Marriage & Divorce - 21 August 2007

2007-08-21 18:30:57 · 31 answers · asked by utopia264 2

I'm am going out with this guy in his mid 30's. I've heard many rumors that he's married. Most of the time I'm at his place and he still lives with his parents. If he is really married and then how come I don't see his wife or any kids at all? And If he is really married and then wouldn't his parents say SOMETHING to me?

2007-08-21 18:21:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or would you like your own room? Or the couch?

2007-08-21 18:01:24 · 22 answers · asked by Wendy B 5

A scenario were "we just fall out of love".

Many situations in were a couple is married but either person fall out of love.

Thoughts on the subject.

2007-08-21 17:46:42 · 14 answers · asked by jane 2

my girl friend has got large breasts which are extremely loose, and with lots of shrink and wrinkles. she has got lots of stretch marks in and around her breasts. her nipples and surrounding area are also with full of wrinkles. she shows much much interest in sex and handles very well with my guy. i really get a feeling she s a worn out thing.i am in a serious date with her and planning to marry.but her few other activities shows she wanna marry me as earlier as possible and wanna be safe.i am much confused as she tells a lot of lies as well...can any one suggest. please.. as its my life problem

2007-08-21 17:45:55 · 10 answers · asked by stud 1

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 3 years. Our relationship is great, we have never had a fight, we have been living together for 2 years. I feel as if it is time to get married, however he is terrified!! He saw his mom go through several marriages and divorces and he says he doesnt want to get married. I don't know how to make him more comfortable about the situation. I don't really bring it up often, but he is 25 years old and I think he is a bit old to be scared of commitment. What should I do?

2007-08-21 17:39:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had an affair on my husband about 16 months ago!
I thought I was in love with the o/man he just wanted the sex!
My husband found us out an o/man jumped ship and begged my husband not to tell his wife witch he did anyway, their divorced now and he now lives in Montreal with another married woman to boot!

My husband threw me out but a lot of pleading a begging from me he let gave me another chance. The problem is in the 14 months we been back together he wont have sex with me, he even sleeps in another room on the far side of house.

I WAS WRONG FOR WHAT I DID AND FOR HURTING HIM, but now I'm hurting I go to bed along get up alone last 2 weeks my husband said about 6 words to me all week long!

I asked him if he wants to get a divorce and he said he still in to much pain and would make a rash choice if I pushed him.

I love him I just can't believe he would throw 12 years of marriage away for my stupid actions!
What else can I do, I miss, and love him so much?

2007-08-21 17:38:16 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

He moved out because I called the cops on him for putting a chokehold on our son (15 yr old). He should have apologized and committed to anger therapy instead of trying to make me feel guilty. I just wanted to project our son. He makes me sick. Plus he's such a porn freak! Why does he want to divorce me? I should be divorcing him!

2007-08-21 17:33:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

4 to 5 hours. Is this friendship or was he trying to develop a relationship? He has been divorced for two years. It was very frustrating because I never knew where I stood! What do you think? He has never dated since his divorce and he has no one in his life except his daughter that he has everyother weekend. He is always worried about money and says that his life is boring. Yet he won't go anywhere. I asked him to join my friends and I at their lake house and that never got off the ground. I know he likes me, he confides in me, but he is very nervous............what do you think. Four to five hour phone calls? Does any guy do that?

2007-08-21 17:32:45 · 4 answers · asked by SMITHYSNUFF 1

I had an affair with a co-worker over a 3 year period. I really loved him deeply and I think he felt the same. We ended it 3 years ago when I got pregnant (with my husband's child). We've had little contact since. We work for the same employer but different buildings. We used to e-mail each other on birthdays but last year he e-mailed me a month before my birthday and told me we shouldn't do that anymore. I told him I agreed. He e-mailed me a long e-mail about a month ago talking about how he just has to say what's in his heart. How there is a part of him that wishes my little girl was our little girl. How he still wants to say those 3 little words at the end of e-mails. But he has always said that he loves his wife and is very happy in his marriage. He said it again in this last e-mail. How he thinks he's happier in his marriage then ever. What is this? I'm not a man, and am completely confused by his words He's always been so back and forth.

2007-08-21 17:17:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been dating for over a year. Saw where he was texting an unknown number. A week later I find out its his ex. The texts said something like "too bad were both taken" & he said "makes me wonder and want you"
she cheated on him in high school and is married now with two kids. Should I break up with him? Or just forget about it? Things have been good untill this. Right before I saw these texts he lost his phone at my house and was freaking out... makes me think he was trying to hide something

2007-08-21 17:08:28 · 18 answers · asked by cammieismycaddy 1

Sudenly my wife is acting relatively normaly Sudenly changes mood ,talk to her she give short answers, or goes all night into bedroom,i try to think what i ,did i coulden't think of any most times,i ask is there anything wrong,or what did i do ,the answer is no..nothing.please identify your jender ,she is 54 i am 59 thanks

2007-08-21 17:08:26 · 18 answers · asked by frankbarakat 2

Im newly married and there is different topics I think are important to talk about to make a marriage work, and so your clear about what you need and expect from the other person. For instance if i have a problem, I think i should be able to come to him in a calm manner and tell him how i am feeling and what i need from him. When i do this he freaks out and says he doesnt want to talk about it.
Or if there is something i would like him to do for me, like buy me flowers or surprise me with a romantic weekend, he takes it as him not being good enough when im really just trying to give him an idea of something i would appreciate.
I know we should of talked about expactations before we got married, but we didnt. Now when i try to talk about it he goes back to the I dont want to talk about that stuff and wont even look at me. In fact whenever i try to talk to him about anything serious he never says anything back, he goes silent and wont look at me. So how can i get him to open up?

2007-08-21 17:06:12 · 16 answers · asked by soldiersprincess 3

2007-08-21 17:05:03 · 11 answers · asked by Nalz 1

My ex wife has been calling my girlfriends job for 6 months hanging up on her, as well as walking through the mall she works in even though she has a restraining order. In addition to that she has been calling my place at 330 in the morning to wake me when she knows my girlfriend is over and calling early mornings asking questions I gave her answers to days earlier. Last Friday, my ex dropped my kid off and the timing was really bad because my GF was drivng up at the same time. My daughter told me that my ex began to weep, and ask why my girlfriend could park in the covered parking at my building. She tells everyone that she is over me, but yet she still gets emotional. To make a long story short, minutes later she hit me and called the police and said that I hit her. We both were detained. I got a restraining order against her and she countered by sending the Sherriff’s to my mothers place to take my kids away (even though a court order says they are supposed to be there) How do I stop this? She is manipulating the law and playing the victim.

2007-08-21 17:01:26 · 24 answers · asked by CEDRICK H 1

Before marriage it is your parents, but after marriage it is your spouse. Whenever there is a murder the spouse is the first suspect because they gain all your money, so then why do they get to make the decision to turn off your life support system?

2007-08-21 16:59:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i cannot state or express ANY anger at all in my marriage because there is only room for one person to ever be angry in this household--HIM. i told him 3 nights ago that i had anger building inside of me because i have recently discovered after 5 years of marriage all the lies he has told me...complete fabrications of events, portrayed himself as a war hero, lied about scars on his body, stating that they were from war injuries, many other lies, lies, lies. nothing about himself has turned out to be true...anyway, i generally told him i had anger toward him (didn't yell, don't ever cuss at him or accuse) just stated the facts...next day, he ripped me to shreds verbally, attacking me on every level, from motherhood to who knows what all! it was very traumatic. i can't take much more. he takes meds for bipolar disorder. he's 63, we sleep in separate rooms, he doesn't want affection or sex, and i'm basically fed up. is there ANY hope for this situation from a medical standpoint?

2007-08-21 16:41:31 · 15 answers · asked by diamond heart 4

How many times do you have sex before you have and "o"? My husband and I can go about 3 times in one week and on the 1st time of the following is when I finally have the "o", then back to the 3x waiting period. Is this normal. Sex is still great even when I don't.

2007-08-21 16:20:44 · 18 answers · asked by sassy lady 4

whats the best way to pleasure you husband

2007-08-21 16:15:18 · 13 answers · asked by pualla walla 1

my boyfriend is 32 and told me he is not getting married until he is 45 ..we only been together 2yrs and have a son together but I'm ready for marriage I dont know what to do? am I doing too much?

2007-08-21 15:59:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have an order of protection againts my ex..i locked him up..its basically a domestic violence case..the case hasn't finish and i keep getting temporary order of protection on the mail...so my question is what will happen if i go visit him in jail? will i my case be affected by me doing this? can the courts find out i visited him? will they drop the order of protection? what will the outcome be? can he use this againts me? am pregnant with his child and i live in new york..

2007-08-21 15:58:19 · 11 answers · asked by Amythatsme 3

My husband and I have been married for 2 years and I would like to get breast implants. I have wanted this for a long time and we can easily afford them. My husband is opposed to it and says he loves me the way I am and me getting them would just be for show. I am VERY petite and very small in the chest. I don't want anything outrageous, but I would just like to feel more confident and sexy myself; it is nothing to do with wanting attention from men. How can I help him to understand this, or should I just forget it? Thank you.

2007-08-21 15:56:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-21 15:52:50 · 15 answers · asked by Maripat R 1

My wife and i always quarrel over small matter and after the fight we remain quiet for certain time before we talk again. I think this relationship is not healthy cause neither my wife nor i do not want to lose unless someone give up by making the first move in conversation.

I am a workaholics. I work from 7.30 in the morning up to 9 o'clock at night and i work as an educator. I am extremely happy when school or public holidays are around the corner. At that time i can take a rest or do something else but even it is a holiday season i still can't talk well with her.

I have twins son and because of this my instinct tells me to be patience and not to overact or doing something foolish(think of the children).

My wife is a working person too but only until 5pm in the afternoon. It just like two of us can't get along well. We have been married for 5 years.

Do i just do my own things everyday or should i take a long break from school or something else.

2007-08-21 15:42:27 · 6 answers · asked by andyraba 1

2007-08-21 15:28:08 · 6 answers · asked by da da 1

2007-08-21 15:24:20 · 12 answers · asked by honey 5

I just looked at 2 answers and want to add the following. I do take it very slowly, lots of 4play gentle massage, all that stuff. I really do it all correctly, I try new stuff, old stuff, at differnet times and places. I leave it alone for days on end hoping she gets in the mood. I think she may have an hormonal inbalance, she is 50+.

2007-08-21 15:22:12 · 18 answers · asked by roadcracks 1

My parents went through a horrible divorce. To make a long story short...my father is just the devil himself. There is no other way to describe him. We went to court to increase child support and although we won..I'm sure he will try to appeal it. I know he works..and he fakes disability and works for his family and is paid under the table (In order to pay minimum support). Is there anyone who knows how to prove this? How can I help my mother prove to the court that he really has money he just doesn't want to pay child support?

2007-08-21 15:20:10 · 5 answers · asked by Joy 2

would you rather get fresh flowers or a box of expensive candy or both?

2007-08-21 15:19:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is one bill in particular that my ex husband is supposed to be responsible, they keep coming after me. They are not even looking for him. If the marriage decree says that he is responsible why are they coming after me and not him. I'm in KY by the way and I don't know the laws behind this. It is also showing up on my credit report.

2007-08-21 15:19:02 · 6 answers · asked by Nally25 3