Marriage & Divorce - 6 August 2007

My partner really wants us to have a threesome. I have had previous experience of girl on girl sex. The problem i have is that when i have been drinking the thought of us having a threesome really turns me on, and my partner and i fantasise about it regulary, and i talk about us having a threesome. The problem is, although it does still really turn me on when im sober, i dont feel the need to act out our fantasy. My partner thinks i am being untrue to myself, and should just go for it, but i think from past experiences that i would really regret it, if i go ahead. Am i in denial? Should i just go for it?

2007-08-06 10:20:16 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you had circumstantial evidence that said your husband was cheating, but not enough evidence to say without a doubt, would you confront him with what you did have, that only suggested he maybe cheating? Or would you "lay low" and gather more evidence before saying anything? BTW...there is a history of cheating. I gave him a chance, but this "evidence" I have is suggesting he blew his chance. Unfortunately the evidence doesnt come right out and say, "I'm cheating on you".

2007-08-06 09:54:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

With all the weird things going on in my relationship, I suspect my husband of having an affair. Do men intentionally try and make their wives think they are messing around to make her insecure. Or do they play games hoping she will get fed up and leave on her own so he won't feel like the bad guy. Sometimes I think my man tries to purposely want me to be jealous but then he turns around and get agitated if I act suspicious of him. Just when I'm starting to feel comfortable with him again he'll start the cycle all over again.

2007-08-06 09:54:09 · 8 answers · asked by stella 2

I was just wondering if you have to file for divorce in the county and state you were married??
I was married in Illinois and now live in Wisconsin.
Also, Is there a site I can go on to get free divorce filing forms?
Your answers are greatly appreciated!
Thank you in advance!! :)
Hope

2007-08-06 09:44:41 · 4 answers · asked by hope_xoxx 1

Whenever we make love she always chokes me lot as much anymore but when we first got together she always did it at first i was freaked out,then it kinda turned me on, now i'm back to freaked out she only does it when shes drunk.

2007-08-06 09:44:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sorry for posting in this section

2007-08-06 09:44:37 · 6 answers · asked by jessica 2

My wife only wants to be intimate on Saturday mornings. She is not affectionate any other day of the week. Is this normal ladies?

2007-08-06 09:43:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

they guy that knocked up some other broad after 3 days of me leaving now ran up my cable bill to 500$ and it was all porn.......... what to do what to do? should i kill em??? i am already leaving but now i wanna kill em...

2007-08-06 09:42:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married 17 years and I still love my husband very much. I have spent the last 12 years trying to improve our sex life. The first 5 years we were together almost daily.... he changed after I became pregnant with our first son... he refused to have sex during and for 3 years after I gave birth... he finally started giving me sex again once every four - six months for about 4 years [I was thrilled]... then he just quit again.. and I desperately tried EVERYTHING I knew of in the last 4 years to entice, seduce, interest or help him want to... he simply refuses to accept that anything is wrong... he told me he's happy with me... he just prefers to masturbate. I was very hurt he was satisfying himself and withholding from me! I felt betrayed and out of anger and hurt sought advice from an old boyfriend... we had sex... and I felt aweful afterwards. I even fantasized that he was my husband ... I will NEVER do it again, but should I tell my husband about it?

2007-08-06 09:39:39 · 15 answers · asked by Sorry 2

I am talking to these two women... One is 19 very naive and innocent... The other is 38 has tons of mileage but seems to care more. What do you recommend?

2007-08-06 09:38:44 · 14 answers · asked by Ronnie 2

My wife wants went to a bar last weekend and she is planning to go again next week or two. Is this the beggining of the end, or should I trust her. Why are you divorced or separated was it because she started to do her own thing or something else?

2007-08-06 09:37:32 · 8 answers · asked by Shadow 4

I need comments please!

2007-08-06 09:29:31 · 8 answers · asked by Arlene K 1

An Irishman was very ill and on the verge of dying. The doctor called the man's wife in and said,"There are three things that you can do to help your husband back to health"

"What are they, sir?"

"One: You must make him three huge meals every day.
Two: Never argue with him.
Three: Make love to him every night.

"Agreed." Said the woman.

On the way home the husband asked what the doctor said.

The woman replied,"Your going to die."

2007-08-06 09:27:56 · 17 answers · asked by "!" 5

find out your wife( or husband) making love to the neighbor they are so busy that they do not know you are watching them.
what do you do? what is the best reaction?????

2007-08-06 09:26:17 · 40 answers · asked by spicy 2

Call her again, and accept that she was upset or would you say to hell with her?

2007-08-06 09:22:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys I dont mean to be rude, but I just want to understand why do some men make a promise to a woman when they know they cannot fulfill. I see the point that you want to win her for that moment, but how about consequences...I mean, when you make a promise like this, dont you think "what will she feel when she knows that I just lieyed?"
I would love to hear your openions.

2007-08-06 09:21:07 · 12 answers · asked by applegoogle 1

2007-08-06 09:18:41 · 36 answers · asked by dizzymooo 4

My husband comes home at 4AM sometimes and says he was at the bar...don't bars close at 2? We live in California, SF Bay to be more precise. He says that he goes to his friends house from there...should I believe that? Doesn't that sound like a croc of poop?

2007-08-06 09:16:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

When the divorce was filed I signed custody over to my ex and I got visitation because I worked the night shift and being that I don't have any family nearby I didn't have anyone to keep my children at night (ages 2 and 4 at the time). I am still working the night shift however, I am remarried and my wife is able to be at home with the children at night (we are all on good terms and I know my ex doesn't have a problem with my wife being with the children at night) she does this now because we get them on Friday nights and we have them for the summer.
I need some pointers on what things I should include when trying to talk her into joint custody, I am seeking joint physical custody and proposing that she keep sole legal custody, meaning that she has the final say in decisions regarding education, health care, etc. because we always discuss things of this nature and come to an agreement. Thanks!

2007-08-06 09:15:24 · 4 answers · asked by billy g 2

My husbands birthday is coming up in a few weeks. He has everything he needs-he says. He'll be 47. He likes Harleys, the Steelers, working on cars... guy stuff. Is there any cool gadgets or tools out there?

2007-08-06 09:12:48 · 3 answers · asked by rmk 1

Do you regret the age? Did the marriage work out?

2007-08-06 09:09:52 · 30 answers · asked by to the moon 2

I have been with my husband for a grand total of 14 years. We have a 4 month old. My husband goes out, gets drunk, hangs out with his friends and comes home at 4AM! Not all the time, but at least twice a month! He doesn't call me at all to tell me where he is either! I ask him and he simply says "I was just out". I am upset because like him I have a fulltime job and I am tired when I get home...still I care for our son with a lot of love : ) I don't know what to think! And when he comes home, he goes directly into the bathroom and blows his nose under the faucet! So to me...he's also stuffing his nose!

2007-08-06 09:01:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband says I am selfish for wanting to go on a cruise with him alone. I think it is weird that a 37 year old man has to go on a cruise with his mommy and older sis.

2007-08-06 09:00:53 · 18 answers · asked by SABRINA 2

2007-08-06 08:49:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

no health reasons for this nothing she or he is just off sex.

2007-08-06 08:46:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-06 08:42:22 · 19 answers · asked by godsent1121 1

I have almost been married for 2 yrs. I'll be turning 20 next month. my husband is very controlling. when we first got married he was physically abusive to me. now its not as bad but he still gets that way every few months. he knows my email password-this one is secret and he doesnt know i have it. he doesnt want me talking to my family or making any friends. he is scared of me going to college as well as learning to drive. we also work at the same place which makes to difficult to leave. he says he wont change. he also has threatened some pretty nasty things if i did decide to leave him.

2007-08-06 08:38:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went through some very difficult times during a recent seperation from my husband and a man that I grew attracted to said he wanted to be my black knight. Any ideas what he could have meant?

2007-08-06 08:33:56 · 17 answers · asked by willow 1

My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years and have been wanting to get pregnant so bad! well finally we did!!! yay! and we have such a wonderful relationship, or so i thought! a week after we found out i was pregnant, he went out to the bar, got all whiskey drunk and made out with a girl that i hate and he know i hate her! he says he was taken advantage of, but he didnt push her off or say no. My mother says"i know you need him to get through this pregnancy, but i would not marry him!" and now he pressuring me into getting married b4 the baby is born. Am i just setting myself up for more heartache? what should I do? what would you do?

2007-08-06 08:25:08 · 11 answers · asked by 315 1

moved back in together. After two years of me not seeing or talking to my mother in law and her only seeing our children (which she denies) once in two years she has gone on a rapage and has had the police out to our house 4 times in the past week. She called CPS and claimed we were neglecting and miss treating our children. CPS came to our house and investigated and found the alligations to be false!! Now she has slapped my husband with a restraining order full of false allegations. I dont know how to deal with all of this and if there is anything I can do. Any suggestions? Police and CPS are on our side so far and my husband is fighting the restraining order but what if her behavior continues? Might I add she lives in the same neighborhood and us!

2007-08-06 08:18:34 · 21 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2