Marriage & Divorce - 1 October 2007

My husband never talks about anything meaningful. I never know what's going on in his head. We talk about stuff but nothing deep. We've been married for 14 years and I don't feel connected to him. I've talked to him about this and I usually just get silence in return. He tells me that he loves me and he thinks that's enough but I want more. What should I do to get him to open up?

2007-10-01 15:47:08 · 18 answers · asked by Eme 2

You have to leave now or you'll be late. Your other asks If you like the dress and If it makes her hips look to big? You hate the dress and wish she would burn it it makes her look stupid. The dress does make her look downright 30 lbs heavier. What do you tell her?

2007-10-01 15:38:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i talked to my bf friday before i went out with my best friend for drinks...he made the comment that i didn't have plans earlier when i talked to him and now i did? i said she had just called and asked to go get a drink. he had to go to bed early for work so it wasn't like we were going to hang out. then i had class 8-5 saturday and sunday and didn't hear from him (which wasn't unusual) so his weekend is mon. tues. wed. i text him this morning and said i was taking tomorrow off so i was his tonight and tomorrow..."what r u going to do with me?" his response-"sadly i have to help a friend mow for the next 2 days" i responded "no time for me? :( " and haven't heard from him all day after that. am i being brushed off? i would hope at age 35 he doesn't need to play these games but i'm really irritated and my desire to make any more effort in the relationship is just about done...thoughts?

2007-10-01 15:21:45 · 9 answers · asked by Jax 3

Are there any nice, honest, cute women let? It seems like I am having no luck at finding A lady that wants to be pampered and treated like she was a queen.

2007-10-01 15:12:43 · 11 answers · asked by farmboy 2

What if it's love that's forbidden? Like both of you are married and you're not in love with your spouses, but with each other? I'm having a crisis that I've never experienced before. I don't want to divorce my husband, because I don't know how this other relationship will go, but I don't want to break off the other relationship either because I'll miss him too much.

2007-10-01 15:02:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

before you decided you had enough?

2007-10-01 14:46:07 · 11 answers · asked by a2z_alterego 4

If a girl has a boyfriend and for her, its a purely platonic relationship, but if her boyfriend forces himself on her, and makes her perform oral sex on her, is this sexual abuse?
And what if the victim has a limited knowledge about sexual issues due to her innocence and not know how to differentiate right from wrong?
Also, would the victim be ''blamed'' for what happened as she is in a relationship with the guy?
Furthermore, what if the girl was a virgin before all this happened?

2007-10-01 14:44:56 · 17 answers · asked by Grace 1

The ex doesn't work and is on welfare. My situation has changed a little because I am now remarried and want to have more children but we feel like we will never be financially ready to have any more kids. Is there a way to get child support reduced? It has been 2 years since the divorce and of paying full child support. Also my parenting time is still 3 days/ week.

2007-10-01 14:44:28 · 23 answers · asked by nina9 1

Me and my husband have different views on what we consider cheating. I would like to know from all who are in commited relationship what you would say is cheating.

2007-10-01 14:44:23 · 19 answers · asked by always smiling 1

I was reading this article:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=485097&in_page_id=1879

Married women, do you think other women are always on the prowl for your husbands?
Married men, are you attracted to the predatory women? Will you give up your wife for her.

Please be honest

2007-10-01 14:39:24 · 2 answers · asked by Kaye00 1

2007-10-01 14:38:27 · 15 answers · asked by mulloo2007 1

I read that the traditional way was for the male to keep his name going, but then what if the female is the last one in her family with the last name for example? Or maybe it doesn't matter and tradition should still hold in this case, or would you support another decision? What would be your reasons for your choice?

2007-10-01 14:36:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband loves me i know this but he sucks at showing affection toward me...I miss the Hugs, kisses or just holding my hand. He calls me dear LOL I hate that word...I wanta hear sweetheart or baby ok now I am dreaming lol like that would ever happen

2007-10-01 14:34:23 · 15 answers · asked by purplesportygirl883 2

Ok, here's the dilemma. I have been married for a little over three years. My husband throughout our hx has been abusive, negative, complaining, temper tantrum throwing when he doesn't get his way. I have Lupus and the stress from him is causing it to go haywire. To save myself, I told him to move out and that I don't want to be with him anymore. He then starts acting very nice and caring. It's a cycle! All weekend all he did was try to upset me and I would see him grinning when I would get upset. He would start cursing, complaining, etc to get to me. When I told him to get out, he simply stated that that's what I want and that he doesn't. It is very uncomfortable in my house. Nobody here likes him. (we live with my mother and grandmother) He won't leave. What do I have to do to make him leave without resorting to restraining orders because we have kids? Is there anything I should do? Being cold doesn't work, he just comes up and tries to give me hugs. Help!

2007-10-01 14:34:16 · 4 answers · asked by Mestiza 1

My gf of 10 months does not ever want to get married. the thing is we have a 2 and a half month old son. yeah, i didnt waste time, i know. I beleive in marriage and that it represents something special between two peopl who truly love each other, she thinks its a joke due to the high divorce rate. she says if we ever got married it would be to set a good example for our son. i respond that i would never marry her if that were her only reason. what should i do?

2007-10-01 14:28:13 · 12 answers · asked by Sparticus 2

2007-10-01 14:28:02 · 9 answers · asked by gentlepete07 1

I have this friend who I've been going to college with now for almost a year now and she is 45 and I'm a lot younger then her (22) and I knew her husband was violent and he hits on her ... She didnt show up too school today because of this very reason.. I'm soo concernd for her I even called the domestic hotline to get some help and advice for her.. they told me too let her know that there is help out here for her and to talk too her, and not let the guy know that she has been telling me things about them. I need some more advice on how I can help her. He alreadu got kicked out the house but I just want her to leave him for good.

2007-10-01 14:24:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a stay at home mom of 2 I remember a time when I had hobbies and a life. No one really seems to know I exsist except the children I am feeling like a failure at everything. My marriage is rough...he cheated I am pretty, thin, dark long hair and ice blue eyes. I keep a clean home and do my best to educate and care for my girls. I just don't know how to keep going. My question is why should I? Yes the girls need me. What if I were gone though? What now is the difference? Live or die? Walk away? Just give up I am tired.

2007-10-01 14:09:39 · 14 answers · asked by just duky 5

Sensual? Romantic? Aggressive?

2007-10-01 13:47:33 · 10 answers · asked by Seti 1

An x has called and wants to meet up for din. Here is the deal...I'm married. Here is the problem...my hubby lied to me for about 7 years. He claimed that his parents & sister died in a car wreck when he was 6 yrs. Last year, I found out that they are not dead, but alive and well. Ever since I found out the truth, I can't trust my hubby...which has caused lots of problems. I'm anti-divorce, but my husband hurt my feelings so much with such a horrible lie...that divorce has crossed my mind. Now my x contacts me telling me that he wants to meet up to catch up on things. Please note that I DID NOT CONTACT THE X, but he has contacted me. Before I found out the truth about the lie, I would have not gone out with my x, but now...I am not hesitating. Can someone please give me some info, cause I'm really confused.

2007-10-01 13:38:44 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am so exhausted. It's now 1:26 am, I am sitting in the living room, my 3 month old baby is sleeping and my stu pid ugly violent husband is sleeping on the couch with his loud noisy snore that woke me up. God, I am so unhappy and don't have a clue how to change anything anymore.
We haven't slept together for 15 months, he has no desire to touch me or anything at all. He always makes fun of me when I bring up any sort of subject to communicate our problems.
I clean, cook, take care of the baby, clean, cook, go no where, have no friends, have no money and no pride anymore.
when he comes back from work, I serve him dinner, gives him his tea, water, and he sleeps on the couch, I wash the dishes, nappy changing,,,,
Such a lovely life,,,, and everybody thinks that a girl as beautiful as me should have a guy to adores her. Just today I asked him to serve himself from the kitchen and he got verbally violent. Can you believe? we have been married for a crappy 2 years, the first year, ,

2007-10-01 13:34:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

a new country /culture where u have little friends and family.
and why?

2007-10-01 13:30:16 · 12 answers · asked by Hi 1

I understand why I miss my kids but its her I miss and she has made it perfectly clear that we will never be together even though it was an eighteen yr relationship, married almost 14! I don't care about any of the things that were done I just want her back? Why can't I get over her? I mean we had a break-up that I can only describe as hell which has ended with me in jail for sending emails and texts! I did send them but they were not threatening, we used to have something special and it ended so quickly.. we both were not in our right minds for lack of a better term...

2007-10-01 13:01:25 · 24 answers · asked by AzNative89 2

If you found out your girlfriend (of 2+ years) was watching TV Shows about weddings and wedding planning. And you had even caught her looking at wedding related websites on your computer (through the history) I'm not saying, she obsessed,but you've been noticing this for a few months.

2007-10-01 12:58:51 · 10 answers · asked by Je Adore 2

I love my husband, but I think I'm having trouble adjusting to marriage...is this normal? We've only been married 6 months.....I was single for a long time, so I think that might be the problem.

2007-10-01 12:56:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been together for almost 9 years. i want to take him for everything he has. this is a form of abuse to tell your wife you wish she would die? right?. i hope it will help the judge see things my way:)

2007-10-01 12:27:45 · 16 answers · asked by SouthernBelle504 2

or doesn't it matter ?honest answers please

thanx xx

2007-10-01 12:25:45 · 40 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7

This guy adores me for over three years. We never have sex because I want to wait until married. I moved to other states last year. He was depressed about our separation. He said, he will wait for us to be together.

In the past year, he wrote over 20 poems about how much he miss, loves, respect, and want to be with me. Although, he hooked up (had sex) with his friend who looks just like me. He said, he does not love her.

Recently, he wants to move on with his life without giving me any explanation---I respect his decision.

I love him very much and want him back in the future, but at the present time, I want to stay on my ground---accomplish my goals, get my education, and stay virgin until married.

Any advice or suggestion? Thank you so much.

P.S. He posted all the poems about us on his my space. He did not delete the poems. His status is still in a relationship. He may still love me. What do you think?

2007-10-01 12:21:10 · 26 answers · asked by Hope 4

I can remember things that happened years ago or yesterday, but my husband will swear he didn't see a movie or meet someone or that I said something. Are most men like this?

2007-10-01 12:18:21 · 15 answers · asked by pussycat 5

seven year marriage: after seven year of marriage the couples may renew the marrage license or get divorce.

2007-10-01 12:04:14 · 7 answers · asked by cathe 1