How would you react/what would you do if you found out your spouse?

Question

Went through your phone to see who you had called and who had called you?

Answer 1

I wouldn't care.If you have something to hide you shouldn't be married.My hubby and I often trade off phones.When one or the other of us has forgot to charge our battery.We have nothing to hide from each other.

Answer 2

Well, I do this to my fiance on a regular basis, but I am not the most trusting human being in the world, so it's not necessarily a good example of normal behaviour, but hey. I need to know what is going on with someone I might be dedicating the rest of my life to. Your spouse might think he has a reason to suspect you of behaving a little off lately. If he has no grounds for his suspicious, tell him you do not appreciate his invasion of your privacy and to please stop this at once.

Answer 3

This is a tough one because you don't say why he did it. If you are talking to people you shouldn't be this would give him a reason too. Although he should have asked you first.

Think of it this way if your husband said to you don't go through this drawer because it has private stuff of mine in it.

That would create a lack of trust, if you say don't look at my phone because it's private it's the same thing.

If you have never said don't look at my phone and you're not doing anything bad why would you worry?

Answer 4

ask him why-maybe he was feeling a litte insecure at that moment and just picked up your phone. If you have nothing to hide than who cares if he picks up your phone seriously is it worth fighting over? If he becomes worse than you can seriously be upset.

Answer 5

This is difficult, because it happened to me,it is absolutely intrusive! When there is no trust, or the person has low self esteem, another words paranoid, no matter how much you reassure them, nothing will change, I suggest trying to talk about it, if that does not work you might suggest counseling.

Answer 6

my gf has done that to me 3 times in the past couple months.. the first time, i kpt my cool and explained to her that it was my business, not hers, and she should respect my privacy.. the second time, i yelled at her and told her there would not be a 3rd time without consequence, and if she thought i was cheating on her, to leave. i have more respect for her and me than that and i was insulted.. the third time i caught her, i told her its time to pack up and move out.. she has been on a mission to prove that i am cheating on her.. i work long hours, work my days off, all while she sits home and reaps the benefits. i worked hard so she didnt have to, and that was the thanks she showed me.. my opinion is if you want to know who he is calling, ask him. if he doesnt tell you, well thats his business..if you suspect him of cheating, there are other ways to check without invading his privacy. that is just a low low thing to do.. especially if you are wrong about him.

Answer 7

He has. and b/c i didn't have anything to hide i didn't care. But it kinda made me suspicious about his calls. So one day i decided to check his phone and thats how i found out he was cheating on me.

Answer 8

There may be a trust issue involved. Personally I wouldn't care if my husband did that, cause there ain't a whole lot to see.

Answer 9

He can check your invoice from your phone company never mind looking up your phone memory for who you called!

Answer 10

Sounds like a trust issue?? Some one giving the idea that there others??