Marriage & Divorce - 21 September 2007

I received a notice to appear in court to pay insurance co- pays for my children, my ex has never contacted me to settle up on my percentage of these co pays she just filed it in court ....some of them go back to 2000 is there a statute of limitations perhaps?

2007-09-21 04:17:08 · 8 answers · asked by sabrefreeeek 2

I FOUND THIS ON MY HUSBANDS MYSPACE PAGE. TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK.

2007-09-21 04:16:36 · 5 answers · asked by T.C. 2

2007-09-21 04:06:02 · 8 answers · asked by qwerty 2

I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 1/2 years. I am 31, he will be 33 in couple of weeks. We have been talking about marriage for what seems like forever now, he being the one who first brought up the subject. We talked about everything, where it would be, what we wanted, where we would live afterwards, how many kids we wanted and what their names would be. We even talked about a timeline. We both agreed that we want to start having kids by the time I am 35 and we want to be married for 2 years before we start having kids. He wants a Catholic wedding, they take a little longer to plan. Most you can't pick a date earlier than 6 months. I want a year to plan. We went to 2 different places to look at rings and picked one out, but now he says he's not ready. He says someday he'll be ready. I will be 32 in 5 months and I am READY! I've told him I won't wait forever, but I have no idea what to do now. He thinks I should just wait indefinitely. I feel misguided. What do I do?

2007-09-21 04:04:32 · 8 answers · asked by ebert_mn 1

I have a lot of concerns, here are just a few:
I feel my son has a right to know, but I hate to think that he'll not think of me as his father. I'm scared that he'll want to meet his dad and then I'm fearful that his biological dad will want some level of custody or visitation.

If I don't my son, I know its possible that he'll find out at some point by accident - when I can't provide blood, organ, etc, who knows but I can't imagine how upset I would be to find out that my dad has been lying to me all my life - I can't have my son hate me for that.

what are the legal issues? If the table was turned, I would be very upset if I had a son and didnt even know about it. what rights do biological fathers have if they haven't been around for the 1st 10years, even if they didn't know.

what if there are genetic health issues that we should know about?

I love my son and I will never be able to think of him any different than my son. But, because I love him, I want to do what is right

2007-09-21 04:02:22 · 27 answers · asked by David J 2

and is a good mom n wife

2007-09-21 03:53:05 · 8 answers · asked by sonu 1

My kids' mother abruptly moved to another state six months leaving the girls with me. I know she lives in Nevada, but she never gave me an address. What would happen if I filed for sole custody of the girls and the courts (in VA) were unable to find her prior to the hearing?

2007-09-21 03:50:31 · 21 answers · asked by Neosamurai 1

the most useless wife who should leave him. why does he not feel love for her. what are the reasons that he wants her to go from his life

2007-09-21 03:48:23 · 9 answers · asked by sonu 1

I'm referring to weight gain, illness, losing hair, skin disease, menopause, etc.

2007-09-21 03:35:15 · 19 answers · asked by m23boyz@ameritech.net 1

I wanted to get all of this done today, but the original is locked up in the gun safe, and I have about 10 copies- can I use those? I've tried calling the SSI office but it's been busy all morning....

2007-09-21 03:34:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-21 03:34:21 · 11 answers · asked by christina 2

The wife and the bull!!!
A man takes his wife to the county livestock show, and they head down the aisle that houses the bulls. The sign on the first stall states, THIS BULL MATED 50 TIMES LAST YEAR.

The wife turns to her husband and says, “He mated 50 times in a year. Isn’t that nice!” After passing a bull that had mated 65 times, she grinningly quips, “You could learn from this one!”

They reach the last bull, whose ownder is stroking the massive beast’s head. “How many times has your bull mated this year?” asks the wife.

“This here’s the pride of the County: 365 times, ma’am.”

The wife’s jaw drops, and she turns to her husband. “Wow! You could really learn from this one. You should ask him what his secret is!”

The fed-up man turns to the breeder and says,

“Hey, was it all with the same cow, i doubt it?”

HAPPY FRIDAY

2007-09-21 03:30:28 · 11 answers · asked by Changed4the Better :-i 2

This is my sister's situation:
She lost her job 2 years ago. Got married 3 months ago with man who she loved very much and who seems loved her.
He has a very good job, not rich, not poore and his family has money.
Now he is drank every evening after work, his constant explanation of that that she doesn't have a job. She is trying to get job now, but it takes time. She is angry and upset with him all the time. Which as he is saying, makes him more unhappy and more drank...
The truth is that he didn't change a bit. He was drinking like that almost all his life. She just didn't want to see or believe in it. Now she can't stand him when he is drank, but still love him very much.
He swears that it will change when she got a job.
But for right now he is drinking and waching porn, she can't get a job and getting more and more depressed.
No children.

Do you think is there any posibility for change?

Sorry for mistakes.

2007-09-21 03:26:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

how can you justify a betrayal of friends and former girlfriend. it happened a long time ago and they're all gone from my life. but the fact still remains that i was betrayed and nothing ever came back to them for it. i know its just a move on, forgive, forget, etc. but what if it still makes you mad even years later?

2007-09-21 03:24:54 · 14 answers · asked by steveo 1

My wife regularly complains about her boss who flirts with the ladies, saying suggestive things and some other inappropriate behavior. Because of that I didn't like her boss and really couldn't stand him for putting my wife in such a state. Last week at a party, my wife and I had to hang out with her boss and I realize he is a pretty attractive man. Also I noticed that my wife acted very strange around him. It seems to me that my wife is in fact very much into him and has not been telling me the truth. Should I be worried that my wife might have a heavy crush on her boss or be concerned that more things might have happened that I may not be aware?

2007-09-21 03:20:08 · 17 answers · asked by Rick 1

I didn't even know such a thing existed until I got married, but now it's something I think about often. Is this something you've ever dealt with? The idea that sometimes at work or in social situations you form a bond that is too strong with someone of the opposite sex? The challenge, I think, is when your spouse does not share the same interests. For instance, I'm a writer and my wife is not a huge fan of talking about the nuances of book publishing. So when another female wants to discuss this in detail, I have to be very careful about what parts of my heart I open up to her.

So my question is, have you ever had an emotional affair?
How did it end?

2007-09-21 03:19:36 · 13 answers · asked by longtuesday 2

I just don't know what to do anymore. My husband was so great at the beginning of our marriage and now he is pissed off at the world constantly. I try to talk to him but he just wants no confrontation of any problems and will just walk off or leave. This is just not with me.. it's people at his work too but I get the worst of it. I have tried praying, I have talked to counselors, we have gone to marriage counseling... nothing seems to work in the long run... I have come to the end of my rope.. This is what happened last night.. I made a nice Supper.. I told him that he needed to chew his food more slowly because he was chewing so fast (I said it in a Very nice way) he threw the plate on the floor, spit the food out and stormed out..This is just an example.. he is constantly throwing these kinds of tantrums.... What is wrong with him? What should I do? Any Advice would be Greatly Appreciated!!!!

2007-09-21 03:18:07 · 36 answers · asked by ckverzwyvelt 2

We've had trust issues in the past and she cheated on me about 6 years ago, but I forgave her and things had gotten better.

2007-09-21 03:05:36 · 59 answers · asked by Joseph T 1

points for practicality of divorce in debate pls....

2007-09-21 03:00:57 · 5 answers · asked by hanjew d 1

He looks me dead in me eyes, not in a mean way, not in any way really, but when I speak to him he just keeps looking, but does not speak back. I don’t know him, I don’t know his name or what he does. I just see him in the office building that has a total of 14 floors sometimes.

2007-09-21 02:59:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

he says "i love you " and you feel like you automaticlly have to say it back or he gets upset WHY ????????

2007-09-21 02:56:30 · 11 answers · asked by miss v8 4

2007-09-21 02:53:18 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-21 02:50:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I let my husband go out last night to the club because this group that he really likes was going to be there. We're currently separated and trying to work things out. He was going home early since he had to go to work today and get up at 5:30am. He said he would call me and he never did and hasn't since yesterday evening. That's weird of him because he always always calls.
Right now I'm just so angry with him because so many things go through my head like (what if he took some girl home and that's why he didn't call me) just all kinds of crazy thoughts.
I thought I did trust him, that's why I let him go in the first place.
Any help would be appreciated.

2007-09-21 02:44:30 · 23 answers · asked by ~Mommy*of*3~ 3

2007-09-21 02:44:20 · 21 answers · asked by Starte Christ 4

I have been separated for 2 months from my husband. We have 2 young kids together. I became pregnant and had our baby in May. I admit I was not as careful taking pills even after my husband voiced he did not want another child now. Well, he was VERY cold and uniterested during my pregnancy and when she came, he was very distant to her, didnt hold her etc. Six weeks went by and he held her twice. He just said he didnt feel it was his fault b/c he wasent ready emotionally or financially for a child. We had our family problems too. So I left when she was 6 weeks b/c I felt he wasent treating her like he should have. Well, 2 months has gone by and he is JUST coming around some- asking about her, has held her, talks to her. I want to work things out and try b/c I want to for my kids. I also still love him. My parents say I should never go back and forgive him for what hes done. What do you think?

2007-09-21 02:43:07 · 46 answers · asked by Rebecca H 1

2007-09-21 02:39:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my current boyfriend {who will remain nameless} aske me to marry him and i don't know if i want to but i love him soo damn much. what should i do??

2007-09-21 02:33:31 · 28 answers · asked by Star 1

How long have you been married?

2007-09-21 02:22:05 · 29 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4

My ex was ordered to pay me a sum of money 3 months ago because he refused to take my name off of the mortgage (after 2 years of being divorced, my name was ~still~ on the mortgage) then he let the house go in foreclosure and I had to file bankruptcy. We have a compliance hearing set for next week - does this mean the judge just wants to see if he's 'complied' with the order? What might happen when I tell the judge he hasn't paid me a penny of what he owes?

2007-09-21 02:21:48 · 2 answers · asked by razor_sharp_redhead 3