With all the weird things going on in my relationship, I suspect my husband of having an affair. Do men intentionally try and make their wives think they are messing around to make her insecure. Or do they play games hoping she will get fed up and leave on her own so he won't feel like the bad guy. Sometimes I think my man tries to purposely want me to be jealous but then he turns around and get agitated if I act suspicious of him. Just when I'm starting to feel comfortable with him again he'll start the cycle all over again.
2007-08-06 09:54:09 · 8 answers · asked by stella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like a control freak playing games with your head..
unless you find more evidence, I doubt he is actually cheating..
Up to you on how much you put up with-- or when you call him on it...
2007-08-06 10:09:23 · answer #1 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your eyes open, most of the time if you suspect someone cheating they are, but not always so get the proof. If he is playing games, that is a dangerous game. I don't think anyone in their right mind would ACT like they are having an affair. If its a game he need to grow up.
2007-08-06 17:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by the_wayward1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I don't think anyone can give you a solid answer on what goes on in your husband's head as to why he is playing games with you. There is obviously something very wrong (maturity, insecurity?). I would hope that you could confront him with it directly and get a straight answer. If not, then that is the real issue. Good luck!
2007-08-06 17:00:27 · answer #3 · answered by seizod 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants attention and most likely he is trying to send you a message that he can get good sex elsewhere if you don't pony up.
He will try a whole gamut of techniques to get you to have more/better sex. If these don't work, he will most likely leave you or sleep around. Sex for guys is like a job to women. If it doesn't provide the lifestyle they want, it will destroy the relationship.
2007-08-06 17:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by Mindlessfun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
trying to make himself feel better by admitting in kidding fashion to you that he is having an affair, if you think he is having an affair go out of town for a weekend, borrow a friends car and watch, it is how I got caught
2007-08-06 17:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by Mistake by The Lake 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be all of those things, Stella. Why don't you try a temporary separation so you can sort your feelings out and regain your perspective? From the sound of it, a brief separation might be good for him as well.
2007-08-06 17:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some men
They want their cake and eat it too!
Want you to cook clean wash their clothes
And than go out and get some younger newer p*ssy!
they don't want a divorce!
They want it all and than some
2007-08-06 16:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by Georgia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm...welcome to the life of being a man. generally it's US who feels this way by the stupid BS games that women play....
2007-08-06 16:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by barhopper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋