You see question like "And they have no clue I have been sleeping and creeping around". Then you look at your spuse and think.......Hmmmm....could they have been cheating just like this person.
Does it make you feel that people these days are nothing but scumbags and noone is trust worthy?
2007-08-21 12:08:20 · 13 answers · asked by Mr.DarkFire 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not necessarily now but I did in the beginning. I have been cheated on several times and I made my current boyfriend jump through hoops to earn my trust and prove to me that he was not that type of guy. It took about 2 years but I trust him now more than any guy I have ever been with. If anything, now I sympathize with the women that have men that are unfaithful, because its hard, and it hurts. Trust is one of the most inportant things in a relationship and if I think that way, then obviously I don't trust him, and don't need to be with him.
2007-08-21 12:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by lwomar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way...You & only your know your husband. Just because someone else was unfortunate to have a cheating husband doesn't make all husbands fall in that catagory. Don't let the power of suggestion ruin something that wasn't broken in the first place. There always have been cheaters, both husbands & wives. I just think now days people are more open & we're finding out things that just weren't "spoken" yrs. ago. If you have NO reason to believe your husband is unfaithful, get the thought completely out of your mind. Don't let it ruin your good marriage & good relationship you now have. Just be grateful you can be happy & proud of a husband who loves you & cherrishes your marriage vows. Look on the positive side of life & don't change anything. Life has enuf problems, we don't have to go looking for something that doesn't exist.
2007-08-21 19:21:37 · answer #2 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I try to judge everyone is individuals and not assume because one person is doing it that everyone is doing it!! I trust my relationship and my husband and he does the same and I do my very best to keep my marriage, fresh, exciting, new and accommodating..... so if anything does happen I ill have no regrets but I don't walk around with those kinds of thoughts about my husband!! Its not worth getting married or staying married
2007-08-21 19:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by sexychocolatecity21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone is capeable of cheating not everyone does act upon it though. But now that I am seperated I have learned that my husband snuck around while he was suppose to be at work, took the days off and did who ever and what ever. I didn't even know until a year and a half ago.
2007-08-21 20:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No; this is something that's out of my control, and I don't fret about it. If he's sleeping around, and I don't know about it, it's fine with me. I mean, what am I gonna do about it, really? I'd rather enjoy my blissful ignorance than spend the rest of my days in miserable suspicion. By getting married, I acknowledge the "risk of injury or death" - so once I get past it, I don't dwell on it too much.
2007-08-21 19:18:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of motel rooms with a lot of married women when I was younger was enough to tell me how trustworthy humans are, if I hadn't known otherwise.
QA just says things haven't changed much
2007-08-21 19:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by Jack P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a dysfunctional way of thinking. If your logic was true, then my spouse would also be a pedophile, bank robber, homosexual, republican, and a ham sandwich... among many other things.
You best bet would to be to stop thinking so much.
2007-08-21 19:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. I choose to trust my husband and have always told him that if comes down to it to be honest with me and tell me he doesn't want ot be with me anymore. So he doesn't hurt me more by finding out he was cheating and so he doesn't hurt our daughter. You can't go by other peoples lives. You just have to live yours.
2007-08-21 19:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by chuchua1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Many people are faithful; you just don't hear about them. Why spend your time wondering about what 'might be'; enjoy the moment.
2007-08-21 19:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by pussycat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope I trust my husband. I guess you just have to know the person you are with....sorry
2007-08-21 19:11:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋