I feel like taking them to the grand canyon and leaving them there.
2007-08-06 04:45:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
they disrepect me...I have tried to bond with them or like them ,.......it isn't me you idiots IT IS THEM !
2007-08-06 04:54:45 · update #1
and I would never abuse them...and it was just out of frustration saying I would leave them at the grand canyon. I'm totally frustrated!
2007-08-06 05:01:47 · update #2
Wow. I hope you NEVER have kids. What a thing to say about children. Grow up. Be a man. Maybe they just don't like you cause you're an ***.
2007-08-06 04:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well, maybe her kids behave the way that they do because they have no father figure in their life, I know that you said that you have tried to bond with them, but don't give up on them just yet, if you really want to be with your girlfriend that is. If you & her children cant get along....the relationship will never work. I know that kids can be "Bratty", especially when there is a new person in Moms life. Does she discipline them at all? That can be a factor also. You should also have a heart to heart with your girlfriend & be honest about how you feel, what you want, & what you expect. If you explore all avenues, & everything fails, then you all should just resort to being friends, because anything more will be a waste of everyone's time. Good Luck.
2007-08-06 05:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's a packaged deal. If you can't stand her kids, and won't, or are not willing to get to know and understand them better, you shouldn't be in their lives. The kids will be competing for her attention, you will be doing the same with them. They, if older, will play the two of you against each other, or will try. It will take a lot of communication between you and the GF re: situations as they arise.
Sometimes it can work out, but it takes a lot of work, and a lot of time. You will both need to set limits with the kids as to how far they are allowed to go, and keep consistant.
No abuse, physical, verbal or mental...but a lot of patience...
2007-08-06 04:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by S&yW 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find a different girlfriend. For better or worse she is their mom and that means important things. If you can not stand them you are not likely to be a support to her. Her life is hard enough. Move along. Sorry to be so cold but it's better to leave now before you have a "bratty" kid of your own. Mother of three. Wouldn't trade it for the world.
2007-08-06 04:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's a sad situation.
Because they come as a package deal.
Is it because they get away with too much and don't get disciplined?
If that's the case you might want to talk to your girlfriend about it.
Explain that you just can't stand them getting away with so much and not being corrected.
It isn't "your" place to do the correcting, but if she knows it bothers you, maybe she will correct them more.
Good luck
2007-08-06 04:56:08 · answer #5 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Leave this relationship for her kids' sakes. They deserve better. You knew when you guys got together that it was a package deal. If you don't want the whole package, do them a favor by moving on.
2007-08-06 04:49:57 · answer #6 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Alrighty well I had a child when i met my boyfriend and at first he was a bit iffy about he whole situation but now we have our own and he has treated my son as his also. But if you dont have kids I would really try and meet someone that doesn't , you can start a life together and have kids of your own.
2007-08-06 06:19:24 · answer #7 · answered by Essa L. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Then you need to find a girlfriend without kids...and never have kids of your own!
It's a package deal when children are involved...and many kids can be "bratty". Do her a favor and leave her alone
2007-08-06 04:54:26 · answer #8 · answered by Tina 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Leave the girlfriend. There's plenty of women out there without kids you can't stand.
2007-08-06 04:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Face it. The kids aren't going anywhere, so if you really can't stand them, you are going to have to stop seeing their mother. Frankly, the mother sounds like an idiot to allow her children to spend time with someone who hates them.
2007-08-06 05:55:51 · answer #10 · answered by Tiss 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋