Marriage & Divorce - 23 September 2007

It is wrong to fall in love with a man 50 years older than you?

2007-09-23 03:36:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok me and my spouse had been through some bad times as well as good. We had got back together after a short separation. Now we are both living back together for the past 5 months and now things are starting to start out as they used to be before the separation. I have a feeling we are going to split again. It is mostly to due with how he is emotionaly abusing me. I don't think I want to continue the marriage with him like this. How can I make this change or should I just give up hope and make him leave the house?

2007-09-23 03:31:20 · 10 answers · asked by Txgirl23 4

This question is a repost of sorts, I have received some great feedback and I am looking for more. Here is the situation; I am a 33 year divorced father of 2 boys (ages 4 & 6) I have been raising them mostly on my own as my "baby mama" is a nut job. I was lucky enough to meet and fall in love with a wonderful woman. I had no intentions on looking for love after my divorce, I just wanted to be a daddy, but when you aren't looking love finds you. Anyway... We have been together for about a year and a half now and have only a few issues in our relationship. Most of them are the common everyday problems that arise in all relationships, we take great pride in our ability to communicate our concerns and solve the issues quickly.

The big one, a possible deal breaker is this: I have been very wishy washy when it comes to the number of children we would have if we were to marry. She has none of her own and at first I wanted no more. It caused us to split and she moved out of my house.

2007-09-23 03:23:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-23 03:17:16 · 10 answers · asked by Aiko 1

My husband works abroad...he wants me send him texts messages that could arouse him when he feels like doing it..he says it's a way of helping him release...Is it normal? Is it part of my responsibility as a wife?

2007-09-23 03:16:45 · 18 answers · asked by paypet 1

2007-09-23 03:16:44 · 18 answers · asked by Aiko 1

My husband is deployed and has been through this entire situation. We got in a huge fight, he wanted a divorce. I said fine, whatever, and he finds himself a gf online. Now, they have never met because he's still out there, and now 4 months later he wants to get back together. Well, he has told her a few times as nice as he can that she needs to go away, and she doesn't get it. She still emails him, says how much she's so in love with him, how they are meant to be blah blah, she's basically psycho. So, we've resorted to ignoring her instead of telling her to go away every time she contacts us. She still does not seem to get the flippin hint. Anything else we can do?

2007-09-23 03:15:29 · 14 answers · asked by burnt_crawfish 2

did you ever notice how the single guys your husband hangs out with pick on him when he says that he loves you or calls to see if you need anything on his way home from work?

2007-09-23 03:02:09 · 8 answers · asked by gorf79 2

And that man is your brother.... but you know your brother is in wrong.

2007-09-23 02:57:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently found out that my husband cheated on me at his bachelor party. We have been married for almost 5 years. He is not the one who told me however I know for a fact it is true. I have not been perfect either but he doesn't know that. I'm wondering if this is a conversation worth having with him.

2007-09-23 02:48:29 · 29 answers · asked by Butterfly16 1

What are the signs and symptons of the midlife crises?What age does this usually begin?My husband is 47.And some ways for me deal with the crisis the husband has to deal with.I need men opinions and nothing stupid please.

2007-09-23 02:46:59 · 7 answers · asked by lollypop 4

She is married. She take care of me and told several time that she missed me? Is is Just testing me ? or serious?

Should i go further ? or one more clollapes? I am not married Guys.

2007-09-23 02:27:36 · 20 answers · asked by Sara 3

he or she was truly sorry for what they had done to you and wanted to reconcile your relationship??

2007-09-23 02:24:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are the signs and symptons of the midlife crises?What age does this usually begin?My husband is 47.And some ways for me deal with the crisis the husband has to deal with.

2007-09-23 02:24:33 · 7 answers · asked by lollypop 4

I m 22 yr old and i love a girl but problem is that she is one of my frnd's cousin sister?
she is 21 yr old ad i knw her family bt nt very much b'coz her family and my family both r one of da welll know family of that town bt we are in diff business.
bt the real problem is that i never meeted with her bt going to meet her soon and we don't stay in same city although we talk over d phone daily, and i hav given her lots of hints that i love her bt i don't knw wat's going in her mind and c is very scared that if anybody will come 2 knw abt our frndship then her family will nearly kill her i m scared that if i propose her and if c rejected then i might can loose her freindship also..............
and i don't want this..........
and i knw her frm 1 month only bt can't stop myself thinking abt her 24x7 i hav seen her photo..........
so wat shuld i do?
shuld i meet her 1st be4 propsing her.......
or shuld i give some more time 2 our

2007-09-23 02:24:00 · 3 answers · asked by aashu1 2

my mum and dad have split up again, i wish they would just stay together- i mean their engaged, whats the point of them being engaged if they won't stay with each other for more than a week?

2007-09-23 02:23:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been having trust issues with my hubby and wondering if he is keeping stuff from me. Says he wants to work on things wipe the slate clean but I keep finding things here and there

2007-09-23 02:21:56 · 8 answers · asked by ajc09071998 1

Folks excuse all kinds of scummy behavior by merely calling the acts mistakes. They aren't mistakes- they are deliberate, considered acts. People don't "mistakenly" engage in long term affairs, take drugs, or drink every day by "mistake". The acts are commited on purpose. You stub your toe by mistake. You lock yourself out of your car by mistake. You forget to set your alarm by mistake. You DON'T mistakenly get in bed with somebody, drink like a fish, or have cyber affairs. Are scummy acts different IF they are called mistakes? Why do we lie about what the acts really are?

2007-09-23 02:21:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are there any guidelines on section 8 ?? My ex was approved and now she might be moving in a boyfriend that has a criminal background. Is he allowed to move in ??? I need terms and conditions or a florida web page for section 8 guidelines. Anyone please help !!!! Gracias

2007-09-23 02:15:34 · 8 answers · asked by Doctor Redcrow MD 2

Your friend borrowed money from you for a house payment ($1200-$1500) and didn't pay you back for 6 months. They acted as if they were struggling so you decide to make it a gift from your heart.

However, later you find out they were letting someone else borrow money from them for a video game subscription ($15/month) and other small item things ($25).

They mention wanting to buy expensive items in front of you. You decide to confront them on the issue and they explode in your face and tell you never to talk to them again.

They send you $50 and tell you not to talk to them again.

Would you be angry with them and what would you do to them?

2007-09-23 02:13:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

How long did it take for you to REALLY be ready for a new, serious relationship?

please add age and gender!

THANKS!

2007-09-23 01:44:47 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Ashley K. 5

In other words, he's seen a woman that's so physically attractive to him that he's having sexual thoughts and fantasies about her. How would you react to that scenario?

2007-09-23 01:04:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am I wrong to be jealous, if my husband received a "free gift" (a brand new Ecko Jacket, worth prob worth $50-$60) from a girl from work, that said it was from another guy she met at a club, and he left it in her car and my husband can have it?!

I was mad!

Thanx.

2007-09-23 00:51:12 · 29 answers · asked by SkittleT 1

2007-09-23 00:42:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married last year & we were a very happy couple.She got a job where she travels a lot.Recently she stayed outside home for 5 months & that time apart had killed our relation.She came back last week & went to her parents.She wants divorce now.I asked her to give me a chance & I'll try things if anything was wrong.Her family & friends also tried but she's not even agree to discus matters.Any advice?

2007-09-23 00:33:21 · 17 answers · asked by betrayed2007 1

I love my boyfriend, but I feel he doesn't respond to my needs, for the last year and a half he hasn't worked, he's lived off of me, and now I'm injured and can't work and he still wont get a job and he wont apply for gvmt assistance because he says he'd rather get a job, I feel like he ignores me most of the time, for example, if I want to cuddle he wont, but if he does I better or he'll have a bad additude and pout... if I want sex, he flat out ignores me and will only do it when he wants and will only do the things he likes, he's never done anything for my birthday xmas anaversaries, he's never planed a date, bought me a gift,
or cooked me a special dinner, all of witch I have done for him more times than I can count, and we're fighting really bad lately I don't think I'm asking too much I'd just like some effort to be made once in a while... I moved over 2500 miles to be with this man, is it time to go home or lay it all out on the line and give him an ultamatum?

2007-09-23 00:16:04 · 14 answers · asked by nupeper 3

I really hate to ask this question but I just like to seek earnest opinions. I must admit I am a very paranoid person and it seems that what had happened back in 2002 to my 2nd ex-gf (and the last) might be happening now :

I have been seeing a gal since last November and for prior to July this year, she has been tremendously patient and tolerant with me despite my negative speculation towards her in the area of guys issue etc. Each and every time she will care to explain to me they mean nothing to her.

For the past 6 weeks she has been extremely busy weeks after weeks such as going for company family outing, going back hometown, attending church camp and thereafter trying to clear her work within 2 weeks with night overtimes so that she could go for 2 weeks holiday in Australia which started on 14th September.

Despite her hectic schedule (which is so rare since I know her), she still keep in touch with me (as both of us are from different country) via text messages.

2007-09-23 00:02:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous