Marriage & Divorce - 6 August 2007

we were both lieing on here because we were both idiots but we will never do so again plz forgive us ppl of yahoo answers.do you forgive us?

2007-08-06 05:51:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband contacted his ex from 20+ years ago by email They have been emailing each other a few times a week for a few months and have gone to lunch together at least once that I know of We got into a big fight and i asked him to leave he refused He says he has cut off all contact with her and he has been very attentive and loving I found some poems and stories he wrote about two people meeting and confessing their love and unhappines being married to someone else but thinking of eachother but not being able to promise anything to eachother now one says even after all these years are you surprised that its me who is secretly crying tears and that he'll just have to settle with being friends one says it was clear the first time i saw you the feeling haven't changed. He said shes happily married u don't have to worry. during an argument he said 1 time lets just wait til the kids are grown well decide what to do then he said he didnt mean it he says he wants to work on it advice?

2007-08-06 05:45:16 · 12 answers · asked by june_cleaverisme 1

You cheat on your husband and fall in love with your lover. Your relationship with ur husband had hit a rough patch and things were new and exciting with your lover. You still talk to the lover and sometimes get torn between the two. Husband is obviously more controlling and jealous now. While other one only wants to be intimate. What to do?

2007-08-06 05:45:04 · 22 answers · asked by Jen-C 1

I'm shy and so is she but I want to surprise her tonight.

2007-08-06 05:38:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are there definate signs, not just "a feeling"?

2007-08-06 05:31:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My life is torn apart, I love a woman more than anything in the world, and now she wants a divorce, because she doen't love me any more?? Just what the h*** does that mean???

2007-08-06 05:24:27 · 14 answers · asked by tonythetiger925 1

2007-08-06 05:20:54 · 16 answers · asked by turbospd 1

2007-08-06 05:17:02 · 29 answers · asked by bjg76522 2

Hi everyone,

About a week ago my bf and I broke up. Yesterday I got an e-mail from him asking me to mail him his blue winter jacket he had lent me this past winter. He never asked about it up until now. I e-mail him back asking why would he be needing a jacket in the summer? He responded that he doesn't need it now, but it would be smart to send it to him since I will be moving soon and he doesn't want his jacket to be put away in boxes.

He lives in CT and I live in Jersey. Why would someone remember about a jacket in the middle of the summer??? Besides, he never uses this jacket. A day after we broke up I'd left my favorite skirt and blouse at his home, but I took it as lost item, because I was not going to call him for that.

What does this means? Could this be an excuse to initiate contact with me? Any ideas on how to handle this type of e-mails? I miss him terribly.

Thanks
Luna

2007-08-06 05:16:58 · 21 answers · asked by Luna 1

I am planning for a divorce in the state of NY. I tunneled some money to my NRI account in India (the joint account holder is my father). I bought a property in India on my fathers name. Will this property be taken into consideration when it comes to contested divorce.

2007-08-06 05:13:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think my terrible wife put finely ground glass in my peanut butter sandwich. Will this cause me many problems inside of me? I tried to force myself to vomit but it didn't work. I saw her using the peanut butter yesterday so I know she did something to it because I was like, I think I will make a peanut butter sandwich for lunch tomorrow' out loud which was clearly a mistake on my part. How can I tell if there is glass in the peanut butter?

2007-08-06 05:12:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or perhaps a dime.

2007-08-06 05:11:56 · 6 answers · asked by Heyderguy 2

I'm bored today and need some "good" reading material, does anybody have a story to share? Humorous stories are good, stories for adults only are good too...i have some i can share with you in exchange if you're interested, mature people only please...

2007-08-06 05:11:03 · 7 answers · asked by Cupcakes Moosey! 4

tell him how i really feel

2007-08-06 05:10:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband just left me for another girl who is also married. Now, the husband of his mistress and I are starting to get along with each other. We send text messages everyday and we see each other secretly. I still love my husband, and I know what I'm doing is wrong. I just want my husband to have a taste of what he has done to me. Up to what point should I stay with this kind of situation?

2007-08-06 05:09:46 · 27 answers · asked by revengemama 1

Went through your phone to see who you had called and who had called you?

2007-08-06 05:07:40 · 19 answers · asked by Lady M 6

2007-08-06 04:57:12 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been together for 14 years next month. We have a 4 month old son who I adore : ) I am pretty much fed up with his behavior this past year....or so. He leaves home and doesn't come back until 3 or 4 AM! When I ask where he was he says "I was just out"...when in reality, he was at the bars drinking and stuffing his nose. I confronted him early this morning since he decided to come home at 3AM again....and he didn't deny the fact that he was out using drinking and doing drugs. This is not an every day thing, but he has been doing this at least twice a month! I have dealt with it because my son is so young and nobody wants to lose their family. I'm so exhausted and so fed up, that I am ready to go. I am afraid of change. I doubt that he'ss faithful while he is out since bars stop serving alcohol at 1:30AM! Just the thought really makes me sad. He's a nice guy, responsible, & has a good job.

2007-08-06 04:54:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is is that when a man treats a women like ****, doesn't take care of his kids or denies them, the woman loves him to death? But, when someone treat her like a person, she doen't know how to accept it. Do you have to cheat on black women or treat them like **** in order for them to love you?

2007-08-06 04:53:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

she holds the title and plus it is paid off. She refuses to give me the title to purchase this car. What can I do?

2007-08-06 04:50:29 · 12 answers · asked by Joe 2

we have been broken up for over a month now (i broke it off due to petty stuff)

i see quite often because we work close by each other
and everytime she sees me, she initiates conversations
its ok to chi chat but she always bringin up the new girl in my life and commenting on her
wanting to know information about her
the recent convo she kept lauging and smiling which i felt like i was doing anything out of ordinary to make her laugh
she kept on tappin me on the arm and smiling
she grab my note pad and sign her name on it also adding "hugs"
i mean i still have feeling for this girl
but i dont understand why is she so interested in my personal stuff after she said we are friends and that she met someone new (which i kinda think it was a made up story)

she doesnt call me but whenever she sees me in person she s always sparking convo and somewht flirting with me

why is that?
any adivce or suggestion

2007-08-06 04:47:08 · 7 answers · asked by simple J 4

I feel like taking them to the grand canyon and leaving them there.

2007-08-06 04:45:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-06 04:44:04 · 1 answers · asked by tall 1

Alright, I'm aware that I may come off as an insensitive, controlling wife (and I've already been told that by my husband), but I'm pretty sure he's mistaking that as me being a concerned wife. Tell me what you all think...

My husband is 6'2, 245 pounds (that's a 65 pound gain since we got married 4 years go). He drinks AT LEAST one 2 Liter of Mountain Dew a day, eats these god awful greasy breadsticks that he gets from the town gas station, eats plenty of fast food on his way to work, and can literally eat a whole pizza (and does very often). I call him a walking heart attack, and I really believe that. Heart disease runs in his family.. and he refuses to eat the fish or chicken I make for dinner; however, he never turns down a big juicy cheeseburger or steak.

I'm not trying to come off a motherly type, screaming at my husband to "eat his vegtables," but I don't want to be a wife 15 years down the road with a dead husband either. Am I overreacting?

2007-08-06 04:43:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Months ago, i found out that my cousin and my husband had an affair, it hurts me a lot but i need to stay with my husband for the sake of my kids. Although my life is miserable right now. i don't know what to do but i love so much my kids. Don't really know how to handle this right now. It makes me crazy everyday.

2007-08-06 04:42:32 · 69 answers · asked by Desperate Wife 1

My husband moved away from all of his family to another state to be with me & our child (I am also pregnant). We had marital problems including past abuse (over 1 year ago), & extreme amounts of cheating on his part. He promised me the world & was doing very well this last week. He found employment quickly, & has been very supportive toward me & our child. However, Saturday night he backslid. He was feeling antsy, & agitated. He left the house & went to a strip club. When he came home at 330 I saw video on his phone of him going out to eat with three girls he had met (they weren't doing anything but eating) & also several video clips from the strippers in the club. He promised me that he would never cheat on me again & that is why we got back together. I cannot just pack up my things & leave him because as I said he has a history of violence & although he has not harmed me in anyway in well over a year it is not easy to just up & leave. Am I overreacting I really need advice.

2007-08-06 04:40:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I thought she was going to be different than what everyone seems to say about their mother in laws, but she's not! She drives me insane and she seems to do it on purpose!

2007-08-06 04:40:19 · 2 answers · asked by Leslie K 3

My wife left me and she wont hardly talk to me. She says that I took her for granted and she needs time to find her self. She says she wants to be friends for now and take things slow but she realy wont even act like friends and always has an attiude with me and is very secretive. She blames me and a sexual harressement issue that she ended up getting fired over due to not taking part in bosses advances towards her, but this happened a year and a half ago and now the issues started. Just dont know what to do. HELP

2007-08-06 04:40:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i don't like kissing my husband, because he has bad breath, and i think he needs to brush his teeth more often. but i don't want to be rude about it. does anyone have any ideas?

2007-08-06 04:39:13 · 15 answers · asked by tiffany s 1

Maybe I have had the big "O" and didn't know it, but I thought something was supposed to actually come out. I seem to get all of the feelings that lead up to that - tingling, hot, fast heart beats, can't be still, feel like I am going to scream ... but nothing comes out. Also, a lot of the time right after I get that feeling it's like the high goes away and I am not interested in moving forward with the physical aspect of it. It's like I have this really good feeling but once it goes away I am totally disappointed and not in the mood. I get this feeling with oral and a toy. Very rarely do I get this feeling with just plain old sex. This has been the case with anybody that I have been with, not just my husband. I have tried to relax, but I just keep thinking about other things (bills, work, etc.). I've been this way for a long time. It's to the point to where I am feeling what's the point of having sex. It is VERY frustrating.

Any thoughts or ideas?

2007-08-06 04:38:52 · 7 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4