what to do about my marriage?

Question

My wife left me and she wont hardly talk to me. She says that I took her for granted and she needs time to find her self. She says she wants to be friends for now and take things slow but she realy wont even act like friends and always has an attiude with me and is very secretive. She blames me and a sexual harressement issue that she ended up getting fired over due to not taking part in bosses advances towards her, but this happened a year and a half ago and now the issues started. Just dont know what to do. HELP

Answer 1

She doesn't know what she wants so what do you do, sounds like you will be the blame for everything weather you like it or not, just maybe you should call it quits if you have lost all hope with her.

Answer 2

I understand what you are going through. Long story short, my wife and I have been together for over 10 yrs, married for 3. We have 4 children together, plus 2 (mine from a previous). I work 6hrs away from home, and I am gone for 3 -5 wks ata time. Last week I recived a call with her telling me she wants a divorce. I left my job, and came home the next day. her biggest reason is that she doesn't love me anymore, which in my opionion, is a load of crap. However, I have been home for a week, and the best thing that I can do,( witch leads to my advise) is to give her time and space. We live together, but I sleep on the couch. She leaves when she wants, and comes back home when she wants. I've tried to talk with her, and of course, it comes to a heated discussion, so, for the last 4 days, no talking about "US", and things are slowly getting better.

Answer 3

Divide up the debt and make sure she pays her fair share. my women think that if they leave they can stick the debt with the husband. She is dreaming of a fresh start. You need to through the cold water of reality on her dream. Be fair about and don't try to take advantage of her, but don't be generous about it focus on being fair.