go through with it than some other time?

2007-10-01 08:43:59 · 14 answers · asked by ballyhoo 1

Our wedding anniversary is coming up and I can't decide between
~ a season pass for snowboarding
~ weekend away

2007-10-01 08:40:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today is my and my husband's one-year wedding anniversary. We were going to go out to dinner to celebrate, but we have a barely three-month-old baby and our babysitter just canceled. What should we do? (I'll repeat, we have a three-month-old baby! lol) I canceled our dinner reservations because it wasn't a baby-friendly kind of place. To make dinner at home, it's too last minute to make it as special as I'd like. (I'd have to go food shopping too...)

2007-10-01 08:30:09 · 17 answers · asked by Susan S 3

This past Saturday was my husband's 30th birthday. Originally I was going to buy him NFL tickets but then he wanted a tatoo so I said I'd get him that instead. He had to work the evening shift Friday night and was supposed to be home at 12:30am. He did not come home until 3:30am. He said he was drinking with his buddies right after work. So the next day, his birthday, he sleeps in a bit. He wakes up at noon-ish and we watch a movie. Then he has to leave for his tatoo appt. I thought I was going with him but he made excuses why I shouldn't go. He gets home at 9pm, gets showered etc. and goes out with his friends till 7am. I get mad b/c we spent a total of 2 hours togethter for his b-day. I wanted to do some special things for him and didn't get to, so he keeps calling me selfish b/c it's his b-day and should be able to do what he wants to do without getting $hit from me. Am I being selfish, or do I have a right to be angry?

2007-10-01 08:23:48 · 35 answers · asked by Jenny D 1

2007-10-01 08:23:37 · 8 answers · asked by Dianne S 1

I can be really thoughtless sometimes and that causes him to be upset.

2007-10-01 08:22:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

want to avoid any "ghetto" areas and would like good schools,

How is Nanuet, Spring Valley in Rockland.....
anything in the 200K's anymore?
thanks everyone

2007-10-01 08:13:19 · 6 answers · asked by Angie 1

2007-10-01 08:09:18 · 16 answers · asked by Me 2

My ex boyfriend really wants to salvage a friendship with me- we broke up nine months ago. However only a few of those months were we not talking and lots of the time was filled with us CROSSING the line... saying things we really shouldn't. The breakup was on my end and now its mostly mutual, however since I still care about him I don't like being friends. I have never been friends with an ex and he easily is friends with exes. If we stop talking, we somehow pick it up again. If we, maybe 4 days of the week will talk a couple times a day and the other 3 days just a little or not at all, HOW can I slowly disentigrate the friendship so he doesn't notice if I don't call for weeks? I usually call right back and thats just the way I am so I really need a way to get him to not feel like I'm gone or just be okay with it.



I can't do friends very well.

2007-10-01 07:57:40 · 8 answers · asked by sojourning.sarah 2