I asked this question 20 min. ago, but dumb yahoo didn't even post it.
2007-08-21 11:37:25 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I guess I should admit that that includes me.
2007-08-21 12:08:18 · update #1
People always want what they can't have. Besides, if a girl sees that a guy is taken, you know he must have some good qualities right off the bat.
2007-08-21 11:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by grouch2111 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
The ambience of experience has always been an alluring trait to all people especially women throughout history. The thought of a married man should possess those traits that they are looking for in a mate to be in one already chosen. The misnomer is that the compatibility of the mistress and the married man could be a mismatch. Some are just homewreckers and are in it for the money and whatever destruction they can cause as their own worthless lives are like their values, down the tubes to the gutters. For God sakes lets promote the American family and make them not tear them apart. Do not make the family swim in the gutter of the homewrecker regardless of how attractive the man is leave his family alone.
2007-08-21 11:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple reason, THEY are no longer available and to the single women who sometimes unable to think sensibly are a challenge and so a good catch!!!
Most married men are already experience and so know women better than single men.
I may sound cruel, but I hope single women who run after married men are badly burnt and learn their lessons wells so that they will not be marriage wreckers again.
2007-08-21 11:47:09 · answer #3 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, it is all about the thrill of having something that you shouldn't have, or can't have.
A married man is a challenge,,,,
can you get them to stray from their wife,
can you get them to be unfaithful,,,
some girls are actually sick enough (sorry)
that they do it just cuz they get a thrill of maybe getting caught,
and some, just down right don't give a crap,
if they want your man, they are gonna take him,
just to show they can.
Some women who are single who don't want a solid commitment like married men, because those men are already committed to someone else,,,therefore, there is not a worry bout commitment, breaking that commitment, and there is no strings attached.
That is about as truthful as it is going to get.
2007-08-21 11:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by trinity3x3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women like to challenge other women, they feel they can be better than the other one. Competition is fierce amongst women.
Married men are also attractive because of the challenge they represent. Curiously women tend to cheat more than men, I don't understand why, but it is true.
Marriage can get a little boring for women so also married women may have an itch to go looking for something they don't have.
2007-08-21 11:46:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Because they're off limits. We always want what we can't have... and married men definitely fall into that category.
2) They are married, which in theory means they are not afraid of long-term commitment. This also leads us to believe that they have good sense, are responsible working men, and can help keep us secure: physically, financially, emotionally. Those are a few of the things we look for in a man.
3) We expect them to stay faithful. Personally, I have noticed that if I meet a cute guy who has a girlfriend or something, I tend to flirt a bit more with him (not intentionally) because I KNOW that he is supposed to remain faithful to his lady. Fidelity is attractive--especially in a man.
(The problem is: a guy is still a guy, married or not--and if you continue to flirt and tease and seduce, they give in to your charms, more often than not...hazard of the trade...)
Regardless of your situation, though, I want to share from personal experience that it's simply a bad idea to get involved with a man who belongs to another woman. That's it. Bottom line. There's too much at stake on both sides...and it's far too complicated. Plus, he's married...I wish I could emphasize this to you in person...it's not worth it.
2007-08-21 11:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by Esther O 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Often single women are not looking for anything permanent. They just have a need and a married man will take care of it without wanting to have a steady relationship. It's only about need and comapny when it is desired.
2007-08-21 23:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is the fact that they can handle responsibility. That makes them attractive. It is awful though. It is up to the man to shut them down because they made the vows. Why would anyone want to go out with a married man, it only shows that they are scum if they cheat. What comes around, goes around.
2007-08-21 11:43:39 · answer #8 · answered by greysfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't know married men were attractive to single women...i thought it was just the opposite....
i don't understand why so many men would pretend to be single to impress single women when in fact if they told the single woman that they were married they would have more success picking up females...
i may have to test this theory...i'll go to a club one week and "announce" i'm married and see what happens....
the following week i'll go as a "single" guy .... stay tuned maybe i'll post my findings...
2007-08-21 11:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by Cupcakes Moosey! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I suppose that some of these married men are looking at these young and/or older single females as wanting them. Or they may feel that it could be a conquest to brag to some of their friends. Not my cup of tea however as I personaly do not believe that 5 minutes of pleasure with a secret attractive women is used to ruining the rest of my life by losing the love of my life.
2007-08-21 11:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
*Most of the married men I know are quality men, why wouldn't a single woman want a quality man? Even if she has to fool herself into thinking that adultery is acceptable...if it is with her.
*Some single women love to tempt a man who is taken. It helps boost the self-esteem to think that she could snag him from another woman.
*Some single women want to piss off the married man's wife, particularly if they know his wife and don't get along with her.
*Most married men I know exude a confidence and comfortability that draw people to them in general, this includes single women.
*For single women who just want no strings attached sex, married men are an added bonus. Many married will cheat, but won't leave their wives, this means the fun of not being attached even when you're a home-wrecker.
*Some women are simply trashy, skeezy, whoresque and in need of mental help.
2007-08-21 11:53:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋