I have been having trust issues with my hubby and wondering if he is keeping stuff from me. Says he wants to work on things wipe the slate clean but I keep finding things here and there
2007-09-23 02:21:56 · 8 answers · asked by ajc09071998 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We already have issues about him possibly leaving or not. Not sure. He has purposely left things out to see if I respected his privacy after he had feelings for someone and it didn't pan out. Now it's wipe slate clean and date again with each other because that's all he can offer right now. We are married. Only to go look for a song and IM came up that he uses to talk to her. Says nothing left to be said 2 months after I supposedly had nothing to worry about.
2007-09-24 06:57:14 · update #1
qmail: Open source mail, calendar, contacts server with outlook support.
It's just a link, dear.
If he wrote it down and left it out for all to see I doubt it should be an issue.
I used to find women's phone numbers. One was a friend he hadn't seen in forever. He didn't know her number. He wrote it down. Probably called her. Lost the paper, I found it. I don't think he was too concerned about keeping it. He didn't know the number by heart, and he didn't bother to not lose the paper.
Sometimes, it's better to not panic. Sometimes if he says he wants to work on things, you just gotta treat him like he's already the man you love and trust.
Aim for the end result. Quit looking for where he'll trip up. Act like he's already where you need him to be. He'll get there faster.
I wish you luck, dear.
And God bless you and yours.
2007-09-23 02:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by Puresnow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know what qmail is but if you are having trust issues then start investigating if the results are important to you. I did it with the help of a couple reasonable priced programs and found out things that would knock your socks off ! I've chatted with many married men on the net and can safely say that probably 85% are married men cheating.
2007-09-23 02:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by Gabby552 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you must mean "gmail". It's a free e-mail service. You need to talk to him, and ask him if he has an e-mail account that you don't know about. Or, you know.. you could just look at the internet history, and see if he's going to the site..
Communication is so very important in a marriage, especially one where there are already trust issues. You need to sit down and have a talk with him, and let him know when things are bothering you. I mean, you won't know if you don't ask.
Take care.
2007-09-23 02:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by arkiegirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the #1 Quit looking for the trouble. Wait and whats in the dark will come to the light. Dont go looking for trouble.What he say you have to believe or your guilty your self.If you dont see him doing wrong then leave it alone.If you love him then trust him .God bless!
2007-09-23 03:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by cortez c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you are paranoid and you are just looking for an excuse to harm the relationship by not trusting him. Or, you are completely right and he is cheating on you, either physically, emotionally, or online.
2007-09-23 02:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i did a search and found the resource below.
you can search yahoo for any topic you can think of and get a lot of results.
2007-09-23 02:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be gmail.... google mail.... a free e-mail service... perhaps he has a g-mail account that he is hiding from you...
2007-09-23 02:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by hocus_frocus 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
yeah its google email, you can see it on the top of googles homepage
2007-09-23 02:28:17 · answer #8 · answered by sexy joker 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋