Why is is that when a man treats a women like ****, doesn't take care of his kids or denies them, the woman loves him to death? But, when someone treat her like a person, she doen't know how to accept it. Do you have to cheat on black women or treat them like **** in order for them to love you?
2007-08-06 04:53:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well I am a black woman and if a man can love me for me and treat me with respect then that's all I need. I think that's a standard for a woman of any race. What type of "black" women are you dealing with? Why would you think you would have to cheat on a black woman in order for her to love you? Your question is kind of confusing to me.
2007-08-06 04:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you don't have to treat black women like **** in order for them to love you. You just have to be the right person. You cant make anyone love you-regardless of color. A woman's heart is something that is hard for a man to understand. Most of the time, patience, understanding and some space will work. But if you are judgmental of her choices then she will resent you and look the other way!
2007-08-06 05:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by hotchika101 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well statistics show that there are more white women in abusive relationships than blacks. But, let's not go there. Domestic abuse is the subject of my latest short film.
This has nothing to do with black women or hispanic women, or asian women... it's just women. Some women stay with men who abuse them largely because they have come to believe that they deserve that kind of treatment.
Maybe you're just too NICE. Perhaps you're a pushover and the woman you're probably talking about in this post wants more of a man. I don't know your situation, I'm not here to judge you.
What people say they want and what they respond to are often two different things. I've had lots of women tell me they don't kiss or have s e x on the first date and then end up doing just that. I don't judge them, it's something that just happens. A woman might SAY she wants to be treated like a queen, but when you do everything she says and respond to her every whim, she becomes less attracted to you. You have to stand up for yourself and not tolerate things you shouldn't.
Then again, some women have no clue what they want and just say what they think sounds right. Every woman knows that this is the truth.
Also when you make references to people based on race, etc. it makes you seem very, VERY ignorant. I'm not saying that you are, but to judge black women in that manner makes you seem very ignorant and apparent that you do not understand women. Lot's of men don't, but you can start by paying attention and maybe you'll learn a thing or two from them.
2007-08-06 05:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by mmatthews000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think it comes from being to nice at the beginning and so, giving. MOST women say or act like they're so independent but they really not there just manipulative creature that feel they're wright about thing that what a man should be or do for them. I think alot of women pray on certain type of guys ever because they stand out different or maybe their just a little laid back or quit like. But, when they come across that one guy who's not going to entertain the games they so set up to play. We guys become all the names beneath ****. And so, basically when a decent guy comes around and treat them with up most respect they always come what or where and how the last guy did them. so, when one game over. I think they wants to know if they still have it to see what sucka *** ******'s going to put up with their ****. and Bam, starts to ****ing up process they started with playing games with guys and their feelings
2007-08-06 05:59:39 · answer #4 · answered by aj_marshall333 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women "love" these kind of men...because they don't have any self esteem, respect or love for themselves. Their thinking is that only a guy that treats them like chit will love them because they aren't good enough to be loved by someone who is loving and kind.
2007-08-06 04:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just be careful who u pick it can do more harm than good. dont change who u r , find someone who will love unconditionally. dont waste your goodness on an ungrateful person.
2007-08-06 05:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by exoticflava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love knows no color no barrier it is what u sow u reap
trust n honesty n understanding will pave the way to know ur self
2007-08-06 05:03:57 · answer #7 · answered by elankovan l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats color got to do with anything? maybe your just not the right one for that person
2007-08-06 05:05:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pick the right one
nothing to do with COLOR
2007-08-06 11:39:02 · answer #9 · answered by AK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find someone better!!
2007-08-06 04:56:51 · answer #10 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋