She is married. She take care of me and told several time that she missed me? Is is Just testing me ? or serious?
Should i go further ? or one more clollapes? I am not married Guys.
2007-09-23 02:27:36 · 20 answers · asked by Sara 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Obviously you don't respect yourself. Why would you see a person that is already married? You know, in some states the spouse can sue you for causing the marriage to break up. Get out of the situation NOW. Don't let her have her cake and eat it too. You're not married... SHE is. If she wants you in her life - let her make the choice to leave him on her own but if she cheated on him, why don't you think she'll cheat on you in the future? You can't...so move on and find a nice single lady that you can see an actual future with
2007-09-23 02:37:59 · answer #1 · answered by Em 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can not tell you what to do you need to make up your own mind but be careful married woman sometimes will break your heart she may not have any intention on leaving her hubby some times woman can be players to if they are not getting enough at home they want some on the side and if hubby finds out he may put holes in you and her both I would be very careful in fact I would till her she is never having you again till she is free single again just see how bad she really miss you or dump her!
2007-09-23 02:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. Blue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
firstly she is married so even getting involved with her can have dangerous consequences - have u fort of the pain thyat si wud cause to ehr family - her childern and husband, if it was known to u 2 wer seeing each other?
It is no good just being in limbo - obviously something isnt right in her marriage. You should just come right out and tell ehr that you want to be with her and that she should leave her husband or that u 2 shud no longer see each other. But u need to fink of the repercussions of saying this:
are you prepared to give her living quaters, finance her and her children, have a gd relationship with her kids and the rest of ehr family ... if not u need to fink about wot u r doing very seriously
However, She is more then likely to stay with her husband; will you be prepared for this disision, i mean if she realy loved u then wouldnt she have left her husband for u already? would she need u to bring it up for her?
personally, i think the best thing to do is to say that it has been nice, but u feel for her family, and that she shud try to sort out woteva is rong in ehr relationship that causes her to cheat. You might not be the only one she is having sex with. Then try to get involved with a single woman who can commit fully to you. Yes the sex may be very gd - but that is all ti is. She is still going back to her husband for the exact same thing every night.
but, of course, this is entirly your decision
xx gd luk hope this helpsxxx
2007-09-23 02:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think she is messing with you she probably does have feelings for you, I just think she is scared or maybe feels trapped in her situation, I dont see why anyone would lie to someone about their feelings, what would be the point, unless you are giving her money or she is using you in some other way. Maybe she doesnt want to feel bad for leaving her marriage, If her feelings are true she will be with you soon, but if they arent she will string you along, dont let her do it too long, make her make a decision or ask her why she wont leave her marriage.
2007-09-23 03:22:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on what you want. If you are good with being her #2, which allows you not to be too committed etc, then yes but if you want her for real, or you see that as a possibility NO. She isnt leaving her husband for you and even if she does, you would never trust her if she did.
2007-09-23 02:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y she telling u she miss, if she married?NO, u dn need 2 mess with no1 wife. What go around come around. Then u dn want 2 get hurt by her, she could never give u her all b cause she married.Find u some1 not married.
2007-09-23 02:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Captain S, she is married which is a dealbreaker. Find someone who is single or wait until she is. There are so many single women out there. Wake up. She is using you
2007-09-23 02:34:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! Not being married, that is. What you share with this woman is between you and her alone. If she is looking elsewhere, then clearly whatever she feels about her husband--and she may truly love him (that's beside the point)--she is looking elsewhere for something more or at least different. Remember, marriage is only a piece of paper. Commitment lies in the heart. Fifty-two percent of our marriages (U.S.) are failures. Doesn't this indicate to you that the institution itself is outmoded?
2007-09-23 02:35:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Ugh you asked the bubble question.
Look. She's not interested. If she was she would tell your mutual friend so, or she would return your vegetarian jokes.
Also, she's married. Sorry bucko, but you need to move past this.
2007-09-23 02:37:19 · answer #9 · answered by good gollum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
married women should be OFF LIMITS.
you are setting yourself up for a big let down if you are involved with a married person.
find someone single.. there are literally thousands of single women out there.
2007-09-23 02:30:38 · answer #10 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋