Marriage & Divorce - 21 August 2007

2007-08-21 12:33:59 · 24 answers · asked by Alisha 3

I admit right now I am not the dating type. I have been on lots of dates and everyone rejecting me, until now. I finally have met a girl who has accepted me for who I am gave me a chance and now is deeply in love with me. I knew a girl could fall in love with me if they just had the patience to crack my shell open and let my warm side shine through. She tells me I am the most loving lover she has ever had and no one has ever made her feel this loved.We are now engaged to be married!

I do love this women, but part of me wants to marry just to get back at all the bad dates; all the girls who never wanted to give me the chance. Just to prove to the world I am not a freak and I am marriage material. I may not have the looks but I have a very warm heart, have great morals, and am loyal to her. I dream about flaunting my marraige ring around and feeling proud. I feel like showing her off to my the past girls I dated because she is way better looking than any of them. Is this wrong?

2007-08-21 12:31:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

We recently eloped. We sent a loving note to all family, saying that we might have a gathering where everyone can attend. My father and step-mother don't like my husband because he spoke up and has, in the past, made some mistakes (as we all have). He is a good guy; I love him to pieces. All my other family was kind and supportive. My father loves me a lot but I know he is angry. He wrote me a note saying that their love and prayers go with me into my new life and that they miss me. Does this mean that they don't anticipate continuing a relationship? Or am I just nervous? By the way, I am an adult--not a real young one either, I am 30-something. I just felt that I needed to make my own decision about who I loved. This reminds me of the old saying, Never tell a parent about a fight with your boyfriend, because the two of you will forgive, snuggle and make up, and your parent will still hate him. I feel I made a mistake in that but at the time I really needed support.

2007-08-21 12:30:26 · 6 answers · asked by summerquilt 1

I found a book called, "Why Men Love B&tches"? I read it found that i am nothing like what they are describing.... have you heard about this book? and MEN.... Is this true? Be Honest!

2007-08-21 12:27:18 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 25 I have a five year old daughter and have been in a few serious relationships. I know the difference between lust and love and have sewn my wild oats so to speak. my finance is 21. he was virgin until me. not because he is ugly or he couldn't get any girls. he says it was because he is picky. now that he has had sex he love's it, you could say he's an addict,, but then again what man isn't. we are saposed to be getting married some time in the next year or so but im scared. can a man really go through his life and only be with one girl? I know he is very much in love with me and would never do anything to hurt me but will curiosity get the best of him? he's still young and there's allot of women out there. i guess the fact that he held out for the "right one" should reassure me but i have found it hard to trust men from some of my past experiences.

2007-08-21 12:15:37 · 32 answers · asked by P_I_XX_I_E 2

My wife and I sometimes talk "dirty" while being intimate. She has ALWAYS been very generic nothing with details or anything like that. The other day while fooling around she told me she had been a bad girl and that she had slept with her boss from a few years back. She had never said anything like that before so it caught me off gaurd. Then we were fooling around the other day she starts telling me now things she told me then about how they were often alone in the office and he liked to show her funny things on the net, she then said one day while he was showing her something funny he kissed her. Said they kissed a long time then hands began to wonder and things happend. My question is...is she talking dirty or is she for real? She played it off after we were done, but I am just wondering what to think. What do you think? Is this playing to our dirty talk or ya think maybe she was a "bad" girl?

2007-08-21 12:12:39 · 18 answers · asked by Wonderingman 1

You see question like "And they have no clue I have been sleeping and creeping around". Then you look at your spuse and think.......Hmmmm....could they have been cheating just like this person.

Does it make you feel that people these days are nothing but scumbags and noone is trust worthy?

2007-08-21 12:08:20 · 13 answers · asked by Mr.DarkFire 2

i was checking my husbands inbox and found an e-mail written to someone he used to date asking her to meet him in thailand and saying that he missed her. this date was supposed to be on our first anniversary and right after i found out i was pregnant . what should i do?

2007-08-21 11:46:03 · 34 answers · asked by lanoutos 2

i want to know if u are very happy or happy in ur marriage u love u wife. would u cheat if some hot chick wants to get to know u or if u are put in a situation to choose having sex with a good looking girl or say no. what would u do. pleez tell us ur age too. i just want to know or feel reassured that there are men out there who will not cheat no matter what even if the stripper is 7

2007-08-21 11:39:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked this question 20 min. ago, but dumb yahoo didn't even post it.

2007-08-21 11:37:25 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was married when i was only 18,and i was mother at 19.my husband changed and all my dreams were over.my family helped me very much,i am so lucky for that.i decided to divorce cause he became violent and i was afraid.living together was imposible.now i live with my family and i am safe with my daughter.i am an excellent student, this was my dream,that is caming true.i am quite and happy but at the same time i am afraid for the future.will i be a good mother.

2007-08-21 11:36:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husbend is planning a party too. dont really want it but he thinks it will do me good. I just want to hide out in my room on that day

2007-08-21 11:29:59 · 21 answers · asked by robertandwendihill 1

just want to ask this coz im curious.what's your view about sex after being married for some time(say 2 years or more),had kids & obviously your age is starting to get into you?i am also married for 3 years now with 3 kids & i still can't figure out why sex is so much of an issue among other couples that giving in or denying it can either make or break a relationship.needless to say,im contented in that aspect,he he,but i just want to know what exactly do other women in my age category think about it.had it also been a big deal between you & your partners or are there some kind of compromise when it comes to going to bed with the hubby?& do you encounter problems when it comes to hitting the sack after years of being together?

2007-08-21 11:13:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Mine is:

My Give a Damn's Busted

2007-08-21 10:18:41 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

and tell me about it,

a few stars are called for here,,,cheers

2007-08-21 10:18:04 · 26 answers · asked by justmebackagain 2

they need to enjoy the family
for heritage
feels alone

2007-08-21 10:02:07 · 9 answers · asked by Raheel A 1

2007-08-21 09:57:26 · 35 answers · asked by Kerstyne 1

I am not the OW, I am the wife, and I have a ? for the OW out there.. If you talked to you lovers wife, and answered her questions, were you honest, did you lie, did you eggarate? Did you tell her things cuz you thought you were doing the right thing, or did you tell her things, in hopes of poisoning her mind against her husband, so she'd leave him and he could be all yours? How many OW actually ask the man if he's ever cheated on his wife before, or ask him why he is cheating? This OW in my life, told me she asked my husband both ?'s and his answers, according to her, were yes he has cheated before and he is currently doing it cuz he aint happy.

I just want to "pick the brain" of women who have been "the other woman" before.

2007-08-21 09:52:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-21 09:49:04 · 23 answers · asked by christina m 1

If you really look at it you're doing nothing more providing a pleasure that you're able to give one another. Is that really so bad?

I think society makes too big of a deal out of it.

2007-08-21 09:43:28 · 37 answers · asked by Boss 2

Ever cheated? Never cheated? Let us know!!!

2007-08-21 09:43:16 · 26 answers · asked by Hannah 4

do u want to get married one day? are you the kind of person who wants a family life and all that stuff? i know i do

2007-08-21 09:28:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-21 09:22:57 · 17 answers · asked by msblkbtrfly69 1

It has been oft said that women do not get off on visual stimulation. True for you or not? Why? If not, what gets you off?

2007-08-21 09:18:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and myself have been together for almost 10 years and things have been up and down..stressful at times.His family doesnt like me much, so they dont come or call or visit our little girl. And when they did visit they told her mean things about me! That broke her little heart.(by the way shes 5) He never really sticks up for us like he sticks up for them when we argue. He calls me names and my daughter sometimes like brats,bitches,stupid,dumb. I get so mad and we start to argue, he has a bad temper and I tend to always be the one to make things better. He is not putting much of an effort. Also he says he will change and has for the past 2 months but little by little I see him creeping his old habits back into the relationship like the name calling and not spending enough time with us. That was one of our conditions we would try to work on that. I cannot make it by myself he makes 3 times more than I do, my daughter is already having a hard time at school, I am scared to move?

2007-08-21 09:16:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-21 08:55:56 · 8 answers · asked by bunny 1

I kept my last name when I married my husband. How should I be addressed? Mrs (My last name)? Ms (My last name)?....

2007-08-21 08:48:35 · 20 answers · asked by razor_sharp_redhead 3

He said "Goodnight Dorothy" once and then last night he said "Goodnight Doris"!!!. I was away for 2 weeks a short while ago visiting relatives and he was unable to accompany me. My name is PAM !!

2007-08-21 08:45:59 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

While going down the road (I was driving), my fiance threw a cheeseburger in my face. I was pissed off, so I pulled off the road to calm down, and he backhanded me. I had a good mind to flag down the first cop I saw, but I was afraid that we would BOTH go to jail, and my daughter would be left alone. I would leave but I have no money to find a place to live (I have been a stay at home mom for the last 7 years), and I am scared that if I do leave, he won't let me see my kids. I wonder if I start documenting all the mental, verbal and physical things he does to me, can I use that in court?

2007-08-21 08:43:23 · 12 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7

2007-08-21 08:40:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous