Marriage & Divorce - 6 August 2007

2007-08-06 14:43:03 · 14 answers · asked by Wrong number 5

2007-08-06 14:40:38 · 18 answers · asked by tomasjustiniano 1

The consensus I get from women's responses here -- in general -- is that it is understandable and at least somewhat acceptable for a woman to cheat on her husband or boyfriend. Baring open relationships, it is NOT all right for men to cheat. Am I close? I don't really consider 'cheating' an offense on the part of either one, is they are mature, but the consensus here is that it is more all right for women than men. Right?

2007-08-06 14:34:59 · 31 answers · asked by Sarrafzedehkhoee 7

I keep the house clean, do the laundry, take care of our 2 children(8mo and 2) and am pregnant again. I have tried to give him everything I have, I have tried really hard to always be sweet and loving and not complain. I try not to ask to go do anything, I pretend I am happy at home(I want to go to college so very badly) I make big dinners, I let him have all the closet and dresser space(he has alot of clothes) I had a bit of bleeding and my doctor is worried I may have placenta previa and I am going in tomorrow for an ultrasound to check and he goes three hours away to go drinking with his friends(we are quite broke right now) my doctor is also concerned I may have cervical cancer based on recent pap results but he doesnt seem terribly concerned about that either. I feel like i dont matter, I try so hard to be the kind of wife he wants. Please help me understand what I could do better, I am at a loss. I have tried so many things but it seems worthless in the end.I just want to cry

2007-08-06 14:30:06 · 16 answers · asked by mommy to be of 3 3

A few days ago, my husband and I were having a discussions that got very heated. I eventually lost my temper and hit at him. He then pushed me down, jumped on me and bruised me up pretty bad. He also called me a f*-ing, stupid, b*tch over and over again for about 20 minutes. This is the first time something like this has ever happend in our marriage.

I owe him an apology. I feel like I started it by losing my temper. There are no excuses. Any suggestions for opening the communication channels after such a bad fight?

2007-08-06 14:25:46 · 28 answers · asked by Falina T. Rayon 3

If you do, has it spiced things up, or is it only an act of desperation in an already bad marriage?

2007-08-06 13:44:10 · 17 answers · asked by K M 6

We are getting married in Decemeber. I havent seen my fiance in a year and the next time we meet we will say I do. We have been through a lot.. both made mistakes.

We do email everyday and we are close.. very much so in love. I am wondering if any married people were nervous as hell before they got married!?? I mean there are times I think about it and I have this mini-anxiety attack(if there is such a thing) and as it gets closer ... I dont know. I love him though...

Hes really nervous too. I wonder if we are supposed to be feeling like this getting married and all.

2007-08-06 13:43:23 · 6 answers · asked by Iamscaredformylife 3

A married guy asked me a question when we were hanging out at the pub. the question was if you were married (i am not married just have a partner) and went to town had a few drinks, maybe a dance and a good laugh would you be happy going home alone? Why do you think he would ask me a question like that? It seems confusing to me? Hence asking for others opinions.

2007-08-06 13:36:44 · 17 answers · asked by jiveybaby 1

tell what your culture believes about this issue.

in mine-my hubby is from jordan. woman are looked down upon if they are not cooking homecooked meals, have a perfect house, and kids have perfect grades. the cleaner and more organized the better the wife. my hubby helps a lot .

2007-08-06 13:28:15 · 14 answers · asked by girl 3

i had 2 grandchildren die within 4 months. my husband thinks i'm crazy. I work 40 plus hours a week, keep house in an 11 room home and have 2 cats and a dog, have to pick up my husbands dirty underwear make his dinner and get ,maybe $5.00 a day for my lunch which I have to drive 35 miles one way to work....no I have the perfect life. too bad I have no friends and no family to talk to. I just need to vent. right now i want to scream.

2007-08-06 13:14:50 · 16 answers · asked by hollywood 1

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rate her out of 10? would you go out with her?

2007-08-06 13:00:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-06 12:52:53 · 15 answers · asked by ilih2006 1

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. Neither of us could imagine being apart. When we were first together we were both adament that the other person could never sleep with other people. Now we think that it would just be about sex and wouldn't matter. Is this a normal progression in a relationship? We're not going to become swingers or anything but I'm just wondering. I hear some couples that have been together for a while say that they're relationships have evolved into open relationships. Thoughts?

2007-08-06 12:36:11 · 26 answers · asked by what's the point 4

i've been married for almost 2 years,,things were great at first,,now my sister in law bugs into everything,,n she wants to improve me,,by telling me how to haddle my business at home,,i get so irritated but i cant do anything about it,,i have great relationship with my in laws but sometimes they say things that hurt me(maybe they r not trying to hurt me) but i get so mad,,if i try to tell my husband,he gets over possesed about his parents and always try to prove me wrong,,im pregnant now,,n i get moody sometimes but no1 understands, they think now that i am married,,i should just automatically be responsible for everything,,i dont know what to do,,im so stressed please help,,should i just break the nott with everybody for a while cuz its driving me crazy,,

2007-08-06 12:07:03 · 13 answers · asked by manpreetbrr 1

Im 25,im different from my friends who tell me i will be cause of murder/suicide of my relationship.My guy & me should be bestfriends first confidantes,my guy shouldnt be changed by me as hes man i fell in love with,he needs to have his friends which he had before i came into picture,he shouldnt be spied,checked upon,he should go out with his friends.He can talk to his friends(girls)who he knew before marriage as i have no problem with it since i trust him.I give my guy space.But my friends say im wrong & if i am this way after marriage it will fail.What do you think?

2007-08-06 12:04:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-06 12:00:54 · 11 answers · asked by sw 1

I usually support my husband in EVERYTHING that he does but enough is enough. He just bought a 2007 Cadillic Escalade about a month ago. I knew that we were going to get a new SUV, but we were looking at 2007 demos...Well I had the opportunity to drive it for the first time and I was getting something out of the glove box and I decided t look at the financing paper work just to see. Well, the truck is a 2007 and it was almost $70,000. He keeps telling me that he got a good deal and we can afford it. I am not working and we have 5 children in private school. I am so worried that we cannot afford our new vehicle. I don't know why he didn't talk to me about this, but this explains why he bought it on his way home from work. What I am trying to say is I would rather have a larger house with a used CHEAPER Cadillic. I wish there was something that I could do about this. I am actually angry. This will be our FIRST fight because he lied to me. Any advice on which way I should go.....

2007-08-06 11:59:17 · 7 answers · asked by Med Emergency 3

I have been married for a year and my husband has this female friend. Anyways they exchanged numbers so he has her cell AND house number. We were having sex last week too and he called her name, Am I wrong to be suspicious? Serious answers only.

2007-08-06 11:57:18 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-06 11:57:09 · 9 answers · asked by jeremy_jaybird 1

2007-08-06 11:49:42 · 6 answers · asked by missmess 1

we were married for 7 years, divorced, got back together and now its really over, and its been a month or so. it really sucks but i have no choice but to let go but i am having trouble doing it. i think she has.

2007-08-06 11:49:41 · 7 answers · asked by Brian 4

I came home to the sound of hot, loving relations going on down the hall. I'd figured something was up with the text messages, erased late-night calls, and the distant conversations, but never thought it'd come to this. I left rather than cause a problem, but they knew I'd come in.

I drove around for awhile, tried to clear my head. When I finally decided to come home, the cops were waiting on me, and I was being accused of domestic abuse. There was no evidence and I wasn't there when the police came, so they just made me leave. I drove around in a daze, and accidentally hit a possum. Rather than leave it, I tossed it in the back of the truck. I don't know, seemed the right thing to do.

Upon getting home today, I saw she'd cleaned out everything. Nothing was there but my propane grill, a few dishes, my dog, a camping chair, and my old TV.

So that's why I come to you. Anyone have any good possum recipes that I can cook up on the grill with a big metal pot and a spatula?

2007-08-06 11:48:06 · 11 answers · asked by Armless Joe, Bipedal Foe 6

Hi.
my 27 yr old daughter and grandson have just been on holiday for two and a half weeks abroad to meet a guy who lives there who she has been with 2 years.
They are on their way back soon i am collecting them from the airport soon.
She sounds so sad i am not sure what to say for the best, i told her to mark the calandar and count the days until they meet again, but not sure what else to say or whether not to say anything atall?
I have cleaned all her flat for her and decorated a room she badly wanted doing as a surprise so this will hopefully hel[p a little.
there is only 17 years between us and we dont always see eye to eye but i love her and my grandson with all my heart i just wish i could help take this pain away as when she cries i cry.
Any advice would be so gratefully received.
Thankyou x

2007-08-06 11:47:44 · 17 answers · asked by mum to 5 3

My sons father is trying to get custody of my son and its all about the money. He just doesnt want to pay child support anymore. He hasnt been much of a father up untill he filed for custody. Now hes trying step up and spoil my son so he can appear to be a good father in court and so my son will say he wants to be with him. Could I lose my baby for the fact Im broke and have depression and anxiety issues and my son says he wants to be with him because he doesnt realize what his fathers doing?

2007-08-06 11:23:33 · 16 answers · asked by EMERALDBUTTERFLY 1

2007-08-06 11:17:39 · 17 answers · asked by ? 4

i caught my wife cheating with this indian guy who lives in the state he is a foreign student she met on myspace they exchanged love letters and stuff anyways we had a big fight about it the first time i hacked her email today and i found an email from her mother with his pics on it its like that he knows her mom and stuff i am thinking of packing my stuff and living and stop waisting my time and money on here i feel like she is still talking to him behind my back lease help what should i do ?

2007-08-06 11:16:29 · 40 answers · asked by francois a 1

2007-08-06 11:13:07 · 18 answers · asked by homebuyer 3

2007-08-06 10:43:20 · 16 answers · asked by amrp 1

2007-08-06 10:42:53 · 18 answers · asked by amrp 1

2007-08-06 10:38:06 · 32 answers · asked by paul96967 1