Marriage & Divorce - 23 September 2007

In other words, how do you get turned on, or what turns you on the most?

2007-09-23 13:56:22 · 18 answers · asked by Rick 2

My wife and I have grown apart religiously. We were both doing another kind of church and in the last year has gone full christian. She follows Keneth copeland ministries real heavy and I am finding out that she is donating like 300-$400 per month to him and a Babtist group. She has a $2000 Amex bill and asked me for money to pay for this. We both have income so I could just let it go but she also wants to sonate some of what I bring in. I told he I did not agree and maybe we should divorce. I am really not into this and did not sign up for it at all.
My mom gave me a few refrences from the bible where Jesus kicked the tables of people collecting money and so I don't know why these evangelists are justified in lining their pockets. How can they?? I am really wondering if I am looking at divorce. I disagree with all of it

2007-09-23 13:52:27 · 26 answers · asked by artguy90291 2

Have house with dept. Two grown kids still at home. Still here because do not have anywhere to go.

2007-09-23 13:42:14 · 7 answers · asked by drivelug 1

2007-09-23 13:38:23 · 18 answers · asked by lil' bitty 2

home early evening. With football season in he waits until the Dallas Game is over because he doesn't want to miss his game. He lives over an hour away and depending on the game can get home late. My girlfriend and I don't live together and her and her husband divorce isn't final yet. If he is going to be later than 830 Pacific time then she goes to sleep and last week left the door unlocked for him to carry the son in. This week she is leaving the key under the door. He will let her know that he left the boy in his room then leave. I don't like the idea of her ex coming into the house when I am not there and when she is sleeping. I just don't think it is appropriate but am I being unfair???

2007-09-23 13:28:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

On his birthday I got him a Boze radio. BTW. He says usually Mother's day is the important one.

2007-09-23 13:06:59 · 31 answers · asked by sad in Seattle 1

I am in the military and married. My wife is currently living in another country. I filed all the necessary paperwork to get her here to the U.S. but it has been almost a year now. We have an almost 3 year daughter together and she is here with me. As of late my wife has been ignoring my e-mails, taking all of my paycheck leaving me with almost nothing to take care of our daughter and myself. I am leaving for 6 to 9 months in November and my family has agreed to take care of my daughter for that time period. I can't live like this any more. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I would go about filing for divorce even though my wife lives in another country? Thanks!

2007-09-23 12:59:31 · 9 answers · asked by sparky_1627 1

If so list some of them, or do you share the household jobs together equally?

2007-09-23 12:55:42 · 10 answers · asked by doug g 7

Lately, my friend's husband has been making odd comments here & there about my chest or getting me naked. He's always been drinking when these comments are made, and sometimes he says them in front of his wife...sometimes not. So I usually just ignore them, but this last one really caught me off guard. I knew he wasn't at all serious, but I still snipped at him for saying something about sexual favors. because I am totally not that kind of girl and he should know that! and the conversation got even more uncomfortable that I started blushing--. so he pointed that out and finally admitted that was his goal--to see me squirm.
now here's my question: is he just being an idiot when he's had too much to drink? Maybe it's a weird game to see how long it takes for me to be uncomfortable or dish back--which I'm not very good at. OR is there some sort of 'wishful thinking' going on?
What do you all think?

2007-09-23 12:27:56 · 12 answers · asked by TeddyJ 2

i am 47 and have already been married once, she is 33 and has the same story. For four years I have been complaining I never want to get married, but over teh summer I have really fallen in love with her and at the same time have been making a whole lot of mistakes with her. I really went overboard around augsut 25th and hurt her. she sucked it up and didn't say anything, i felt like i was going to lose her so I called her and propsed, but she seen right through and said ask me agin when you have a clear head. So a week later I told her I was serious. I never asked her face to face or bought a ring. She doesn't go around telling people or talk about it much, but she cries alot and thinks I am just toying with her heart. I tell her I'm not and I'm not real sure how to rectify the situation. I can affor d a ring just dont want to do all that agin. this is her 2nd marriage why would she expect a ring and wedding. she hasn't asked for either, just said we can go away 4 a weekend.

2007-09-23 12:16:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think that my wife should serve "her man", but see says she doesn't do that. I think that she should put cake and ice cream on my plate and serve me when we are at family gatherings etc. . (girls, It was a "help yourself" as you want type of service- the wife) I think she should plate my meal and serve it to me. What are your opinions on this? I, the wife, think that he can serve himself and needs to quit whinning, he isn't helpless.

2007-09-23 12:10:42 · 14 answers · asked by doug g 7

There are various reasons I want my maiden name back, and I was wondering if I wanted to change my name, do I need to be officially divorced? Or can I just change it?

2007-09-23 11:52:26 · 13 answers · asked by Alicia I 1

We've been married for 26 years, and I'm just wondering if married women have found it to be a "turn on" to have sex outside.

2007-09-23 11:50:30 · 17 answers · asked by Rick 2

I have recently located an address for my ex husband. We have been divorced for 12 years and have a 13 year old daughter that he has not seen since she was 6 months old. There is no existing child support order because I have never wanted his money. I'm sure he believes that he owes 13 years of child support and that is why he has never tried to contact me. Our daughter is starting to ask a lot of questions that I can't answer and I believe she has the right to know him.

He was only 18 when we married and I have no idea what kind of person he has grown into. I'm terrified of my daughter getting hurt.

2007-09-23 11:39:46 · 20 answers · asked by jo.rogers72 3

2007-09-23 11:20:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont understand ?? is he just not attracted to me ? would that affect him wen we try to have kids?? how can he stop this addiction?? i had a miscarriage 6 months ago could this have been the reason? he keeps putting off the idea of getting his sperm checked and idk why??? please help

2007-09-23 10:55:01 · 18 answers · asked by live and let live 1

We have been married 14 years, and like all couples we have had our problems. He has never been the "romantic type" but for the last few years he has been extremely withdrawn. He doesn't do much for me. Never pays attention to me, is always busy doing other things, like watching tv and EBAY! He isnt very sympathetic to me at all. If i am hurt physically or emotionally. I have tried everything i can think of. We have talked about this several times, and he is better for about a week then back to doing nothing.He says he loves me and cares, but why dont i feel like he does? Im just at my wits end. I love him more than anything and have tried so hard to make him feel loved.

2007-09-23 10:26:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

One of my good friends called me today crying. She said that her husband grabbed her wrist hard enough to hurt her because he was angry that she put something in the wrong place and wanted her to put it down when she tried to correct it. This is the second time that something like this has happened (the first time he pushed her a bit) and both times were in front of their children. The strange thing is and this leads me to my question, when he isn't angry anymore he swears he didn't lay a hand on her. In fact he says that she is making it up. She absolutely believes that he doesn't remember doing it, is that possible that someone could be so angry they forget doing something? She also doesn't believe it is abuse because it happens so rarely and when he isn't angry he is a really good husband/father, but I have noticed that he gets angry and yellsover pretty much nothing, he even yells at her in public sometimes. Would you consider that abuse and do you think it will escalate?

2007-09-23 10:23:59 · 22 answers · asked by PinUpGal 3

I broke up today. I realized that my current situation was not going to change. He couldn't honestly say that he loved me[after 4 years]. He said he "cared". I feel terrible. I had something like an addiction to him. I loved him very deeply ,but he can not even commit to spending more than a day or two with me at a time. He asked why I couldn't leave things as they were. A little support or honesty please! Any suggestions on dealing with the pain. I don't want to be the weekend girlfriend, but I feel I made a terrible mistake.

2007-09-23 10:21:40 · 20 answers · asked by Merrie S 3

After not even being married 4 months my husband has told me that he's leaving me. He says that he can't handle the commitment of marriage and that he doesn't feel the way he use to about me. He says he can't let go of things from our past that hurt us. I have and I have moved on and want him to do the same. I don't want a divorce but nothing I am saying seems to matter! What can I do to try and save my marriage?

He says he has been to counseling and that everyone has told him to do what he thinks is best. He thinks there is no other option. I need help please.

2007-09-23 10:03:34 · 20 answers · asked by Froggy 2

if you opened my question,you will find me asking help about my problem with my husband.he like to sit on the net than with me.i did do what (impress) told me ,we had a fight cause he was so angry with me cause i refuse to *** with him.i knew that he doesn't watch porn movies or anythings like this.but still have the same problem with him .i even ask him to teach me to drive(i don't drive yet) ,he isn't to excited to do it,he prefer to sit on the computer .i could get rid of the computer ,but i use it sometimes when he is at work to see my parents on the webcam.i dont want him to think of me as a ******,but as a human ,i tried to talk to him nicely ,no use .i dont know what else i can do???

2007-09-23 10:00:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am very happily married to a my wonderful wife of 20 years. The problem is we never, I mean never have sex. We are very much in love and except for this are very happy. We have have concluded is most likely a hormone issue, we are 47 and 55. She is not willing to have her doctor see her. I think this is due to shyness regarding sex and since she is not missing sex, it is unimportant and not a problem. I don't think she is cheating. We have discussed my needs and how important it is to me, how I am hurting, how tense and frustrated I get. I have also told her several times how much it hurts me on an emotional level, (why isn't she willing to at least go to her female doctor). I have also told her that at times I question if she truly loves me. I have an extremely high sex drive. Even when we first starting dating and having sex 7, 9 times a week I was ready for more. I have been told by many of the girls I dated that I am a a great lover, no brag, just fact. Help! Please

2007-09-23 09:56:55 · 49 answers · asked by bruce j 1

2007-09-23 09:53:50 · 9 answers · asked by lion-guy 1

2007-09-23 09:41:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i suspected for years but i always chalked it up to being over jeolous. now she swares it only happen once but she told me for years she had always been true blue. I have always been faithful to her. I dont no why but i still love her i just dont trust her anymore.we have a13 year old daughter together and a 17 year old son from her previous marrige which i have raised since he was 2. should i leave her and if i did is there a women left out there who knows how to be true to someone.

2007-09-23 09:41:20 · 18 answers · asked by Jeremy G 1

please mention your gender and age [ at that time ] and teel that what it fels like,
1-). are you afraid.
2-). are you excited.
do you have plan to go for a baby at that time ???

2007-09-23 09:39:27 · 9 answers · asked by little girl 1

ok , im 37 and my girlfriend is 38 . We have been going out for 3 years and are going to get married in vegas next weekend . But heres the thing , her father doesnt know . and hes like the only familly she has left .

but the thing is he hates me and about a year ago she told him that we broke up just so he would get off her back . hes hated every boyfriend shes ever had she says and said that he doesnt want her to ever get married . now hes an angry man period so if she tells him this then he might have another heart attack and die . and thats not good . But shes kept this secret for 2 years and my mom knows . what should she do....

2007-09-23 09:33:21 · 13 answers · asked by roughdraftie 1

My wife and I are writers. She is about 2/3's into her latest novel based on her life. I'm in it, our neighbors, friends and family, etc. She is the protagonist and she hates the way her husband screws so she has sex with the mailman. Then she has sex with the neighbor. Then with her husbands best friend. All of these characters are people we know. i asked if there was any fact in fiction and she said it was poetic license. Then one day she turns down my advances by saying, "I've had enough of your little prick, Frank." Then she writes her narrator saying the same thing to her husband the next day and the internal monologue says: "I'm getting bored with him. I'll have sex with his boss tomorrow." Should I be worried about this?

2007-09-23 09:23:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 11 years and have 2 7 year olds. I feel like I have become a married single parent. Talking doesn't work and we almost filed divorce over a year ago at my request but I decided not to. Anyone have the same issues.

2007-09-23 09:20:26 · 12 answers · asked by allmine227 2

all the homework and parent folder. I am the custodial parent with physical placement, we have joint custody and they live in another township 45 minutes away. I also have a letter she wrote to the teacher requesting this folder and homework. How do I set them straight and can I file a motion against her/him? Our stipulation states nothing about homework responsibilities.

2007-09-23 09:18:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous