My husband comes home at 4AM sometimes and says he was at the bar...don't bars close at 2? We live in California, SF Bay to be more precise. He says that he goes to his friends house from there...should I believe that? Doesn't that sound like a croc of poop?
2007-08-06 09:16:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think the bars he goes to are full of coke heads
2007-08-06 09:19:25 · update #1
Why is he going to bars while married? You should be concerned why instead of what time. Your allowing him to walk over you by not say hey this is coming to a stop. No way would I want my husband at a bar or even out at that time of night. At 4 AM, there is nothing good going on.
2007-08-06 09:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing. Most bars close at 2:00 a.m., regardless of where you live. Maybe he is going to his friend's house afterwards, but for what reason? Is he taking somebody he met from the bar over there for sex? He should be coming home to you after going out. Better yet, he shouldn't make it a habit. Honestly, if I were you, I would follow him one night. Ask him what club he's going to and if you already know the name of the place where he hangs out that's even better.
2007-08-06 16:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're truly suspicious, call up a private investigator and check up on it. It's best to know the truth than anything, especially now.
I would hate to find him lying.
Good Luck!
2007-08-06 16:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Cheshire Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be worried. (If it's like an everyday thing). I would think he should be at home with you. But I hope it's nothing bigger than what "he say". Good Luck to you
2007-08-06 16:22:25 · answer #4 · answered by wdh25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely would worry if my husband did not want to spend any of the entire night with me.
2007-08-06 16:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by mel s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow him.
2007-08-06 17:13:14 · answer #6 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with him! If he says no then I would suspect he is hiding something.
2007-08-06 16:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by charm_link 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd be wondering what friends house
2007-08-06 16:25:42 · answer #8 · answered by kittypurrrrrrr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋