If you do, has it spiced things up, or is it only an act of desperation in an already bad marriage?
2007-08-06 13:44:10 · 17 answers · asked by K M 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do not let others try to tell you what is "normal". There is very little normal when it comes to relationships. Yes this happens and it is happening more frequently. Google "Cuckold Lifestyle" or "Hotwife Lifestyle" and you will see a lot of people have interest in this.
If your relationship is already bad, this is not a fix for it. You need to heal that first before you invite anyone else to be intimate with you. If you are in a committed and loving relationship and you both want for her to have a lover, it can be a wonderful thing for both of you.
We have done this for over half our marriage and it does work. We are closer and more in love as a couple than we ever have been. I have a commited husband and the freedom to be with others, he has a grateful and adoring wife. He get's to see me through other men's eyes and that is quite different than how a lot of men view their wives.
We are proud of what we do and do not hide it before friends and family, but neither to we push it on them or are overly graphic about the details of our intimate lives.
Monagamy is great but its not the only way.
2007-08-06 15:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
100 % enjoyment and full of fun and for me as a wife it really spice-up the married if only the husband allowed you having sex with the other guy. I had tried this and concluded the best sex ever in my life, before, I thought my hubby was the best but now I can say he is only second best because he didn't gave me full satisfaction sexually. My husband surprised me when he had made an arrangement between him and the other guy. I love mu husband for being kind and understanding to my needs, he is not too jealouse because according to him, jealousy is a sign of insecutrity and selfishness. So I can't imagine my life without my hubby, I love him best!
2007-08-06 16:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have known two different couples who did that and they are now divorced. It is not good for the marriage and there is no respect for each other. If the husband gives his wife permission to have sex with another man then they should get a divorce before another man or woman comes into the picture.
2007-08-06 14:14:39 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I understand why open relationships occur. Think about it...Your marriage is one place you are suppose to be 100% yourself and were you are suppose to be the least selfish. Sounds like if more people were more honest and accepting there would be less divorces. Those who do are just being honest that they are sexually attracted to another person. Its honesty. Its human nature to want to be desired.
2007-08-06 14:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I did it stayed married for another 8 years. Letting my wife **** another just spiced it up.
2015-01-25 16:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never dream of it! Sounds like the marriage is over.
2007-08-06 13:51:16 · answer #6 · answered by msims52 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think it's very sick and regardless of whether you have your hubby's belssing or not, it's adultery!
I can never imagine wanting to have sex with another man (other than my hubby) or asking for my hubby's permission.
When it gets to that point, I think it's a clear indication that it's time to move on.
2007-08-06 13:51:14 · answer #7 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 6⤊ 3⤋
Sounds like the husband doesn't really love his wife very much if he's sharing her with other people.
2007-08-06 13:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by Kate 4 · 4⤊ 5⤋
Good Lord!
I wouldn't. I would also hope my husband never WANTS me to have sex with another man.
2007-08-06 13:57:46 · answer #9 · answered by KC 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Yep honey you got his blessing till the divorce papers get served.
2007-08-06 13:50:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋