What are the signs and symptons of the midlife crises?What age does this usually begin?My husband is 47.And some ways for me deal with the crisis the husband has to deal with.
2007-09-23 02:24:33 · 7 answers · asked by lollypop 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
start going to swingers clubs , great fun, solves the mid life crises, and brings you closer together win/win
2007-09-27 00:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing about a mid-life crisis is this: if we're having them, we're going to be the last people to even be aware of this fact because we'll attribute our behavior to everythng else except that. Mostly it's a prevalence of a sense of regret for all the things we wish we had done earlier and didn't, and a strong sense of the passage of time. Beyond that, there's no predicting how it will affect someone because your crisis manifests itself based on your life experience, and each man's life experience is unique. Mid-forties is not a particularly miserable time for me because the way we're living today 40 is just a jumping-off point for a lot of life-experiences yet to come. But there are occasional instances I feel really isolated and lonely, but it's not a phenomenon I can adequately describe to someone who hasn't been there yet. Just be who you've always been to each other and things should work out reasonably well. I've definitely had worse stages in life. Good luck to you.
2007-09-23 09:56:50 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its the realization he wont quarterback for the giants, he wont be president of his country, Jessica simson wont date him, his kids arnt what he wants and he doesn't look like he did when he was 20 and finally it has finally become real that he will die
yes he knows all this intellectually how ever the emotion has finally caught up with him. Life has lied to him he did what he was supposed to do in life yet its not wonderful and great, life is just ordinary
the solution. men are simple creatures show him he can have more sex with you and exciting kinky stuff than any one else and that sucess in life can be found with you...in short make his life exciting
2007-09-23 09:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm 47 and haven't gone through it personally but just watched my live-in gf of 4yrs go thru it like a whirlwind, taking with her when she left my dignity, my home and $45,000 of my money saying just b'fore the door hit her on the a** on the way out, "i just don't believe u will ever be able to help me become financially stable, but my boss can".
that was 3mths ago, and surprise surprise the phone's been ringing...and i haven't answered.
2007-09-23 16:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each man is different. You become insecure of who you are and what you have accomplished in life. You see more years behind you than in front of you and it is unsettling.
When I hit forty-five I started running and have ran three marathons seven half marathons and various other races. I wanted to make me better. Guys just don't want to be just another old guy.
2007-09-23 09:36:50 · answer #5 · answered by Big Red 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You look out the window and see a brand new Corvette in the driveway. Sure sign!
2007-09-23 09:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
they complain daily about their body, lifestyle..remenisce about HS old friends..blah blah blah and how they used to play sports and yada yada yada, LOL.
2007-09-23 09:30:20 · answer #7 · answered by contessa 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋