I am talking to these two women... One is 19 very naive and innocent... The other is 38 has tons of mileage but seems to care more. What do you recommend?
2007-08-06 09:38:44 · 14 answers · asked by Ronnie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1) How do you know the 19 year old isn't high milage also?
2) It will be pretty annoying trying to get the 19 year old a decent fake id...haha
3) Don't you know any nice 29 year olds
4) If you really have to think about deciding, you don't really like either of them that much....I only date multiple people when neither really fulfills needs....
5) Is this a mother / daugher combo you are deciding between?
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2007-08-06 10:01:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the 38 year old has been there done that, but knows what she wants in life. The 19 year old hasnt even hit 21 yet and we all know how those years are. If you want a fling I say 19, if you want something with more content then 38. 19 may be hot and tight, but with that you get all the young emotional garbage of lifes questions.
On a side note, I would not call someone that is 38 high mileage since you are going to be in those shoes in 8 years.
2007-08-06 16:50:38 · answer #2 · answered by Cap'n Mad Jack Cheddar 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I dont know why these people are under estimating the young one. I am 20 and act much more mature than a regular 20 year old. I think if the 19 yr old is mature enough to know what shes doing and what she wants, Id say give it a shot. But then again, if you feel that the 38 yr old is more caring, loving, and respectful, then I would definanlty recommend the 38 yr old.
ALWAYS remember, do what your heart says and not what people suggest. Make sure the 19 yr old is not a gold digger too = )
Hope this helped = )
2007-08-06 16:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by Latina123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"tons of mileage"???? Wow.
Pick 38 she's closer to your age. Sorry, I misread it.
The advantages of a 38 year old are she is probably financially, and emotionally secure. Sexually she probably has more to offer.
The advantage of a 19 year old are if you want kids you have a better shot. Also if you are insecure (not that you are) her naivete will probably work for you.
2007-08-06 17:14:19 · answer #4 · answered by jade j 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for the older. You'll have better conversations for one. yeah there is some miles as you put it, but some guys LOVE riding around in a hot older mustang.
You'll be much happier with the 38. She cares and is set in her ways, has the parting out of her system and knows what she wants. the 19 will probably be fun for a while but you'll loose track of her quick (unless she's mature then you have a shot) she'l be out running around as soon as she gets bored of you.
2007-08-06 16:44:28 · answer #5 · answered by Sean C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with the 38 year old.
She knows what she wants.
The 19 year old is too young.
Later on in life she will probably find someone else around her own age and find that your too old for her.
She will get bored with you.
Go for the 38! She knows what she is doing.
2007-08-06 16:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by Georgia 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You sound like a pathetic douche-bag! Don't worry, I'm sure both of these lovely ladies will soon realize the truth and get rid of you for good.
2007-08-06 16:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by stinkydoo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You make it sound like shopping for a car. If you really need to ask, your aren't ready to marry either of them.
2007-08-06 16:42:04 · answer #8 · answered by Willie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which ever one makes you the happiest, not only now but potentially in the future.
2007-08-06 16:42:55 · answer #9 · answered by ofsoundmind 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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Check it out.
2007-08-06 16:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋