Sudenly my wife is acting relatively normaly Sudenly changes mood ,talk to her she give short answers, or goes all night into bedroom,i try to think what i ,did i coulden't think of any most times,i ask is there anything wrong,or what did i do ,the answer is no..nothing.please identify your jender ,she is 54 i am 59 thanks
2007-08-21 17:08:26 · 18 answers · asked by frankbarakat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like menopause to me. Short tempered, moody, ultra sensitive, crying for no apparent reason.Those are some of the symptoms. Does she have hot flashes? Or night sweats? She's at the right age for it. It affects all women differently but if this is a relatively new thing I'd bank on it. She could find out for sure with a blood test. Have her talk to her doctor.
2007-08-21 17:24:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first thought was also bi-polar or depression... if your noticing other "bizarre" or "uncommon behaviors" from her... then see her physician and explain your concerns with her.
It could be menopause... does she cry easily, have night sweats, she's cold one minute and flushing hot the next?
If asking or questioning her mood seems to make it worse... try more I love you's and hugs... I don't know if you have any grown children but sometimes a women can really grieve for years over an "empty nest"... if so she may just need to feel more love and know how much she is still needed.
Hang in there:)
(FEMALE)
2007-08-22 00:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by Sorry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman. I think she is going through a depression of some kind, wheather it be from menopause or something else. She is telling you the truth, she really doesn't know why she is feeling the way she is, that is the way depression works. Have her, or go with her to the doctor and explain whats going on. this is the only way to get her out of the hole she is in. I am not a doctor, just someone who has plenty of experience with depression.
Good Luck!
2007-08-22 00:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by julia b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the answer is no or nothing because there is nothing specifically that you have done. sometimes, it's that everything adds up to piss someone off, and it may not be directed at you. my questions are: has this been an ongoing thing, or just a rare incident? is she under a lot of stress, at home or away? is she sick? any health issues? I would be searching this. don't ask what you did, ask how you can help her make it better. that in itself would go a long way with me, especially if I had just told you that it wasn't anything you had done. don't just assume she's pissed at you. assume there's something else going on, and she's trying to deal with it. good luck! (27F)
2007-08-22 00:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by flgalinms 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the change of life, both my mother and step mother are going through the same thing right now. It is very confusing for those around them. And to think this is what I have to look forward to in 30 more years. Female 26
2007-08-22 00:14:30 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like depression...maybe associated with menopause. The change of life can do a number on a woman! Just to be sure, she should see a Dr. to rule out any other problems.
If it is menopause, don't try to "fix" it. Husbands often want to fix things for their wives. We don't need you to fix it...just to be there for us.
Hang in there!
2007-08-22 04:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let go of what could be wrong and comfort her. Go in the bedroom with her. leave a love note on her pillow, or simply a rose. Massage her feet, or simply just lay next to her and hold her till u fall asleep! It could be nothing u have done, she is just experiencing life changes. Hormones stink!
2007-08-22 00:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like me when I am upset about something. When I get like that I expect my husband to know that I'm mad, but he usually doesn't have a clue. I would try and talk to her in a very intimate and non threating way. Sit her down and let her know that you are concerned. Tell her that if you did something you want to know what so that you can make it right. But don't get upset with her. That may be why she's not saying anything. She may be scared to confront you. Female 31, married 7 years.
2007-08-22 00:28:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am not a dr. but is sounds as if she may be suffering from bi-polor disorder. it could also be due to a number of things, menopause, depression, anxiety, feeling as is she is not needed, is there a possibility she could be pregnant? feeling as if she cannot get away, or maybe even the realization that she is getting older.those are just few examples... btw i am female
2007-08-22 00:17:34 · answer #9 · answered by firechick1721 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you help out round the house ? cook? clean ? vacuum ? wash dishes ? wash clothes ? take her out for dinner and romance her anytime ?
When we say there's nothing wrong it usually means we're tired worn out and wanting effection or romance or just a break from it all.
How's your attitude towards her? check it out compare and work on it , give her a massage , run her a bath , cook her a romantic meal , take her out for lunch on a picnic , lost of choices good luck.
Oh I'm female by the way just in case you were confused.
2007-08-22 00:15:05 · answer #10 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋