wife cheating again what should i do ???

Question

i caught my wife cheating with this indian guy who lives in the state he is a foreign student she met on myspace they exchanged love letters and stuff anyways we had a big fight about it the first time i hacked her email today and i found an email from her mother with his pics on it its like that he knows her mom and stuff i am thinking of packing my stuff and living and stop waisting my time and money on here i feel like she is still talking to him behind my back lease help what should i do ?

Answer 1

If it happend before it will happen again sadly it's over you can;t change someone like that. Sorry man.

Answer 2

This is a question that doesn't even deserve an ansewer; however since you felt compelled to ask, here goes.
I don't know a man worth his NADS that has to question whether or not to leave a cheating, skanky slut. What has she done for you lately. Heartache you can get anywhere; do you know the value of a man these days? It is not until you stop asking dumb question and begin answering the tough ones that you will ever be happy.

What is it about this woman that makes you happy enough to swallow your own balls to be with her. Seriously, I'm not a counselor or anything, but straighten your back up, man up, and watch the skank start to treat you like a man.

Leave and never come back.

Answer 3

First of all cheating is wrong no matter what the reason is. Secondly you gave her a second chance by being with her. She ruined her chance by your finding emails. If she doesn't learn from her mistake once chances are she might not ever. Leaving is the best thing to do in this case. This will ensure that she will learn her lesson and maybe change her ways. If she really loves you she'd agree to change and not take you for granted. If not, then just move ahead because once you lose trust it is a hard task to get it back. Good luck though!

Answer 4

Do you have children? If not, then pack up your belongings, and leave without so much as a good-bye. And don't look back. If you own property of any significance, then file for divorce before she does. If you own a house, do NOT leave the house, but, rather file for divorce, and fight to remain in the house, with her leaving. The property can be divided later.

If you have children, then you need to see an attorney so that you can divorce her, and still have atleat 50% of their time, with no child support changing hands.

Answer 5

Unfortunately Francois, there is no regeneration for a repeat offender! You either have to grin and bear it, join the festivities by proposing some three-ways, or just let the girl go! There is no reason why you should suffer in any way with her awful behavior. Now her mom is in on it too and they are conniving against you?! That's totally unacceptable! Dump the biatch, man! She doesn't deserve you!

Answer 6

if she is cheating on you twice, it wont stop her from cheating on you again. if you are miserable in your relationship with her and you can't seem to trust her then i think its better if you leave. in a marriage, you pledged your loyalty and to not love no other. dont waste your time being hurt and finding new things about her wife cheating on you. be brave and tell her how you feel and this time walk out of the house. you can find someone better. hey, instead of wasting your money on her why won't you spend it for a vacation for you to find yourself and maybe meet someone new. maybe when you are gone, your wife will realize something...you know the saying "you don't know what you've got until its gone." GOoD LuCk!

Answer 7

You answered your own question. If this has happened more than once then you should see the routine. Do you want to continue to play the fool, waste your money yet alone time? If you do stay for the ride if not GET THE HELL OUTTA THERE. Also if this is your wife you should have left along time ago obviously her vows to you mean nothing.

Answer 8

Oh my god...what does it take for people to leave their cheating spouses?! Honestly.??!!. What??.

.I mean you have the solid proof that she's cheating on you, and for the 2nd time!! Are you serious?

.What in the hell made you stay for another round of cheating?. Let me guess she gave you one of these classic lines.........:

"It was a mistake, it will never happen again!"
"I thought we were through."
"I thought you were cheating on me, so I did it to you."
"I was confused."
"I was vulnerable."
"We were on a break."
"I was mad at you."
"I love you, and it was just a huge mistake."
"I thought you loved me...were supposed to get through this."
"If you loved me, you would forgive me."
"It only happened one time."

*Whatever BS line she gave you, was just that....BS.*
~You know damn well what you need to do, quit sticking around and making yourself look like an idiot PLEASE!~
.LEAVE HER A** she has no respect for you and no regards for your feelings or your marriage.

.....you know what you need to do, so quit playing ring around the rosie with her, and do it. It's called a divorce.

.And if you aren't willing to do what needs to be done, and you feel that "hurt" about it, then don't complain anymore to us.

.Get a divorce and be done with the cheater.
.You can divorce her on the grounds of adultery and emotional stress etc. DO IT.

Answer 9

Without getting mad, communicate with your wife. You should not go snooping around, you found something you did not like. How is she cheating on you if its just a bunch of stuff on line.. maybe her mom is seeing this guy instead. You need to disuss this with your wife without getting so pissed off. Then take it from there. Maybe your wife needs help.

Answer 10

First of all--periods; they come at the end of sentences. People really seem to like them. Second, did you say, 'again'? Again, as in she's done this before? And you're asking what to do? How about taking the sign off your *** that says, "kick me'. That would be good for starters. Divorce is ugly, but at this point, you should view it as inevitable.

Answer 11

I would leave Once a cheater always a Cheater. That's messed up. I would never even Consider doing that to my Husband. And If he ever did that to me He would be out the Door. I am sorry she did that to you.