Marriage & Divorce - 21 September 2007

I have some friends whom don't seem to wear their wedding ring often (but they do not hide the fact they are married) and some friends who always wear their ring.

2007-09-21 13:25:17 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wife gets all frisky and says things like we should put the kids down early tonight and then tells my kids its okay to stay up late. WTF, is going on with this?

2007-09-21 12:29:08 · 9 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

I am married with a 6 month old son and ever since my son was born my husband is never in the mood. He says it isnt me and that he is just tired and fed up with his job and everything but I always thought guys always wanted it and now it is like I want it way more than he does, I have tried just about everything to turn him on and nothing works. Is there something I dont know? Or is it normal to have sex twice a month after kids??? Please share some advice!!!

2007-09-21 12:16:55 · 20 answers · asked by A.J S 1

I like that term, how do other people feel.

2007-09-21 12:01:59 · 54 answers · asked by happy wife and mum 5

She never wins when we play tennis together, and I am afraid if I don't let her win now and then she will lose interest and stop playing.

2007-09-21 11:45:43 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many of you are completely comfortable talking about the how to's and nitty gritty regarding sex with your significant other? Are they comfortable talking about it with you?

LOL.. I'm an EXTREMELY HONEST person when it comes to sex.... what about you?

Oh, and Happy Friday!!!

2007-09-21 11:45:17 · 30 answers · asked by Wildflower 6

When we spit, he gave me the key back to my house. All his stuff, his kids stuff, and his pets (cat, lizzard) are still here it has been a month. He has showed up twice and only taken things he needed. When I ask when he is moving out, he says when he saves first and last. I'm tired of his stuff being here what should I do. He does owe me money, can I sell his stuff to recoup my losses, and can he demand that I give him his stuff back at any time?

2007-09-21 11:39:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does your husband cook dinner, clean the house, buy you roses, and cards, sometimes candy ... perfume .. and other things just because.

2007-09-21 11:38:20 · 22 answers · asked by Tru_New Orleanian 4

I know all the reasons WHY you should leave your husband. Having made up your mind that you need to do so... HOW do you DO it? I've been married 25 years. Yes, I have a job. Our kids are older 13, 16 and 24. I don't know what our assets are. I don't know anything except how much money we have in the checking account. How do you prepare to end it? Do I just pack up and leave and go to a motel? Not my style. Any thoughts?

2007-09-21 11:30:33 · 12 answers · asked by ohyeah 1

If so, what things do you and your spouse do to make it that way?

2007-09-21 11:27:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know that he loves me and will not cheat but I need the attention from him that he used to give me. Like when I was cooking he would come in and kiss my neck. There is no foreplay any more. I try to get him into the mood but NO such luck. We still have sex but it is always what he wants when he wants it. I am desperate here. This is starting to cause me to have more frequent depression attacks and they are getting worse....... PLEASE????????

2007-09-21 11:22:42 · 8 answers · asked by Jenniffer R 1

After work, my husband goes to this girl's apartment. Apparently, she cooks for him, bangs him, etcetc. By the time he goes home, he's exhausted. Why is he doing this? I cook for him, too. And take care of the house, our kids, etc. Why does he feel the need to cheat? Obviously he doesn't love me anymore. But I don't think he loves that girl. Does he? He even got a separate cell phone, just so he can call her "safely."

When I confronted him, he said he was sorry, and that I was his "true love." But he never broke it off with her. Does he love her? Or is it just a physical thing? How can I make him just love me and only me?

2007-09-21 11:07:53 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

on, and when he thinks I am moving on, he comes around me asking questions, and going through my phone and going through my things when I'm not around, WHY? If he doesn't love me anymore why is he doing this, we have been separated for four months now.

2007-09-21 10:50:04 · 23 answers · asked by beba 1

Ok, my husband is well, a tightwad, he isnt much for me spending money at all. So here's my question, do any other wives go shopping (I'm doing great now, I just go to Target and Walmart, not JC Penny, Elder Beermans, GAP, Old Navy) and then hide their purchases from their husband? I bought some earrings today for me to wear to work, and I have to hide them in my jewelry box like I've had them all along. Same thing with shoes, Got some crocks, and had to just toss em in the closet, and even socks, but he knows them bad-boys are new, they are nike socks.... I have to hide things I buy for our daughter (12mo) and he still gets on me if I buy things...like sandals...am I the only one who does this???

2007-09-21 10:20:18 · 26 answers · asked by marcie1997 3

My hubby and I have been married for 6 years. He constantly is telling me to change this and that about myself, yet I have been this way since the start. I finally got tired of it and told him to move the hell out if he didn't like who I am. Now we are seperated and he is making demands on me in order for us to get back on track, like sell all my animals...the ones that we have had for all 6 years and bought together! He never goes out and says that if I want to go out with the girls then he will leave and I can be single. Yet the 24/7 in the house with no friends and no getting out except to go shopping is killing me. I love him allot! But I cant handle him telling me that if I want him back then I need to change. Any advice?

2007-09-21 10:11:53 · 10 answers · asked by misshel 1

a drunk, a abuser emotionaly to me as well as occasionally physically, a liar, cheater, but when he says hes sorry i always forgive him. I wonder why i love him if its because thats have ive always felt for this long? Ive left him yet again but how do i move on? How do you make the love go away in your heart and how do you begin to pick up and start new without the person youve been together with since high school?

2007-09-21 10:09:29 · 17 answers · asked by charmed? 1

abuse

2007-09-21 09:54:40 · 14 answers · asked by §êx¥måmå 1

How do people feel about a woman having a child with a man who only had sex a couple of times and barely new each other? Yes, I understand that they probably did not take adequate contraception measures. I feel if a woman chooses to have a child after knowing that the man did not want a child, then it is her choice to keep the child and raise it herself without child support from the man or give the child up for adoption since she did not want a child or believe in abortion. What do you thinkl?

2007-09-21 09:47:58 · 32 answers · asked by LoraC 2

Especially Jessica Alba?

2007-09-21 09:37:34 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-21 09:37:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-21 09:34:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has been a very nice person and good to me since the day we were married, but my mother has always warned me to still be prepared that a lot of men eventually cheats down the road when the wife looks old and then he looks for younger women. I’m sort of very Chinese, so I get influenced by parent’s opinion. It makes me not want to put in too much emotion/trust to our marriage when I should because my husband loves me. Do men normally cheat once the wife gets old or for whatever reason? Should I believe that there are men whom are loyal to their wives for the rest of their lives?

2007-09-21 09:33:48 · 22 answers · asked by hueimo 1

between a man and a woman, men are so different then women.... be honest... thanks

2007-09-21 09:31:01 · 27 answers · asked by lauren j 1

In the mornings I am sooo grouchy! I just totally turn into a raving ^&tch. I hate being mean to my boyfriend. He is a wonderful man and I can't help but to take my morning grouchyness out on him. Any suggestions on how to get the morning grouchy's away?

2007-09-21 09:30:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf has been legally separated for quite a few yrs. and wants to become engaged to me before filing for divorce. Is this acceptable?!

2007-09-21 09:30:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im hurting. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me hald a year ago and it was really painful for me. He was always contacting me even after the break up and was telling me that maybe in the future we can get back together but he doesn't want to continue our long-distance relationship for now. It was difficult for me to know what he really wants because he was always very upset if I told him that I am going to stop all communication with him. I went to see him a month ago and it was very nice and he was with me as if we are still together but then he told me we need to move on at least for now. I was devastated. About a week ago, I told him final good bye but he contacted me again telling me it's too hard He asked me if I didn't want to save anything and break everything by walking away and cutting all communication. Since then I have taken his words seriously and did not manage to cut all communication. But now when I ask him to talk, he gets all stressed and says he is too tired from work.

2007-09-21 09:21:15 · 18 answers · asked by Elisa N 1

That has been about a year ago.I quit my job of (10) years, sold my house & left my friends to be w/ him.I know he appreciates that fact but sometimes I don't think he really understands what I have given up just to be w/ him.I've been getting depressed lately because I feel kinda of alone.You see, I am having a hard time making friends & have no life outside of our life together.The only "friends" I have are really just his friends.I thought I could make friends thru work but ended up working for a semi-retired CPA.It is only him & I in the office.Some days I don't see any one at all & the phone never rings.I eat lunch by myself everyday.I also go to school but the people I meet there are so much younger & are not interested in being friends outside of school.To make things worse, he just started a new job & is unable to e-mail or call me during the day like he used to.He has lots of friends & goes to lunch daily w/ different people, etc...I don't know what to do??? I'm depressed!!!

2007-09-21 09:18:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is my fiance'. Do you think it's right? It makes me feel like I'm less of a woman.

2007-09-21 09:15:34 · 33 answers · asked by Lisa 1

My boyfriend and I are not broke up we just dont live together after living together for 8 years. Now all of a sudden his ex wife is starting to show back up in the picture because she is having problems with her husband that she cheated on my boyfriend with. I can not stand this woman. HOw can I deal with this mess? My boyfriend tells me that he loves me but for some reason I think he is lying. He is not working right now and I am paying his rent. I am not going to let him be with another woman that easy. How can I get the truth out of him? WHy is he afraid to tell me the truth about his ex wife coming around.

2007-09-21 09:13:24 · 12 answers · asked by Sunny 2

hmmm... what are we talking about here....

2007-09-21 09:02:46 · 10 answers · asked by i_smith_2007 1